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Printablebkw said: SynthiaRose said: Sex definitely.
Love is a very flat emotion compared with how multi-dimensional sex can be. Not that most people will ever know this. Because sex is so shallow in American culture ... not at all revered as being spiritually potent like in the East. But Sex is communmication on so many levels. I'm mean it's physical, mental, emotional, psychological, telepathic, chemical, chimerical, spiritual ... God. It's beyond what I can convey. There are things two people can exchange through sex that you can't with words or anything else. It involves all the senses and dares you to act and express something for the other person, even if it's hate. (but dont' go there... that's for psychos) Anyway ... If I loved someone, but had very mild sex with them ... i do believe I would honestly fall out of love with them. But if the sex is raw, primal, profound, and really, really in sync I will fall in love with that person by the third fuck. And we can work everythign else out later.. Good luck on that search  I'm not searching. It'll come or it won't. It's happened before. And don't roll your eyes at me. It's not like I said I'd take a one-night stand over love. My description of the value of sex is not typical. It's transcendent. | |
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I think both suck so it really doesn't matter  | |
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jerseykrs said: can we just get drunk and pass out instead?
sounds like a better time to me. | |
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Love. You can get sex from anybody, and it don't have to mean a thing, but when someone tells you that they love you, then their emotions are connected to you..that is if you love them too.
Love is better too, because it makes things so complicated but in a good way...because the more you learn from it.... Sex is complicated too, especially when you don't use protection and getting someone u don't really like pregnant...sex complication is sort of bad... I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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analbolique said: july said: I'd say, Love.
 But Sex too. 
They seem to lead right into one another. If the the love is true. If it is real. Everyone will see it in their own way.  My nigga! How's luvy?   
She's fine. lol... | |
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I think that both love and sex are both equally important in a relationship. You can have fantastic sex with someone but not have any emotional connection with them or you can love someone and the sex may not be great. In either of these cases, I think the relationship will die a death. I'll leave graffiti where you've never been kissed | |
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bkw said: Love for sure.
I honestly think sex is over-rated, especially here on the org. Listen, I love good sex, but there are quite a number of things that I like better than sex. BEER?????  I'll leave graffiti where you've never been kissed | |
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Hotlegs said: Nikki23 said: What is more important in a relationship? ..ok everyone will say love ,but some men leave their wives and cheat on them just because they wont have sex with them or do certain sexual things.Women do it too i'm sure,but is love that important,i'm bored and in need of sex and love so please share your thoughts with me
 More or less, it depends on the caliber of the relationship b/c there are all kinds. Now, if your speaking in reference to a monagamous relationship, I would say love is important. Whereas, if your refering to a fuck buddy, then sex would obiviously be more important b/c your emphasis is on lust not so much emotion thus, you're going through the motions just to releive your urge. [Edited 7/18/05 14:17pm] Very true  Well saidI'll leave graffiti where you've never been kissed | |
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