In some quarters at least it seems I've been hard on my wife here of late. Well, I think from now on it's best I don't refer to her or post about her, but before that I'd like to say for the record that I love my wife and appreciate her greatly. My love and devotion would be obvious to some, and such commitment that I demonstrate doesn't materialise from nothing. Everyone has their faults, and perhaps I've been wrong to air my feelings about her here, but I value the advice and opinions of some here and that's why I've been open at times about what's been happening in our lives. From now on I'll hold that back and you'll get simply Fauxie, but that's only half of who I am. Mock if you will.



My wife and our nephew.

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I think its best you tell her that and not on a thread

You have a beautiful wife, and just look at your child.

Be true to those that love you Fauxie, all else is irrelevent.

sag10 said:

Its not their baby but it is a beautiful baby

You're wife is beautiful! Is that you baby, too?

We all have our ups and downs, Faux. Don't feel bad. You were just looking for some other opinions and that's one thing you don't have to worry about at the org, there's plenty.

Hope things are getting better for you.

REDFEATHERS said:

Yes, it's our nephew.

And yes he is beautiful. He's not here now though. Staying with his mum's family. I'm starting to miss him, the cheeky monkey.

Marriage is a struggle Nick. It can be a beautiful struggle, but it is not easy. Props on your decision. This is easily your best thread this week.

REDFEATHERS said:

She knows already. I just noticed that lately I've been a little negative here and there and people have commented. Obviously I don't think it's fair to her that I portray her in a negative light here, and indeed in any light at all, and that's why this thread is to put it straight and put an end to that.

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jerseykrs said:

I don't know whether I want you to mean that last sentence or not.

i don't know anything about you being negative in relation to her, but what you wrote is very sweet.

and you have a very beautiful wife, if i may say so.

You have a very pretty wife, and she seems to be very sweet as well.
You're lucky to have her, so stop bitching. You make me ill.
















ok, so you dont' make me ill. But be happy for what you have. And be happy you're not working 50+ hours a week with a bunch of overpayed, lathargic idiots, only to drive home exhausted with noone to come home to.

Your wife is beautiful, the impression I've always had is that you love her very much, may that continue to grow.

Imago777 said:

someone needs a man hug!!

I must not have seen the posts you're referring to, because I never felt as if you've been negative about your wife at all...even with the post on my "Straight Answers" thread, I guess I didn't see it as even slightly serious. You've always put across the vibe that you love her beyond doubt.

I wouldn't worry... ...and she is beautiful. *smile* You're both lucky to have found that type of love.

I haven't gotten anything negative either. Maybe just wanting to work some things out, is all. Nothing negative about wanting to make your relationship better, stronger, etc.
And to tell the truth, most of us ladies swoon when we hear how you talk about her, how you met, etc. You seem to have found something both good and real. Best of luck to you both.

TheFrog said:

Just add a pic of you with beard in here and I will be able to die happy.

Imago777 said:

You have nappy dugout issues.

NoodleSoup said:

if i could, i would.

but not because i want you to die, of course. just so that if you did pop it (which i stress i do NOT want to happen), it would be a happy death.

TheFrog said:

I KNEW you were on my side.

AB's here too.

Alright, I don't want this thread to be any more self-absorbed than it already is, so let's get it locked, and thank you to those who posted these positive responses. I didn't want to be misunderstood. I wanted to make myself clear, but I'm sensitive to being self-indulgent here!!!

I like you, and i like the way you an your wife get along


nicely.

things arent perfect, but a relationship is about working at it.

and you seem to be doing a wondeful job