why do most people deny they masturbate or perform oral sex? these are usually the same people who brag about how much sex they get..and yet..seem like they themselves would be a lame roll in the hay...

i do not deny it... no one ever asks me...

I don't think I know anyone who denies either.
Of course, I generally don't go talking to random strangers about either, either.

CarrieMpls said:

i concur.

the guys i know vehemently deny they carpet munch...which is strange because they are they are the same ones who fuss about why they don't get their knob polished.

Why deny

BE PROUD!!!

Smooches;)

meltwithu said:

CarrieMpls said:

PS - How old are these guys? Could just be an immaturity thing...

meltwithu said:

Serves them right!

I completely agree with u meltwithu....most people do deny that they do either of those thingz. However,I don't think that it should b the topic of conversation,dependin' on who ur talkin' 2. Later

Hell, religious people do these things to avoid sinning. It is about as mainstream as any thing else. People just don't mention it because it is kind of a silly thing to do. You are basically making sweet love to yourself; kind of like you are gay towards yourself. lol.

Taboo??





I was talking with an older ( 58 yrs) male friend of mine about sex and he was shocked when I told him women have anal sex too!

Carpet munching isn't taboo. It's just gross.

Spats said:

It aint taboo. Getin' neck (Oral sex) is so damn good. It feels real 2 me.
Taboo? U think so?
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Rinluv said:

it prolly IS still taboo on a society level (like the older more influential ppl of society)
but 2 each individual it prolly isn't

cuz it ain't 2 me

i &

I think self-pleasure is still taboo because people think if you do it, it's because you can't get somebody.

But the reality is a good sex life has a mix of sex with a lover and sex with self. I had my first orgasm by mysel ... well, me and my teddy bear .

But I digress.

Oral sex, everybody does it. So not taboo. I don't like my carpet munched, though. I only like to give head, not receive it.


The only sex thing that is still taboo is anal sex ... never had a adult boyfriend who wanted to do it. Not even the freaky ones. My teen boyfriend wanted to, but somehow we just couldn't make it work it out. LOL. It was a pretty pitiful bungle.


Oh, and orgies .. they are taboo. Now, I'm not saying I would want regular ones. But a girl should try everything once. I so missed my chance for an orgy in my 20s. I'd never, ever do it now.

I remember the first and last time that i went down there. I couldn't believe i was actually doing it. I thought to myself "This is what i have been reduced to? I have hit rock bottom." I can't believe that there are guys that actually like doing it. You are sticking your face where she goes to the bathroom!!!! Hello????? Gross.

When i have been with girls since then and the subject comes up i make it clear that i don't do that.

yes...

The sweetest taboo.

Spats said:

Do you feel the same way about head?

I have deep respect for the V.
I just don't like "carpet munching" becaue I don't get off and it bores me.


Eating out is no more "gross" than giving head. Neither are gross to me if the two people are clean.

I won't go down on a girl unless it's a serious relationship.

it's been said that oral sex is what makes people curious about bisexual experimentation--what might seem unpopular with someone of the opposite sex (guys going down girls and vice versa) is very commonplace in same-sex hook-ups..my lesbian friend loves to carpet munch and gets lots of offers from supposedly straight women who can't get their men to do it for more than 20 seconds

meltwithu said:

If my wife would be able to handle it, I'd her for hours!

I have taken her into the neighborhood of 30 minutes, though.

I bloody love muff munching

God i cant imagine anywhere i would rather be
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I feel the same way about head. I did it Once when i was a teen just to see what it was like. And the girl had no problem doing but it was a turn off. I just look at it as a degrading act. And once again. It is where a person goes to the bathroom from. I don't undertand why so many girls enjoy doing it. Women i have been with have been willing to do it and are surprised when i have not wanted to. Just the thought of kissing her again after that turns my stomach. It's too bad that is one of the things that comes along with women. Because even when you are with a new one you know that she has probably done it. It's just gross. You have to try and weed them out.

Spats said:

Spats, I used to think giving head was degrading ... until I fell in love and did it.

Then it was ...sort of a worshipful act. You know, on knees in praise of their manhood ("Like a Prayer" by M. ) I wouldn't do it on just any guy. I'd have to really really respect them ... because the whole getting on your knees is soo submissive that if there is not respect, trust and love in a relationship it can be very degrading. With all those elements present, it sorta sacred and beautiful to me.

I do think girls give it too readily to guys who don't earn it or deserve it.

Porn in general is not shocking anymore.

And thats thanx to the internet. It has desentisized kids etc


I dont discuss if i masturbate and when i do, unless if its to get a girl off.


As for going down on a girl, yeah i like it. Its fun. Iam not very good at it though.

I DO BOTH AND I LOVE IT !!!!!

Nothing better than per4ming one of these cunnilinguses, jeez !!!

SynthiaRose said:

How does one earn/deserve head?

There's nothing degrading about it unless you feel it is. Degradation is in the eye of the beholder, so to speak. And heck, some folks like feeling degraded.

I don't get the hang up of 'I wouldn't do it for just anyone' or 'I really have to find the person special'. I don't see a difference between giving head and having sex outright. But I suppose, different strokes... (Pun intended. )

i hate blowjobs both giving and getting. LAME!!!!

but i love Rimjobs both giving and getting!!!!