Fucking hell.

I lasted about 60 days (take that sting), nah seriously, i cant seem to commit to a long term relationship

Was anyone like this at my age? (19)


Shit, the girl Iam in love with is going to uni too. She decided not to go out with me, as it would break her heart when she left (which is now soon)


Oh well, i guess I got issues? Is it that serious? Can anyone relate to this? I seem to "jump" to girl to girl.

this is normal!Especially at your age. So I wouldnt worry about that!

Completely normal, dont worry! Youre overthinking!

yup, its very normal

relax, enjoy the ride... and be safe.

now is the time for you to act a fool so when you DO settle down... you can appreciate what you have

dude, I'm 31 and can't keep one longer than a month it seems.....

Thanx.


I know I got plenty of time, but its odd as my best mate has been with his girl for about 4 years now (he is 19 too). Quite odd I know but it gets me thinking sometimes "why cant i be with a girl and want to stay with a girl for that long".


Breaking up does seem to make me feel fresh again. But sometimes i feel kinda down as this keeps happening. As ingrid said "its just around the corner"

I know what you mean. There are pros and cons to being either single or hooked up. I bet if you asked your mate though, much as he prob loves his girl, he wouldnt mind a bit of what youve got!! The way you feel, everyone else feels it too.

Just take your time, have fun, see who you want to see and if youre not having fun, move on! The proper relationship will come. Plenty time. Also, like Naked said, you gotta have fun now before youre expected to settle down!



Aint the org great for this!


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Goodness, how do you handle all those break ups? I'd probably crawl into a hole and never come out if I went through so many break ups. In fact I nearly do after just one.

CarrieMpls said:

I do what unfortunately many people do, i go out "on the pull" for one night stands. Its sad, but true.

But who knows? I might find a proper girlfriend, but really, my heart is with someone else kinda, which is one of the reasons why I had to break up with my last girl.

thesexofit said:

God, isnt it always!! also unfortunate but true. For most everyone.

susannah said:

Yeah. Ages ago on here, i did a thread about first loves. And most people said they never ever fully get over them. I got a first love heartbreak (who doesn't?) but this girl who is going to uni is the next one.

So i've been in love twice (this is proper deep stuff)

And yeah, so after that old thread of mine, i found out u never fully get over someone u really love. Which is kinda a downer I was hoping maybe after some years, u would.

"the next time I fall in love, it will be with uuuuu". Thats what I wanted to say to the girl I was with, but I didn't love her. And I tried.

at a very young age I always wanted to be in a serioys relationship, that's why I never dated; I knew those guys weren't ready.

Im 21, Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, and its great, its love, and well probably be together for a while yet. We did break up for 6 months, we still officially are now but we dont act that way, and were pretty much about to make it official again now. if we were to break up for good I know it wouldnt just go away. Feelings are much more complex than people give them credit for, they dont ever do as theyre asked! But when I was at school I was crazy about this boy for about 4 years, and we were just friends.Its only since I moved away from where he was that I was able to admit to myself that it was love. I still think about him all the time, and im sure I always will. And this is when Im not heartbroken I mean, this is when Im happy i still think about him! Hell always be very special to me.So no, you probably wont forget about this girl, but it will get easier. And dont doubt that youll find someone else, someone who itll work out with. youre very young yet, you shouldnt rush it. Cliche, but true.

most of all hang in there bub

Maybe, it's your taste in music!

You're too young to settle down! Go have fun, when the timing is right you'll meet that girl and most likely want a long term relationship.