Nero said:

Sex without dirty talk is like a day without sunshine.

Ace said:

You're a Canadian, so you don't matter.

Nero said:

This said by someone from Kentucky.

Ace said:

Kentucky sucks, but at least it isn't Canada.

Nero said:

Nero likes to be called a "dirty, little Kentucky whore" when she's getting it.

Ace said:

Not so much, Canuck... Not so much.

SynthiaRose said:

yeah thats the best. all the fancy moves don't mean a thing if both are not into it and its not pleasurable.

Nero said:

Nero said:

you know i totally agree with this thread. i really don't think a lot of fancy moves are necessary in bed.

in fact i told my ex the same thing - the boxing gloves, helmet, ballet shoes and trapeze were pretty much overkill for a simple intimate encounter

JoeyMFinCoco said:

I'm not even joking. If some man wanted me to call him daddy, I'd throw up on him.

Nero said:

Ah, the "Roman shower", how appropriate.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

ella731 said:

Don't shake your big ol' head at me, missy! She said it, not me.

Never underestimate the power of staring into each other's eyes and saying much more without saying a word.

gemini13 said:

I can't stand a silent fuck.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

That's not fucking, that's love

gemini13 said:

Love doesn't make my eyes roll back while I shoot my load all over her face.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

Get some in her hair too...it brings so much "bounce & body" to the hair!

JoeyMFinCoco said:

It should.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

Love makes you do all kinds of things

Nero said:

LOL. I have a female version of the Oedipus complex.
I truly believe Daddys are the first boyfriend a girl should ever have (figuratively speaking!)

My dad was always this distant figure that i was never close too which bred a longing and love for him
(only in the abstract sense. He was an asshole in real life)
.
Anyway, I'm always looking for paternal replacement in my lovers.
(And I love the Destiny Child's song "Sexy Daddy" )

While I wouldn't say it out loud in public, I would totally whisper in my guy's ear "Fuck me, Daddy!" especially if he's really protective of me and dominant ...


I don't like the reverse, however: being called mommy. Although mami is slowly replacing shortie as the endearing term of the day.

In other preference news:
if I want a guy to make love to me, I prefer saying "take me."

If he's doing the seduction, he shouldn't use the bland "Let's make love." He should say "Let's fuck." It's forceful and strong. I love it!

He should NOT say "Let's bone" or "Let's screw" "Let's rub" or "Let me hit that" That too crass.

He gets nothing then.

ella731 said:

Just not that one!

SynthiaRose said:

Interesting.....

Hey, I bet a lot of women think this way. Kudos to you for admitting it. My father was a big part of my childhood, I spent most of my time with him. My boyfriend kids me all the time because he says that I can't seem to sustain a relationship with a man. The reason, he says, is because I am constantly measuring them up to my father, who was a police officer, captain of the pistol team for San Jose PD, and general John Wayne type of guy. They just don't make them like him anymore. So maybe my bf is right.
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JoeyMFinCoco said:

gemini13 said:

Women either want someone who's just like daddy or they want a guy who will piss daddy off. Do not underestimate the power of daddy issues!

JoeyMFinCoco said:

JoeyMFinCoco said:

Ain't that the damn truth!!

My best friend's dad was a cop as well. She ended up marrying this total scumbag convict, and I suspect it was done partly to piss off her dad. What an idiot, though, because he beats on her and she does nothing about it.

I don't do a whole lot of talking unless the lady I'm workin with likes that.I'm a hippy type guy, I like to really work the lady whose giving her body to me so if I have to get fancy I will.