I've been thinking about not having sex any more for maybe a year. By some tokens, it seems to make perfect sense. Sex muddles things in one's head and makes things more complicated.

But then again, I enjoy sex thoroughly.

What are some of the pros and cons to not getting a piece of ass all the time?

I hate women when I'm not having sex.


I hate women when I'm having sex.


I have nothing to add here.

jerseykrs2 said:

Fuck, you're worthless.

NEXT!

jerseykrs2 said:

we're not all bad, you know

BOOMshockaLockaBOOM said:

She's atrocious!

Pros- uh...none to be found...


Cons- too many to list...

..the thing that sucks about sex is that if you've never had it..you dont know what you're missing, but always want it...if you have had it, you know what you're missing and always want it...

sinisterpentatonic said:

CockBlocker said:

roodboi said:

Well, it's the great mystery before you get it.

I enjoy it thoroughly, but it seems to muddle things too much. You get false ideas about your true feelings sometimes when someone is merely a fuck.

I tend to seperate emotion from sex as best as any one can, I think, but even that's getting dull.

Nero said:

I pretty much see the point that you're trying to get at in comment. Pretty much, if you're only into 1 night stands then, all you will have is a fuck buddie with no commitment or ties.

However,if you're in a commited relationship and engage in sex, the act takes on more meaning b/c you're actually making loving instead going through the motions.

Whereas with celibacy, It's more about self disiclipline.

People have to try not to have sex?

This is going to sound patronizing, I dont mean it to!

but maybe, if its the feeling thing that getting muddled, you should just not have sex with people who youre unsure about; wait until youre sure or find someone else!

Nero said:

serious answer? ok... these are kinda integrated with being/not being in a relationship too I guess

cons first...
you feel lonely and left out sometimes
you start to doubt your self image and wonder what the turnOFF is

pros...
you get to learn from others mistakes and learn a lot of valuable life lessons
Life doesn't get complicated in that way and you do your own thing whenever wherever

let's make this thread one big fuck-fest!

Who's first?

abierman said:

There was period of my life that I didn't have sex 4 18 years...Since 0 to 18 years old!

MikeMatronik said:

Very funny smart guy


I gotta admit, some girls do take sex too seriously.



its just sex.

BOOMshockaLockaBOOM said:

prove it!

jerseykrs2 said:

this way you will not talk her into bed, Jerse.....

jerseykrs2 said:

That's so fucked up.

Re phrase that to I hate the women I end up being attracted to. That's how I do things. Men are asses....no the men I end up with are asses.

Blame yourself, homie

thesexofit said:

Ahh child! you must learn the female species! Most women are emotional about sex, most of the time. Now it's not majority, but a lot of times yes.

This is why you are 19 and fuckin up. Give time to it child of mine. Good women come to you will.

Nero said:

See, perfect example of why fuck buddies should be easy to find and drama free. But people can't do that anymore. Why? You get the best of both worlds!

Don't get me wrong, I'm in a wonderful relationship right now and am happy with what I have. But when you're NOT in a wonderful relationship you need to get that sexual tension out minus the stress of dating and what not. Why can't people just have fun????

CarrieLee said:

Having fun is great.

But sometimes I realize the ONLY time I'm actually happy is after sex, for instance.

Nero said:

Yeah but that can change...

thesexofit said:

i'm a man

Nero said:

It was that bad, huh?