dreamfactory313 said:

I suppose you think you're being clever. But it's apparent you just don't get it.

I can't speak for anyone but myself. But "sexy" is SO much more than how much weight someone is carrying around. I've dated large men before, I've dated men of all shapes and sizes and varying degrees of what other might find 'good-looking' and found them all to be incredibly attractive. I wouldn't have dated them otherwise.

As for the pure aesthetic - personality, intelligence, humour, kindness, et al. aside - there are plenty of men who are larger who carry themselves well, have a sense of style, know how to take care of themselves (yes, I realize you'll say they're not but that's BS). All of that is part of just the visual effect and one "flaw" isn't gonna automatically make someone unattractive aesthetically.

applekisses said:

And what is this hypocrasy in which u speak?
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dreamfactory313 said:

We must have similar tastes Although, I didn't see anything about Orson Welles in his post

Let's make a list of fat celebrites and judge whether they are sexy or not.

Hey! It'll be fun!




John Candy - mildy funny, but not sexy
John Belushi - very funny, a bit attractive
Jack Black - hilarious, sexy most of the time, sometimes just an ass

Who else can we think of??

Let's make a list of fat celebrites and judge whether they are sexy or not.

Hey! It'll be fun!




John Candy - mildy funny, but not sexy
John Belushi - very funny, a bit attractive
Jack Black - hilarious, sexy most of the time, sometimes just an ass

Who else can we think of??

Let's make a list of fat celebrites and judge whether they are sexy or not.

Hey! It'll be fun!




John Candy - mildy funny, but not sexy
John Belushi - very funny, a bit attractive
Jack Black - hilarious, sexy most of the time, sometimes just an ass

Who else can we think of??

dreamfactory313 said:

I'm not speaking "in" any hypocrasy...but, I think you are trying to prove that the "fat acceptance movement folks" on the other thread are all about accepting overweight women, but don't find overweight men attractive.

applekisses said:

Stop moving in on my play!

Interesting choice of words: "militia", "movement".

You sound as if you feel like you're fighting something, Dreamfactory, or that someone is out to get you?

Which reminds me, has anyone been watching "Starved" on the F/X Channel? It's NOT a reality show, it's a sitcom featuring a support group for people with eating disorders.....it's got some really dark, great humor.

Imago777 said:

Listen, bitch...you ain't gonna take my man!

applekisses said:

Bingo. U know its true as well as I do. If it were, Mo'Nique would have had fat men draped all over the contestants on her tv show but she didnt.

applekisses said:

applekisses said:

Bingo. U know its true as well as I do. If it were, Mo'Nique would have had fat men draped all over the contestants on her tv show but she didnt.

dreamfactory313 said:

Ahhhhh...so, you admit this whole thread was to prove this "point" of yours...
BULLSEYE!

dreamfactory313 said:

And then that would've given the message that ONLY big men and women are--or should be--attracted to one another, and that any handsome height/weight proportionate men would never be attracted to a bigger woman.

AnotherLoverToo said:

These are not my words. There is really a such thing as the FAT ACCEPTANCE MOVEMENT. Do a Google search. Im not making this shit up.
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dreamfactory313 said:

Ahhhhh...so, you admit this whole thread was to prove this "point" of yours...
BULLSEYE!

CarrieMpls said:

OH GOD! How can I forget Jack Black...he's so fucking hot!!!!!
I would marry that man in a milli-second.

applekisses said:

Of course it is. I find it hard to believe that women are fanaticizing about John Goodman and Drew Carey when they are fucking their husbands, but hey, thats just me.

dreamfactory313 said:

Yes, I know this. But your words also included "militia".....a far more extreme term which implies an army and fighting.
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applekisses said:

Of course it is. I find it hard to believe that women are fanaticizing about John Goodman and Drew Carey when they are fucking their husbands, but hey, thats just me.

dreamfactory313 said:

And then that would've given the message that ONLY big men and women are--or should be--attracted to one another, and that any handsome height/weight proportionate men would never be attracted to a bigger woman.

dreamfactory313 said:

But hey, that's it. You may be able to learn from this. You don't understand that others may have a differnt standard of beauty.

And when I'm with my man, I'm not thinking of anyone else. That's just me.

dreamfactory313 said:

But hey, that's it. You may be able to learn from this. You don't understand that others may have a differnt standard of beauty.

And when I'm with my man, I'm not thinking of anyone else. That's just me.

AnotherLoverToo said:

The word militia doesnt always mean taking up arms in a literal sense. Its a metaphor for those apart of this movement who are aggressively preddling it and they are extremely aggressive.

AnotherLoverToo said:

But if all fat people are gorgeous, why not include men in the movement or do we have to wait for Bruce Bruce to have abeauty pagent?

AnotherLoverToo said:

But if all fat people are gorgeous, why not include men in the movement or do we have to wait for Bruce Bruce to have abeauty pagent?