I have some guy friends whose girlfriends are jealous retards...they treat them like animals yet they continue to be with them. I don't get it. I ask them do they see a future with these catty girls and they say no, but yet they are still with them. Guys what is up with this???

i honestly don't know a single guy who's had this problem.

the three i can think of, who found out that their other half was treating them terribly, got out of the relationship very quickly.
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missfee said:

No idea..I thouhgt it was you women who liked the bad boys, myself..

missfee said:

it works both was i see lots of women with men who treat them like i can't figure it out either

Miss Fee, why all the sad topics? You okay?

I dunno, same can be said about a lot of women. Perhaps when you love someone you don't just see who they are, but you also see the potential they have. Unfortunately they usually show that side of them not nearly as often as they should.

People are attracted to people because of how the other person makes them feel.
It's that simple. The men you reference are getting something out of the relationship...something feels good.

It is all about insecurity.. the bullies are insecure, and treat their partners like that to make themselves feel bigger and better.. it just doesnt work, and is a very unhealthy situation to be in..

Fleshofmyflesh said:

I agree. No one does anything without some sort of payoff.

i think everyone has to go through different relationships at different times within their lives ...

so they can learn and grow and experience

how would you know a wonderful nurturing relationship if you had not had one that was bad ?