He is my list. What do you think are signs that your mate may be cheating on you?

1) no sex
2) all the regular phone calls throughout the day stop
3) he/she calls you by another name
4) when you walk in the computer room, they immediately close out the screen
5) secret messages are found

6) your partner is in bed naked with someone who isn't you

Anxiety said:

missfee said:

Sounds more like loss of interest.
Oh, and for No.4, nobody likes it when they get walked in while they're watching porn.
If you've found secret messages, then it depends on what the messages say.

7) when your mate is out supposedly with her "girls" or his "boys", it seems that your best friend is no where to be found...

EvErSoLeSa said:

it's a subtle one, but i think it explains itself when you think about it.

Heavenly said:

if the message said "meet me at 2 for more dessert" would you think that its nothing?
[Edited 7/8/05 21:10pm]

Anxiety said:

maybe

missfee said:

I say he's having an affair with the waiter

missfee said:

i like the 5th one. I remember using lemon juice and a lightbulb to send secret notes back and forth to my friends all this time. ha ha ha oh the good times....good times.

missfee said:

is liking pie a crime?

Heavenly said:

Anxiety said:

When dieting it is

superspaceboy said:

i remember using lemon juice and a light bulb to [oh holy crap, snipped as snipped can be] then i'd giggle and pull out the string.

Anxiety said:

if the pie is on a pair of tits or a big mandingo dick it is...

missfee said:

yum. mandingo dick pie.

Anxiety said:

I heard you like string.

missfee said:

If he or she is cheating, kick them to the curb. Once a cheater always a cheater.

superspaceboy said:

yeah well, you heard right.

Anxiety said:

wow you guys are funny...

missfee said:

did a mandingo kill your ba-bay?

luv4u said:

i agree, but some people feel that if their love is strong enough to get past the betrayal, then its okay to forgive and stay with that person. But i disagree with that.
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luv4u said:

damn that's harsh. I'd at least confront them or talk about it first.

sometimes you just cant help yourself

luv4u said:

I disagree with most cliches. As right as they might be most of the time, there's still some times that they are wrong.

Mazerati said:

then you shouldn't be in a committment with someone if you feel this way. there's nothing wrong with testing fields, but don't hurt anyone's heart in the process...I guess its all about knowing what you want...
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Heavenly said:

says the biggest cheat on the org (just kidding)

is it cheating if you catch them and you ask to join in and they say okay?

just asking. not that, like, it's ever happened or, uh...

MANDINGO DICK PIE!!!

actually kidding aside, I think you know whats up. I think you should tell him your suspicions. I mean why should either of you stay in a relationship if it's not what you want.

If you both love each other, I think you can work it out.

superspaceboy said: