I'm talking about hair on the:

chest
back
armpit
crotch
legs(?)

What do women and gay men find most attractive? Should guys trim, shave or just let it grow wild?

Depends!

If they do it, they gotta keep up with it religiously.

I once got a razor rash on my boobs, cos this guy, who kinda lay on top of me and did things to my nether regions, had a shaved chest and the stubble was growing in..

YUCK!

Na, I enjoy my hair.

REDBABY said:

I bet that was fun at the office the next day "Nice boob rash Nic" "Thanks I got it last night on the job"

REDBABY said:

But who do think is hotter? A guy who is somewhat hairy or a guy who is mostly hairless?

mdiver said:

its not funny..

sextonseven said:

Hairy

I think men should keep their body hair, short and clean looking.

I prefer a smooth surface on chest and back. I think its very sexy.
But if I like the person, im not going to stop dating/talking to them because of their body hair. I can tell if they are "monster hairy" from first glance usually.
Just my opinion.

I do prefer men to trim their pubes and dont have ultra wild hairy crotches

Its impolite

Just like women should keep theirs neatly trimmed, if they gotta a great bush going on, yet dont wanna brazilian or whatever

Here is an example of too much hair

NSWF!!!

no doormat please

REDBABY said:

Ewwww looks like a beard of bees

looks like a beaver searching a hole.

mdiver said:

chest If it's REALLY bad then a trim is nice
back Hairy backs are disgusting...not so much the lower back
but upper is just nasty!
armpit Nah
crotch YES! Trimming is a must!!!
legs Nah

mdiver said:

its gross, isnt it? and being so close up, I can even smell fish

ufoclub said:

A man should do what he needs to do in order to stay well groomed. The idea that it isn't masculine to be well groomed and care about how you look is retarded.

so... bushy armpits, but trim pubes? How trim? Instructions please.

CarrieLee said:

JDINTERACTIVE said:

I enjoy your hair too.

CarrieMpls said:

CarrieMpls said:

he he! Speaking of which, the beard went but now its back.
[Edited 9/16/05 9:51am]

it depends.

some guys look good with hair some don't

JDINTERACTIVE said:

awwww... you still need to send me a pic of that! I need to see the beard.

ufoclub said:

This is a good point that hasn't been addressed yet. What if your man had two big afros under his arms. Would you ask him to trim those babies down?

if they want.

and if they don't want, then they shouldn't.

Anxiety said:

But what do you prefer on your man? Or does it not matter to you?

ufoclub said:

Hey, I don't kiss armpits so I don't care!

I dunno, just keep it neat down there, no need for jungles.

sextonseven said:

the only thing that matters is that he is what he is, and i know that sounds cheesy, but i promise you, there's an utterly superficial angle to that statement.

i hate body stubble. i hate hate hate it. i feel like i'm with a drag queen when i feel a stubbly chest. it's gross. don't believe me? then look at this puke face right here:

if a guy is naturally smooth, that's cool. if he's naturally hairy, that's cool too. it's part of who that person is - it's his body. if someone is confident and comfortable in his body, then i'll be comfortable with his body too.

I find body hair HUGELY attractive on men. And I can honestly say I don't think I've ever met a man who was too hairy. I say let it all grow like a forest -- that is, if you are cleanly enough to stay well-bathed, etc. After all, hair can trap body odor.

I am generally not a fan of lots of facial hair on most men, though. Men of color often look good in very well manicured goatees; but white men, eastern Asians and Indigenous American men look best clean-shaven, IMHO.

...Now that Amish beard-with-no-mustache thing is an exception. I don't know why, but I find that CRAZY attractive.

chest : get rid of it if youre a persian rug... but if u only got lil cuzzins then it's all good

back: GET IT GONE!!
armpit: dude...leave it
crotch: a trim is nice...no baldness just keep it kept up u kno?
legs(?): WHY!?

REDBABY said: