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Do you sabotage yourself in relationships? Do you back when you see yourself getting close to that person? When you see yourself falling for someone...do you back off? [Edited 6/24/05 8:43am] | |
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I used to. | |
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Number23 said: I used to.
How did you train yourself not to do that? | |
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AlienX2050 said: Number23 said: I used to.
How did you train yourself not to do that? You know when it's right to give yourself up. | |
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No, I've never done that but it's been done to me.
I wish that I could do that. | |
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i usually stand my ground
( i have to make myself stand still and not step forward until the person takes a step forward also ) i dont often go back if i have put my intention forward | |
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i used to mess things up 'cause i didn't want to set myself up for anything that i thought i couldn't handle. | |
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I don't fall for people... what does "fall" mean? No, I have not allowed myself to get too close to many since leaving my marriage. I analyze heavily. Once upon a time... there was a lovely soul far away. He seemed kinda crazy, you know... really out there, if you know what I mean. 
I did this a lot ---->  I told this soul I would not, could not do a long distant relationship, NO way, NO how! Fuck no.
Well, through time... I handled some of my business here and through months of self-reflection... I decided, I want to go for it! So no, I think all has reason... it's not a case of me "chickening out". 
All I have to do is wait and see... and live in the moment. 
... [Edited 6/24/05 9:16am] | |
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No, but it takes me a long time to commit myself to someone. I have to be sure of their feelings before I'll allow myself to fall completely. | |
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Freespirit said:
I don't fall for people... what does "fall" mean? No, I have not allowed myself to get too close to many since leaving my marriage. I analyze heavily. Once upon a time... there was a lovely soul far away. He seemed kinda crazy, you know... really out there, if you know what I mean.
I did this a lot ----> I told this soul I would not, could not do a long distant relationship, NO way, NO how! Fuck no.
Well, through time... I handled some of my business here and through months of self-reflection... I decided, I want to go for it! So no, I think all has reason... it's not a case of me "chickening out".
All I have to do is wait and see... and live in the moment.
... [Edited 6/24/05 9:16am] 
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