So I have this friend right she has a boyfriend of three years. They've had their ups and downs and such like any normal couple. She met this guy who is a lot older than her she told me she liked him but hes seriously into her. She doesn't know what to do she told me she doesn't want to get involved with him because she thinks he is bad news. He won't leave her alone and she was wondering what would be best for her to do. He lives far away from her (cali) her (Maine) and they met on the computer. He constantly threatens her because she made the mistake of telling him she had a thing for him and she really liked him. She was going through avery tough time with her boyfriend at the moment. Now he won't leave her be. She asked for my help and I told her what I thought was right but then again I want your input. What is your honest opinion on what to do?

Tell her to dump the computer bf, he's abusive. There is a cyber police department, report him.

She should stay with her current bf and she should tell him, she has to be truthful.

did she tell this older guy any of her personal info? e.g. her full name, phone number, address?

So - I going to assume the question is - Should your friend go with the older guy or stay with her boyfriend?

If so - my response is.....

Since you met the older guy on the computer - do is not contact the older guy via the computer (or any other way) anymore and/or you can change the name you use on the computer. Since you haven't met face to face - he doesn't now what you look like or where you live.

As for your current boyfriend...is the relationship worth salvaging?

If not - take a relationship break and or go to the stripper club....lol I'm sorry - that's my fantasy.

yeah, tell her not to contact the other guy any more, he sounds like bad news.

Sounds possessive. A relationship that lasts 3 years is not worth throwing

away, people are allowed to get itchy feet but shell regret it if she acts on i

it...




Print this thread and show it to her so she knows it not just your own personal opinion!

Nobody should tolerate threatening behaviour. Tell her to stop contacting the computer guy. If he has her personal details/address etc she should do as luv4u suggests if he persists in threatening her.