Is it fair or acurate to assess a person by their emotional wounds?

Maybe. I think it is significant if the same thing has happened to a person over and over and over.

by emotional wounds only ?

or take the wounding into the whole picture ?


to assess by emotional wounds ... no

to take that wounding into your overall assessment ... yes

Mach said:

YES

Is it fair or acurate to assess anyone full stop?

It depends on who's doing the judging and whether or not the wounded is attending to those wounds. our wounds shape us, sometimes for the worse, sometimes for the better. If you refuse to give someone a chance because they have been wounded, you may have lost out on a person who has healed miraculously.