What is more important in a relationship? ..ok everyone will say love ,but some men leave their wives and cheat on them just because they wont have sex with them or do certain sexual things.Women do it too i'm sure,but is love that important,i'm bored and in need of sex and love so please share your thoughts with me

first

Few men leave or cheat because just the sex isn't good. Usually when the sex is not good something else in the relationship is wrong. Men aren't quite as shallow as you think they are.

and to answer the question....

both are very important but i do believe love is more important to have in a long term relationship....but definately don't give up on having great sex. i couldn't stay with someone i didn't love...sex we can work on but if the love ain't there, cya.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

No i said some men,i know not all men are shallow ,just i hear of guys leaving their wives/girlfriends as they had no sex or bad sex.

Both!!

Nikki23 said:

I still say out of all the times you've heard that excuse very few times that actually was the main reason. You don't leave your gf/wife because the sex is bad to go jerk off to porn. That doesn't make any sense.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

Nah. You normally leave them because they "changed too much."

JoeyMFinCoco said:

I saw a thread here about someones friend leaving his wife as he met someone else and the sex was amazing with her ,and they had a child etc.I think it can break up some relationships,but i suppose there could be other problems too.

With love comes great sex...

but i prefer love above everything...
"all u need is love"

SammiJ said:

Sammi you are just loved up right now .. i just don't think i really have been in love yet..i think its so easy to say I love you ,but not mean it like some guys will say anything to get what they want.

Nikki23 said:

The child did not break up the relationship. That relationship was already in trouble. My 2 cents.

In a relationship, love is important because you can get sex anywhere. You might as well stay single and play the field if you're just looking to do the funky panda dance. I'd be reluctant to enter a relationship if all it was based on was sex. Those fail fast.

luv4u said:

I know ,no i meant he was married they had a child then he had an affair and was going to leave his wife,the sex was great with this new woman.I never said the child broke them up.

Trust me, you can have mind blowing sex without love. Love is not needed for that. There is no point in being with someone if the sex stinks.

Spats said:

so you're looking 2 die alone then...not knowing what love is?
is that it?

I know what love is and i know what great sex is. I will pick great sex anyday. Love is too hard to find. And if you do find it , it does not guarantee great sex. For great sex all you need is lust.Unless the people involved have lost interest in sex, then the relationship will not last with a lousy sex life. And as the years go on the sex gets less and less thrilling. My married friends have told me.

Love for sure.

I honestly think sex is over-rated, especially here on the org.

Listen, I love good sex, but there are quite a number of things that I like better than sex.

Spats said:

so how old are you all then?

bkw said:

I'd say, Love. But Sex too.
They seem to lead right into one another.
If the the love is true. If it is real.
Everyone will see it in their own way.

july said:

My nigga! How's luvy?

Be in love with the one ur having sex with

What's more important in a relationship?!

Love, of course.

Sex

p0pstar said:

Hussy

Both

i think conceivably, i could have a relationship without sex, in the same way i could have sex without a relationship. but no way could i have a relationship without love. so there.

TheFrog said:

Are you saying that just sex is not considered a relationship then