is it cheating if you catch them and you ask to join in and they say okay?

just asking. not that, like, it's ever happened or, uh...

MANDINGO DICK PIE!!!

Anxiety said:

uh huh....keep diggin that hole Anx

actually kidding aside, I think you know whats up. I think you should tell him your suspicions. I mean why should either of you stay in a relationship if it's not what you want.

If you both love each other, I think you can work it out.

Heavenly said:

says the biggest cheat on the org (just kidding)

is it cheating if you catch them and you ask to join in and they say okay?

just asking. not that, like, it's ever happened or, uh...

MANDINGO DICK PIE!!!

EvErSoLeSa said:

Anxiety said:

uh huh....keep diggin that hole Anx

EvErSoLeSa said:

i thought it was a dick pie, not an asshole pie

EvErSoLeSa said:

i thought it was a dick pie, not an asshole pie

missfee said:

missfee said:

ewww, who wants ass pie?

EvErSoLeSa said:

if they keep digging, then they might hit some chocolate fudge...

superspaceboy said:

oh i'm not in this situation, i was bored tonight and was just thinking of topics to come up with on here.

hey do you guys consider kissing another person cheating?

hey do you guys consider kissing another person cheating?

is it cheating if you catch them and you ask to join in and they say okay?

just asking. not that, like, it's ever happened or, uh...

MANDINGO DICK PIE!!!

missfee said:

I still think you should tell him.

missfee said:

what kind of a kiss? A peck on the lips or cheeks or a full blown passionate kiss?

EvErSoLeSa said:

both? any kind of kissing...

to me I think that once you allow yourself to have feelings for another person that is cheating.

missfee said:

you mean like emotional cheating?

EvErSoLeSa said:

i guess you could call it that. but it is true, don't when you catch feelings for someone, you want to spend most of your time with them? well, if you are already with someone, and you catch feelings for someone else, that is a tell tale sign that you don't want to be with the person that you are with.

missfee said:

Here is another question.....which would be worse....physical cheating or emotional cheating?
[Edited 7/8/05 21:37pm]

EvErSoLeSa said:

thats a great question. any type of cheating is wrong and painful, but if i had to choose which is worst, i'd have to say emotional cheating because it isn't just about getting sex, your emotions are into it, you really want to be with this other person. i think its sad, if you can't be honest with whoever you are in a relationship with that you know you really don't see yourself with in the future, then you are a coward.

which in your opinion is worst?

i dunno. i have a really laxed attitude on the whole thing. if someone i was in a relationship with someone who said they cheated and fooled around with someone and it was just some dumb sexual thing, i'd call my partner an ass and i would want to make sure they didn't catch anything, but i could get over it. if, however, someone was having a full-blown affair with someone that i learned they had some kind of emotional attachment to, then i gotta kick 'em to the curb.

everyone gets dumb and horny, and sometimes it gets the best of people. i'd like to think higher of myself and the person i'm with, but i guess i've just had enough life experience that such shenanigans don't really bother me, other than STD concerns and the like. emotional attachments are a far deeper thing, and you're dealing with loyalties and alliances and entire parts of someone's emotional character in which you are not permitted to be part of. THAT grosses me out.

i dunno. i have a really laxed attitude on the whole thing. if i was in a relationship with someone who said they cheated and fooled around with someone and it was just some dumb sexual thing, i'd call my partner an ass and i would want to make sure they didn't catch anything, but i could get over it. if, however, someone was having a full-blown affair with someone that i learned they had some kind of emotional attachment to, then i gotta kick 'em to the curb.

everyone gets dumb and horny, and sometimes it gets the best of people. i'd like to think higher of myself and the person i'm with, but i guess i've just had enough life experience that such shenanigans don't really bother me, other than STD concerns and the like. emotional attachments are a far deeper thing, and you're dealing with loyalties and alliances and entire parts of someone's emotional character in which you are not permitted to be part of. THAT grosses me out.

what goes around comes around.