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Reply #30 posted 08/18/05 6:21am

NatisseG

TheFrog said:

Christopher said:

loads of cool things


cheers, that's extremely interesting. i like the idea that when you work against fate and make a decision contrary to its general pull (for want of a better word), those are your difficult periods. hmmm

reminds me of the "Footprints" poem / short story about God carrying you through your darkest times. Except in the fate version, you've brought it on yourself. Which is quite damning, in a way.

The chain thing i'd never heard before. I've heard about coughing, and ears going red, both meaning that someone's thinking of you. lol But i shall look out for that one as well, now. :thumsbup:


I love that poem nod I don't believe in God or Jesus or anything but I think it's a beautiful message nod
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Reply #31 posted 08/18/05 6:22am

TheFrog

CarrieMpls said:

I don't believe in fate. My path is my own to choose and follow.
I think they almost always are truly coincidences, or if not can be easily explained.
3.


Thanks, Carrie. wink It sounds like you're pretty clear about both of those. Does that help in your decision-making processes? You being fully certain that you are the master of your own life?

Please don't answer if it's too personal, but are you an atheist? Just wonderin'.
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Reply #32 posted 08/18/05 6:22am

ella731

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TheFrog said:

ella731 said:



mad

Ill see you in court wanker


slapper. smile



fate is a bitch
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Reply #33 posted 08/18/05 6:23am

TheFrog

NatisseG said:

TheFrog said:



cheers, that's extremely interesting. i like the idea that when you work against fate and make a decision contrary to its general pull (for want of a better word), those are your difficult periods. hmmm

reminds me of the "Footprints" poem / short story about God carrying you through your darkest times. Except in the fate version, you've brought it on yourself. Which is quite damning, in a way.

The chain thing i'd never heard before. I've heard about coughing, and ears going red, both meaning that someone's thinking of you. lol But i shall look out for that one as well, now. :thumsbup:


I love that poem nod I don't believe in God or Jesus or anything but I think it's a beautiful message nod


Me too. nod

It conjures up a wonderful image, with a wonderful message, and still gives me the ol' shivers down the spine when i read it. smile
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Reply #34 posted 08/18/05 6:24am

TheFrog

ella731 said:

TheFrog said:



slapper. smile


fate is a bitch


ok, fate. smile
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Reply #35 posted 08/18/05 6:25am

NatisseG

TheFrog said:

NatisseG said:



I love that poem nod I don't believe in God or Jesus or anything but I think it's a beautiful message nod


Me too. nod

It conjures up a wonderful image, with a wonderful message, and still gives me the ol' shivers down the spine when i read it. smile


exactly highfive

hug
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Reply #36 posted 08/18/05 6:35am

CarrieMpls

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TheFrog said:

CarrieMpls said:

I don't believe in fate. My path is my own to choose and follow.
I think they almost always are truly coincidences, or if not can be easily explained.
3.


Thanks, Carrie. wink It sounds like you're pretty clear about both of those. Does that help in your decision-making processes? You being fully certain that you are the master of your own life?

Please don't answer if it's too personal, but are you an atheist? Just wonderin'.


Yes and no. I make my own choices, I deal with the consequences, good and bad. Things that are out of my control are just that. I don't think it would help me or hinder me in any way to think that things are 'supposed' to be one way or another. Things just are.
And yes, for the most part, I'm an atheist. I could say I'm agnostic, as I admit I really don't know how we all came to be, there's no irrefutable proof one way or the other for the existence of a god, blah blah blah. But deep in my heart and head, I know there isn't. I can't prove it. But I just know. I suppose that's a sort of faith. So, yeah, I'm basically an atheist. lol.
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Reply #37 posted 08/18/05 6:37am

Christopher

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TheFrog said:

Christopher said:

loads of cool things


cheers, that's extremely interesting. i like the idea that when you work against fate and make a decision contrary to its general pull (for want of a better word), those are your difficult periods. hmmm

reminds me of the "Footprints" poem / short story about God carrying you through your darkest times. Except in the fate version, you've brought it on yourself. Which is quite damning, in a way.

The chain thing i'd never heard before. I've heard about coughing, and ears going red, both meaning that someone's thinking of you. lol But i shall look out for that one as well, now. :thumsbup:



well i think you get to where you're supposed to be...but sometimes you took the long way or you show up to the party with a few extra cuts and scraps smile and i dont think i know that poem..but google will show me the way thumbs up!

kinda like couldbuster trying to go to town in his 1981 rabbit with no hood...and it takes 5hrs to get there but he makes it. hah!


anyhoo lol coughing and ears going red never heard that.ive also heard if you kiss an m&m to the sky you can eat it after it fell on the floor.


but anyhoo...why are we picking numbers? is it a lotto? love
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Reply #38 posted 08/18/05 6:45am

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i'm afraid to choose either fate or coincidence, for fear of pissing one or the other of them off.

so, i'll post here but i won't commit myself either way boxed
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Reply #39 posted 08/18/05 6:48am

ella731

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Christopher said:

TheFrog said:



cheers, that's extremely interesting. i like the idea that when you work against fate and make a decision contrary to its general pull (for want of a better word), those are your difficult periods. hmmm

reminds me of the "Footprints" poem / short story about God carrying you through your darkest times. Except in the fate version, you've brought it on yourself. Which is quite damning, in a way.

The chain thing i'd never heard before. I've heard about coughing, and ears going red, both meaning that someone's thinking of you. lol But i shall look out for that one as well, now. :thumsbup:



well i think you get to where you're supposed to be...but sometimes you took the long way or you show up to the party with a few extra cuts and scraps smile and i dont think i know that poem..but google will show me the way thumbs up!

kinda like couldbuster trying to go to town in his 1981 rabbit with no hood...and it takes 5hrs to get there but he makes it. hah!


anyhoo lol coughing and ears going red never heard that.ive also heard if you kiss an m&m to the sky you can eat it after it fell on the floor.


but anyhoo...why are we picking numbers?? is it a lottolove



Im afraid of what we would be winning
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Reply #40 posted 08/18/05 6:53am

AsylumUtopia

TheFrog said:

AsylumUtopia said:

Fate: No - I don't like the idea that I'm not in control of my own life.

Coincidence: No, there are no coincidences, they are only a reflection of choices we have made or have yet to make.

Number: 23, of course.


Thanks, AU. It's interesting that some are saying that there are no coincidences - which one might assume would mean that they believed in fate. At least, that's how my primitive mind would work. It's clear that this is wrong, and that the two do not go hand in hand, necessarily, in most people's minds.

23.... wink

Actually, my answers were slightly tongue-in-cheek answers based on some of the ideas touched on in The Matrix, but they do reflect, to a certain extent, what I believe, or at least what I would like to believe.

The concept of fate is disturbing to me - that the choices I make are not really of my own making, but are merely instructions in some design over which I have no control - that brings me down the road of creationism and deity's, and I choose not to believe that. Fate is the anthithesis of freedom, which is probably why I find it disturbing - I much prefer the idea that I can make my own choices.

As for coincidence - my thoughts on this stem from the time when I was reading the Celestine Prophesy, the first few chapters of which deal mainly with coincidence. One of the suggestions made in the book is to start noting every coincidence and to look out for them. During the period of time I was reading the book practically everything I did and saw seemed to be in some way or another coincidental, to the point where it started to freak me out - I was having dreams of future events, and was constantly having "I was just thinking of you" and "I wouldn't be surprised if such-n-such happened" thoughts. I'm not sure I can explain this properly but it's something like this : Coincidences were happening so regularly that I had to conclude that either everything is coincidence (which doesn't make sense to me), or coincidence doesn't really exist, and if we are receptive to it, we realise that this is just the way reality works, and that what we perceive to be coincidence is just the result of the choices we have made, or reminders of the choices we have yet to make.

Actually, I'm not explaining this very well at all, and sadly I'm at work so I don't have the time to think it through properly. Maybe later.


I chose 23 because it's the universal number of synchronicity, and without doubt the most interesting number there is : http://yiri.maniac.com/23.html
Lemmy, Bowie, Prince, Leonard. RIP.
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Reply #41 posted 08/19/05 2:38am

TheFrog

I was sitting on the train this morning, sipping my latte and staring out the window, and I started to think that if things are going to be determined by fate, i want the whole thing. None of this 'general trends' towards things happening, but you have some sort of say.

All or nothing, please.

I want absolute pre-determination, or absolute freedom and, basically, chaos.

I'll freely admit that I prefer the latter. And since there is no way of knowing for sure (while alive, at least) I think it's probably healthy to believe that you are absolutely your own master, and utterly culpable.
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Reply #42 posted 08/19/05 4:51am

Reincarnate

I believe in both; we plan our lives before we arrive, plan the people we will meet and the events that we will experience because we want to experience and learn. But when we're here, free will plays a part and we determine whether to ignore the signs and paths presented to us or to follow them. Life flows more smoothly when we go with the flow - if we push against it, we may have to come back and try again.
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Reply #43 posted 08/19/05 5:37am

Number23

AsylumUtopia said:


I chose 23 because it's the universal number of synchronicity, and without doubt the most interesting number there is : http://yiri.maniac.com/23.html


The world won't listen. smile
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Reply #44 posted 08/19/05 5:42am

AsylumUtopia

Number23 said:

AsylumUtopia said:


I chose 23 because it's the universal number of synchronicity, and without doubt the most interesting number there is : http://yiri.maniac.com/23.html


smile

I assume this is why you chose it as your org name ?



Reincarnate said

I believe in both; we plan our lives before we arrive, plan the people we will meet and the events that we will experience because we want to experience and learn. But when we're here, free will plays a part and we determine whether to ignore the signs and paths presented to us or to follow them. Life flows more smoothly when we go with the flow - if we push against it, we may have to come back and try again.

I like that, it's a good way of looking at it.
Lemmy, Bowie, Prince, Leonard. RIP.
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Reply #45 posted 08/19/05 5:43am

GeorgeWBush

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ella731 said:

I believe that fate brought me here to save this thread

oh boy, did you fail smile
The enormous gap between what US leaders do in the world and what Americans think their leaders are doing is one of the great propaganda accomplishments of the dominant political mythology. - Michael Parenti
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Reply #46 posted 08/19/05 5:48am

Number23

AsylumUtopia said:[quote]

Number23 said:


I assume this is why you chose it as your org name ?


Aye, Robert Anton Wilson's eight circuit mind theory and the fact Prince enjoyed the same number of 'positions'.
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Reply #47 posted 08/19/05 6:06am

AsylumUtopia

Number23 said:

Aye, Robert Anton Wilson's eight circuit mind theory and the fact Prince enjoyed the same number of 'positions'.

Yay, another RAW fan. Have you been to his website ? http://www.rawilson.com/main.shtml Possibly the best use of server space on the entire web.


BTW, it was Tim Leary who came up with the 8 circuits theory.
Lemmy, Bowie, Prince, Leonard. RIP.
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Reply #48 posted 08/19/05 6:08am

Cloudbuster

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I believe in neither.

26.

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Reply #49 posted 08/19/05 6:09am

ella731

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GeorgeWBush said:

ella731 said:

I believe that fate brought me here to save this thread

oh boy, did you fail smile



There was no real saving this one


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Reply #50 posted 08/19/05 6:21am

Nero

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No fate.

I pick coinky-dink.

And the number 31.
Insatiable taught me everything I know about balls.

"I was born dancing! I came dancing out of my mom's vagina! Moonwalking and stuff..." - Number23 on the telphone.
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Reply #51 posted 08/19/05 6:28am

Reincarnate

AsylumUtopia said:

Reincarnate said

I believe in both; we plan our lives before we arrive, plan the people we will meet and the events that we will experience because we want to experience and learn. But when we're here, free will plays a part and we determine whether to ignore the signs and paths presented to us or to follow them. Life flows more smoothly when we go with the flow - if we push against it, we may have to come back and try again.

I like that, it's a good way of looking at it.


Thankyou touched
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Reply #52 posted 08/19/05 9:36am

Samaar

.. do you believe that every decision you make is entirely down to your free-will, and those decisions (together with chance) determine the path your life takes?


nod



...are they always coincidences (and we just conveniently forget all the times that the phone doesn't ring when we think of somebody), or is there something else at work here?



More than likely smile


My number is 13
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Reply #53 posted 08/19/05 9:47am

Ace

TheFrog said:

Do you believe in fate?

No.

"I was just thinking of you!" you say to a friend who calls you, for the first time in a year, out of the blue.

Coincidence?

Yes.

Pick a number

69.
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Reply #54 posted 08/19/05 3:20pm

Samaar

Ace said:

TheFrog said:

Do you believe in fate?

No.


Yes.

Pick a number

69.



good number nod
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Reply #55 posted 08/19/05 10:10pm

Sweeny79

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Fate.

8
In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.
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Reply #56 posted 08/19/05 10:43pm

Heavenly

You are given the opportunities and it's up to you to make the best of them.

127
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Reply #57 posted 08/19/05 10:49pm

ReturnOfDOOK

I like TheFrog. nod
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Reply #58 posted 08/20/05 4:20am

AsylumUtopia

ReturnOfDOOK said:

I like TheFrog. nod

Is that fate or coincidence ?
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