it's a big thing to do

hope it goes well for her.

You must be pretty special to her

for support

"a friend of mine"



yeah right...













































just kidding Tisse




I'm sure she knows what a kind person you
are and therefore chose to tell you first.

evilp0p said:

it's huge...and I think the reason she's told me and especially told me NOT TO TELL her twin is that her twin kinda gives her a hard time teasing her that she might be gay because most of her friends are

I'm so proud of her for telling me but I really feel for her and just can't believe me of all people she tells before her twin!

"she" will tell them when "she" feels ready.

BTW, I didn't know you had a twin sister

Heavenly said:

lol dag

Althom?

So much for not telling anyone!
Thanks alot Nat.

Fleshofmyflesh said:

you have no idea who I'm talking about flesh...I haven't mentioned any names not that anyone here knows her anyway

EarthAirFireWater said:

Nat, I was trying to be humorous....implying that it was ME who is gay and confided in you....
[Edited 6/30/05 8:43am]

Fleshofmyflesh said:

I'm thick...sorry

EarthAirFireWater said:

The best thing about this for you is to know that this is another step towards her coming out to her family and friends once and for all. Must feel pretty good to be a helping hand in that, huh?

rocknrolldave said:

I hope it's the first step, yeah...that way she can be TRULY herself and be happy

EarthAirFireWater said:

Fauxie said:

Hang on, that's where I'm supposed to say 'No you're not, you're very smart and wonderful and lovely" etc. etc.

EarthAirFireWater said:

HEY! That's MY job round here!

Fauxie said:

nope...I didn't say that to fish for compliments hon don't worry

EarthAirFireWater said:

Thanks to you she will get the courage to continue to come out. I wonder if her twin is gay. I know 3 sets of twins where 1 of the sets are both gay. I also know 3 brother, in a family of 4 brothers and 1 sister, that are gay. The funny thing is that they didn't know about each other for a long time.


M

Just out of interest, without asking for personal info, what was the general gist of your reply?

I dunno what I would say...probably something like:



Oh that's nice, mate...um....Bloddy weather keeps changing doesn't it? One minute hot, next it's all overcast..thunder too....etc etc

EarthAirFireWater said:

Clap trap! Everyone knows that all gay people have two heads and can shoot lasers from their belly buttons.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Hence Frankie Goes To Hollywood's line "Shoot me with your laser beam..."

And were abducted by aliens

rocknrolldave said:

Good work Frankie.

rocknrolldave said:

lol I haven't replied yet...I don't want to reply via email I want to call her and talk to her properly about it if she says she can't talk because of other people around her then I'll call back another time

I figure something as lifechanging as this for her is worth a proper talk I might even go down to Brighton on Sunday and see her for the day...hey YEAH!! that's what I'll do

EarthAirFireWater said:

Oh, never mind. You're having compliments now whether you like it or not.

You're kind-hearted and genuine, and that's likely the reason you were told first.

EarthAirFireWater said:

Um..if she lives in Brighton, it's a safe bet all her family have twigged it already

But yeah, a phone call is a thoughtful idea. Nice one.

Zaphod Beeblebrox is gay, everybody knows that, and see? Count the heads

Fauxie said:

thank you gorgeous but I truly don't think I'm the first she's told...she has closer friends than me and her closest one's are all gay so I'm thinking she's talked to them about how she's feeling I hope so anyway...I truly hope an email wasn't the first time she's told anyone