I've only told one girl that I love her in my 27 years.... the girl I'm currently dating has everything I could possibly want in a woman - but, how do I know if it's love? How do I know if it's not something less than love - how do I know if it's just attraction? How do I know if it's real?

ReturnOfDOOK said:

when the time's right if it happens you won't need to wonder... you'll just know

If she's seen you nude and still wants you....I'd say it love!

althom said:

althom said:

I hate you. I can't wait to meet you so I can punch you in the nuts.

ReturnOfDOOK said:

PREDOMINANT said:

If u weren't the most attractive person I had ever met, I'd be so pissed off at u right now!

ReturnOfDOOK said:

Hey dook,

I don't belive that "you know it when it happens" bollocks (Sorry NAt). The closest I think you come to this is after time when you affirm what you knew already, ie that you have always loved someone.

If you are both enjoying yourself, then don't worry about labeling it.


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Natsume said:

Why are you laughing? Because he has no nuts? That's just mean.

PREDOMINANT said:

Fuck! You are so damn attractive it makes me sick!!!!!

(on a serious note - yes, DOOK can be serious - thanks for the input... I kinda think that's true...)

Does this "girl" really exist?

althom said:

I hate you. I want to punch you in your kidneys.

althom said:

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PREDOMINANT said:

perfect description!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

I try

5 questions:

• How long have you been together? IMO, the shorter the time period the more likely it's attraction vs. love. But everyone is different - there's really no timetable, just likely scenarios
  
  
• How do you feel when you're with her?
  
  
• How do you feel when you're away from her?
  
  
• Hypothetically, how would you feel about spending the rest of your life with her?
  
  
• How would you feel about spending the rest of your life without her?

I dunno, those questions would have me leaning one way or another but ultimately you just have to know it. You could have crap answers for all these questions & still have some kind of wacko love for her

althom said:

hehe, is there anyone who hasn't seen Dook nude yet?

IstenSzek said:

Sadly, no. ..... Is there anyone here that will ever erase that image out of their minds?

CalhounSq said:

Good questions

I've never once had to ask myself this question...to paraphrase Natisse, I "just knew" it. I never had to wonder, or imagine that maybe I am, maybe I'm not...

The better you know yourself, the more likely you'll know what it is you're feeling, and why...attraction masquerades as love all the time in the hearts and minds of those who don't know themselves very well...

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ReturnOfDOOK said:

Mercy Fucks!!

When she is ugly and you still want to be with her. If she has disgusting habits and you don't care. Although i can't see how a guy can fall in love with either unless he is lonely.

ReturnOfDOOK said:

you stand before her, naked save for a troll doll covering your genitals.

IF she doesn't run away fast, take a chance and tell her how you feel

ReturnOfDOOK said:

Wait several years, then meet someone who is way better-looking than she is, who wants to shag you. Hire someone way better-looking than yourself to try and shag her. If no shagging occurs, I wouldn't say this is necessarily "love", but most definitely "lurve" or perhaps even "luff".

Ace said:

or maybe even lub?

If you have to ask this question, that's a sign.

LleeLlee said:

No. Definitely not lub! That is a whole other kettle of fish, young missy.

Ace said:

I said lub, not lube mister ace.

LleeLlee said:

You're the one with the dirty mind. I am talking about pure-as-the-driven-snow L-U-B.