there's this girl. she's way younger than me. that's not the problem.

she has a boyfriend and i really like her and she really likes me. we did it.

she's not in a happy relationship anyway. whadda i do?

Tell the boyfriend. Immediately.



P.S. Tell her father too.

2the9s said:

ok so that really is your idea.

idiot.

How young is way younger than me?

2the9s said:

it's better if you write it in a note to the boyfriend and then carbon copy the father on it.

Or better yet, book the whole lot of you on Jerry Springer and do it in style.

Sweeny79 said:

like 11 years.....she's 21.

it's not what YOU should do
she's gotta make up her mind...
she's gotta figure out what she wants...obviously it sounds like she wants u...if she wants 2 be with u enuff she'll break it off with the bf in a rational manner...

i know he won't take it well...but, if the feeling isn't there, things grow stale...(which is what everyone's afraid of...)
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GreenLantern said:

i don't see a problem with that
it's maturity that's important.

edit: if she's 21 she's old enough (or she SHOULD be) to know what she wants right now...
[Edited 7/13/05 18:41pm]

Anxiety said:

GreenLantern said:

Well at least she's an adult.


What can ya do? Just wait it out see what happens.

She's 21...that's a bit too young and too early into adulthood for her to really "know" what she wants when it comes to her heart and emotions.

I'd give her space, and remind her that you're there if she needs you to be, however she needs you to be...

Do as Nelly did in the song "Dilemma": I'll wait for my cue, just listen, play my position and like a short stop I'll pick up everything mami hittin' and in no time I'm gonna make this one here mine."


So, yeah, always be right there as her friend giving support and showing you care through everything. Then whenever he messes up just slide in like Prince did in The Marrying Kind


Warning: taking advice from pop songs could be hazardous to your health

2the9s said:

SynthiaRose said:

I take all my advice from Ozzy Osbourn.

althom said:

I thought you GAVE all your advice to Ozzy Ozbourne....