it always amazes me when someone gets all on their soapbox and tells others what they should do with their life, how they should live it, whats ok and whats not ok... you know the type, they always have words about YOUR life

its great to sit back and watch the decisions they make, isnt it ? i mean COME ON NOW, you've got to be kidding me

its my firm opinion that more and more people these days are just completely fucked in the head

Just tell them to shut their faces.

nakedpianoplayer said:

i know exactly what you mean like their lives have turned out so fantastic anyway
life is for living the way you want to live it and everybody is entitled to make their own mistakes and pick themselves back up

jerseykrs said:

doggonewalkies said:

yeah, thats true


but, im speaking more of the people that try and talk shit about any aspect of your life, always want to be the 'director' in your corner, telling you what to do..... then they go out and do some shit thats like 15 X more stupid than you ever even THOUGHT of doing

its just cracks me the fuck up

give 'em fruitcake for Christmas. That's always a very unpleasent hint, if you can't just come out and say it.

Imago777 said:

thats ok hun, i dont even think at this point they are worth the fruitcake now THATS bad isnt it ?

Well, when someone asks for advice, or shares their personal life/problems, they should expect people to tell them their opinions of what should be done, no?

Heavenly said:

and there it is

nakedpianoplayer said:

Can I just interject that none of this really means anything? I mean, the Org is fun and great but it's not a substitute for the real world, is it? While we're busily tapping away on our keypads, real life is getting on without us. I would say, don't ever make the mistake of thinking that friends on the Org can be classed in the same category as friends in the real world.

The Org is a supplement, not a substitute.

Heavenly said:

hey thats true .... IF you asked for their help and opinions

im talking someone that just comes in and offers up thier solutions to your issues its hard to explain i guess

BreddieMercury said:

AMEN brother!


To me the org is like cable T.V. I spend too many hours on it, but in the end, I forget about it when I'm "living" my daily life.

BreddieMercury said:

hey thats great advice

but, ummmm, im talking about in real life

its not so much an org thing

nakedpianoplayer said:

You didn't make the distinction - I stand corrected then.

BreddieMercury said:

im sorry hun i guess i didnt really say what i was talking about ....


as far as the org goes, great place to hang out and talk shit, thats about all i have to say on that one

nakedpianoplayer said:

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/157691

nakedpianoplayer said:

Yeah, me too, don't people who do that get you mad? Like they know even better than you do how your life should be lived. Have a few people like that in my life and I find that I don't tell them anything about what I'm doing/thinking/feeling, because I know that they will just give me their unwanted/unsolicited opinion. Hate bossy people!
[Edited 8/21/05 8:08am]

nakedpianoplayer said:

I knew what you meant, naked.

BreddieMercury said:

thank you....

thats very sweet of you

psychodelicide said:

thanks girl im glad somebody was feelin me































wait, that doesnt sound right does it ???

nakedpianoplayer said:

TheRealFiness said:

nakedpianoplayer said:

Oh i understand you ... if you didnt ask or offer up info in a conversation then they really dont have a place

but it is just a common thing a lot of people do ... bad habbit or what ever you want to call it

you could simply interrupt their lecture by saying "did i ask you to tell me how/what i should do ? "

Mach said:

i really should do that

its just that this person really believes that i 'need' their opinion or something im not into telling folks how i really feel if it means i have to hurt them i usually just make myself miserable by holding it in instead....

nakedpianoplayer said:

There is the third option of just letting them talk, laughing to yourself about them, and don't bother with it at all. I know plenty of people, where I just pretend to listnen and then get on with my life when they finish talking.

nakedpianoplayer said:

paintsprayer said:

awwwww paintsprayer

how are ya hun ?? havent seen you in ages

and, i TOTALLY know what youre talking about with the listening/not listening thing i find that making out a grocery list in my head while planning the weeks next meals usually is enough time to let them get whatever they have to say off their chest

seriously, great to see ya