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PrintableIf it was worth it and it was good afterwards, U stiII feeI that vibe Iayin' down next 2 eachother. I say yes there's nothin' wrong with sharin' antimacy on the first date. U gotta feeI it and make it worth doing that U wont regret it. Much Vibe, thats been said, that's important. Some people think I'm kinda cute
But that don't compute when it comes 2 Y-O-U. | |
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CarrieMpls said: Anxiety said: it depends on the vibe, really. sometimes you aren't feeling a mental vibe but you're in lust with each other. other times you feel a strong mental thing and sex would get in the way of it. other times still, you can be equally in love and in lust and doing the naughty on the first night is just the beginning of a beautiful relationship. i don't believe in rules. i believe in trusting instinct.
Yeah, that's what I meant to say.  Marry me!  | |
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Imago777 said:  !!! | |
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Yes. I've had 2 long term relationships with guys I  on the first date  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Yes. I've had 2 long term relationships with guys I
on the first date You met BOTH guys on the same date? And maintained a relationships with both of them? You got balls! | |
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BreddieMercury said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Yes. I've had 2 long term relationships with guys I
on the first date You met BOTH guys on the same date? And maintained a relationships with both of them? You got balls! WOW supa's my hero... i had a dream about him last night You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis | |
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Anxiety said: it depends on the vibe, really. sometimes you aren't feeling a mental vibe but you're in lust with each other. other times you feel a strong mental thing and sex would get in the way of it. other times still, you can be equally in love and in lust and doing the naughty on the first night is just the beginning of a beautiful relationship. i don't believe in rules. i believe in trusting instinct.
Great answer! Anything's possible really. Having said that, I personally feel that a relationship that develops from a friendship is more likely to last. I had sex with my last girlfriend before we were friends, and I don't think I'll ever do that again. We loved each other, but didn't know each other well enough to truly like each other.  | |
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JimmyNothing said: elusivefatale said: Do you believe it's possible for a serious relationship to arise if "you" have sex your first night together? Why or why not?
I'm living proof! I had sex on the first date with a girl and we stayed together for 2 1/2 weeks. During that time we went to the cinema once and the local KFC twice. Now if that's not a serious relationship, I don't know what is!  Exactly. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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Works for me!  | |
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Yes, I had sex on the first date of an 8 year relationship.
M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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I had sex before the first date. | |
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You mean it can also be considered a successful date if there isn't sex on the first date?!? Damn, and all this time I didn't call the girls again.  | |
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JimmyNothing said: elusivefatale said: Do you believe it's possible for a serious relationship to arise if "you" have sex your first night together? Why or why not?
I'm living proof! I had sex on the first date with a girl and we stayed together for 2 1/2 weeks. During that time we went to the cinema once and the local KFC twice. Now if that's not a serious relationship, I don't know what is! That's not living! | |
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I work backwards. Have sex....date them....become friends.
M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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BreddieMercury said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Yes. I've had 2 long term relationships with guys I
on the first date You met BOTH guys on the same date? And maintained a relationships with both of them? You got balls! What can I say? My talent knows no bounds 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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ehuffnsd said: BreddieMercury said: You met BOTH guys on the same date? And maintained a relationships with both of them? You got balls! WOW supa's my hero... i had a dream about him last night I hope there was some going on  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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elusivefatale said: Do you believe it's possible for a serious relationship to arise if "you" have sex your first night together? Why or why not?
4 me it is, since it happened several times in my life. So much better 2 take a little bit more time, though... | |
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DexMSR said Because over here in these fucked up American States...we "sheep" have allowed society and religion to place a certain "taboo" over sex, when it is something that should be enjoyed as the most wonderful barometer of pleasure and desire, then the hypocritical society that WE ARE will have every fucking magazine cover tell us how to sexually please, sexually empower, sexually objectify the human body just to make a dollar!!!
OK...jumping off the soapbox!  [Edited 8/26/05 12:24pm] VOTE....EARLY | |
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BreddieMercury said: Well, it depends on whether the person you're having sex with is your actual date or not.
Totally
If you're getting together just for sex - then probably not. But if it's a real date and you're connecting BIG TIME on several levels... it's possible. VOTE....EARLY | |
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ella731 said: 
prime example that it can work rounding the corner to a year here ???!!!??? | |
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You know why girls who have sex on the first evening are boring ?
Cuz you have to wait for the all afternoon. Having sex is one of the best things in the world, as soon as you feel ready for it... | |
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Yes..Why Not? If one is always going to worry and be Conventional and NOT just go with FEELING then one is a Fool. I think ANYTHING is Possible. | |
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Reply to 'Sex on the first date..'
It happens. Can it last? If you love each other!? | |
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If she was really hot i would. But i wouldn't see her again. | |
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Spats said: If she was really hot i would. But i wouldn't see her again.
Wow I guess u would judge her but not urself | |
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Spats said: If she was really hot i would. But i wouldn't see her again.
 you need jesus. | |
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He sounds STUPID and OLD! If ya have The HOTS For SOMEONE why should you PRETEND and go on 3 weeks full of Dinner Dates? It's Game Playing. Physical Attraction is POWERFUL. If Ya Really are Hot and Wanting Each Other why FRONT? Prince says DO ME BABY.....It's BULLSHIT to Call Women WHORES for LIKINg SEX and Wanting it AS MUCH OR MORE Than A MAN! GROW-UP SPATS!!!  | |
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Zelaira said: GROW-UP SPATS!!!
POST OF THE YEAR!   | |
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