Just so you know.....


Sex is hype. Think about it.


If you rush, nothing good comes out of it. But if you wait....good things comes to you.

Good things comes to those who wait.

What is this "sex" you's are all talking about??

Missy said:

Not necessarily. Countless stories can be told of sex on the first date that led to successful relationships and even marriage and waiting for sex only to face disaster.

Waiting until marriage is nothing but hysteria and there is nothing wrong with taking it slow but to not ever know what you are getting before you get married, that's just foolish

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I refuse to let you people deface my beliefs. My body is a temple and I am careful what I put in it and it won’t be with someone because we’re dating. Disgusting

If sex is so important, wait until you’re engaged and then have sex. You can still break it off if you’re too lazy to try to improve it

If sex is sooo important, ask that 80-something couple how important is or Christopher Reeve’s wife how important it was or any spouse of someone who is handicapped or has a disease. Ask someone who has married a prisoner. “Oh we can’t have sex now so bye.” Bullshit. Sex isn’t a requirement of dating. YOU DON’T HAVE THAT RIGHT

Janfriend said:

Honey, nobody is defacing your temple Do what you wanna do, if it makes you happy then do it. I still think it's crazy to only have sex after marriage? What is marriage when you boil it down, the piece of paper and the ceremony or the commitment?



I don't think anyone is saying that sexuality is the only component that matters but it does matter!. I wouldn't leave my partner if they became crippled, but I would still crave sex. At I would miss that aspect of our relationship and if I became crippled, my partner has full use of my mouth

I just think this big ole song and dance over sex before marriage is a dumb dance. My own mother told me she hasn't had an orgasm during sex for the last 20 years. My stepdad just doesn't do it for her. To not experience an orgasm with the person you're married to for 2 damn decades, that's just sad.

jerseykrs said:

That explains the 2 kids....

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shanti0608 said:

It's called immaculate conception Shanti. Jers is just pissed cuz God cock blocked him not once but twice!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

shanti0608 said:

They just showed up on my doorstep one day. Looking tattered and complaining no one loved them. I'm a sucker.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Uh, it is an emotional commitment, not a sexual one. I don't understand what everyone is afraid. People seem to be too afraid to discuss theing openly in details






Who's fault is that? I would say your mom's. Your mom should get up and say "muthaphucka you're not getting me off!" and tell him what she wants or better yet, get an instructional video or book or go to a couples workshop, see a sex therapist. It's all about sex health between two commited people

Janfriend said:

So if you date someone for a year or more, it's "disgusting" to have sex w/ them?

Just out of curiousity Jan, how long would you wait before you considered marrying someone?

No one is "defacing your beliefs" - everyone's just stating their opinion Whatever works for you girl

Spats said:

My auntie married a guy she'd never gone to bed with. She wanted kids, he couldn't get it up. She divorced him.

Nomad said:

and here's the killer: once a woman has sex with a guy, suddenly she feels she knows him - even if he was a stranger before. Beware! it's those endorphins

Nomad said:

Exactly...u kinda need to know ur compatible in that way too

Ocean said:

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charlottegelin said:

LAWD

CalhounSq said:

If you feel after a year it is ok to have sex with the one you're dating, more power to you. I don't think it should be an automatic assumption that sex will happen after a year, or two weeks, or two months. I believe in working on a case-by-case basis

To your next question, I would wait one year before considering marriage and have a year-long engagement. It doesn't mean I would want to marry the person I'm with after a year, that's just the minimum. However, I would not be engaged to someone more than a year

Sex is not something you are entitled to, plain amd simple

Janfriend said:

Uhh, who said it was? It's not about anyone being entitled, it's about 2 people having a bond & exploring that bond b/c they both want to.

Do ya thang, girl...


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Well we all know I am saving myself for the one I marry...