.....yet do men want to change women?

Kinda unfair huh?

A woman cannot change a man and vice versa..

Basically - what ya see is what ya get

'cause they're all manipulative bitches

(just kidding)

Why do men want women to stay the same and never change?

luv4u said:

? In relationships I've been in, its "stop going out so much" or "all u think about is getting laid". I never say " stop fussing over ur wieght" or whatever?


Women just wanna manipulate ur ass most the time. Only 1 girl I have had (for a long time mind) liked me and didn't want to change me in anyway.

CarrieMpls said:

Barry white said it best.

Or ray parker jr. "i love u like u r"

CarrieMpls said:

Coz they have this warped thinking that a womans body goes back to the way it was before she had kids.

Women want to change and keep; men avoid that step and just move on.

I'd imagine the men play it smarter.

thesexofit said:

awwww... that's sweet.


But to answer, I don't know. I think everyone changes, or should, throughout life to some extent. I know I'm constantly learning and growing. I think it's natural to want the best out of your partner. I think women have a tendency to want to nurture their partners to be the best person they can be. Of course, there's nurturing and then there's nagging, and there are some things you can't change about anyone; ultimately, a person has to want to change themselves. It's a matter of accepting someone for who they are, not who you want them to be.

luv4u said:

Well, that does not apply to me. But I c ur point though.

Women get a bad rap past mid 30's. Men can look hot in their 40's or even 50's, women usually cant.

luv4u said:

I couldn't agree with you more Luv4u. Now, if you don't want to accept a person faults in the relationship then its time to leave'em. You can't make anybody over. I have never tried nor would I ever want too do it. So people in relationship are so damn shallow.
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Change me, mold me, hold me. Do whatever you want with me, ladies

Heavenly said:

You hurt my brain.

Caligula said:

What brain?

Heavenly said:

can take care of you

Hotlegs said:

I'll be in LA in 6-7 weeks
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Heavenly said:

Not even clever, unfortunately.

Caligula said:

Who the fuck are you and what do you want from me?

Heavenly said:

here's a quoke that i found,,,maybe this will help out

SOME PEOPLE,,THOSE WHO THINK IT'S EVER THEIR PLACE TO CHANGE SOMEONE
,,WILL FIND NEW "FAULTS" WHEN OLD ONES GET "FIXED".

try that on for size !!!!

Heavenly said:

I am Caligula, and I want absolutely nothing from you.

Caligula said:

Good. Because I want to give you absolutely nothing.

Hotlegs said:

You said it. I wouldn't be with a woman who tried that sh!t. I am what I am. If I'm not good enough for you, then let's part friends.

Both try to change each other. Sometimes it's a good thing, but usually it just causes more problems, I think.

Actually, I have no idea. I don't want to be on this thread anymore.

Taxi!

uPtoWnNY said:

Dewrede said:

oh go and eat some meat

Dewrede said:

sorry!

ok

Dewrede said:

now take back what you said