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Reply #90 posted 06/25/05 5:48pm

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For me the nail in the coffin was when he said, "there's no such thing as a chemical imbalance in the body." hammer If a person can come out w/ a physical deformity or disease of some sort how the fuck is he SO certain that a chemical imbalance is impossible & all hype? That's some arrogant shit. I know he's on the "I know the history of psychology" tip but damn man, look @ what's before you - people have shit wrong w/ them all the time, anything is possible. Him acting like he knows all is just goofy...



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Reply #91 posted 06/25/05 6:17pm

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Anti-depressants don’t really fix depression, they just make a few companies rich and your ass dependant, or eventually sick.
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Reply #92 posted 06/25/05 6:41pm

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lilgish said:

Anti-depressants don’t really fix depression, they just make a few companies rich and your ass dependant, or eventually sick.


They can definitely help.
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Reply #93 posted 06/25/05 6:43pm

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BOOM BITCHES!

Cruise is gone, and guess who's going to take his place!

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Reply #94 posted 06/25/05 6:43pm

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JoeyMFinCoco said:

lilgish said:

Anti-depressants don’t really fix depression, they just make a few companies rich and your ass dependant, or eventually sick.


They can definitely help.


not fix, I'll suggest some better methods.

Brace yourselves.....
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Reply #95 posted 06/25/05 6:49pm

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lilgish said:

JoeyMFinCoco said:



They can definitely help.


not fix, I'll suggest some better methods.

Brace yourselves.....


There are plenty of meds that don't (permanently) fix anything, but that doesn't mean they're ineffective. A lot of times depression is a symptom of a certain disorder and if you want to treat the disorder medication can definitely help.
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Reply #96 posted 06/25/05 7:04pm

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JoeyMFinCoco said:

lilgish said:



not fix, I'll suggest some better methods.

Brace yourselves.....


There are plenty of meds that don't (permanently) fix anything, but that doesn't mean they're ineffective. A lot of times depression is a symptom of a certain disorder and if you want to treat the disorder medication can definitely help.


Natural herbs are much better and healthier, not dependent and cheaper.

Bach Flower Remedies

St. Johns Wort

KAVA KAVA


A lot of these supposed disorders and ailments are only specific to this culture, the diagnoses that are made in most cases are used only to stimulate more drug production.
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Reply #97 posted 06/25/05 7:06pm

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All this talk about "fixing" vs. "helping" - there's a lot of things we do medically that don't absolutely "fix" people but most definitely "help" them live better, more productive lives. It's a case by case thing - if meds can "help" somebody with their problems I'm all for it. I know folks who are on them & they're better for it, happier, more able to function & actually tolerable to be around...

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Reply #98 posted 06/25/05 7:06pm

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lilgish said:

Anti-depressants don’t really fix depression, they just make a few companies rich and your ass dependant, or eventually sick.


I think your stance is a bit shortsighted.

My mom is a diabetic. Her daily insulin shots don't "fix" her diabetes, either, but if she didn't take them, she'd be dead.

My dad has high blood pressure. He takes medication to control it. The medication doesn't "fix" his high blood pressure but it prevents him from having a stroke and dying.

My aunt is hypothyroid. She takes daily thyroid medication that doesn't "fix" her thyroid, but the medication prevents all sorts of nasty symptoms from ruining the quality of her life.

And again I'll dredge up the example of my bipolar nephew - his meds don't "fix" his bipolar disease, but if he didn't take them he'd be one miserable little boy and most definitely not able to function as a 'normal' person.

Oftentimes depression is attributable to more than just feeling bad cuz your boyfriend left you or you hate your job or you're going bankrupt...sometimes depression stems from a biological, physiological imbalance in the human body, that requires a medication to normalize the brain chemistry.
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Reply #99 posted 06/25/05 7:07pm

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lilgish said:

JoeyMFinCoco said:



There are plenty of meds that don't (permanently) fix anything, but that doesn't mean they're ineffective. A lot of times depression is a symptom of a certain disorder and if you want to treat the disorder medication can definitely help.


Natural herbs are much better and healthier, not dependent and cheaper.

Bach Flower Remedies

St. Johns Wart

KAVA KAVA


A lot of these supposed disorders and ailments are only specific to this culture, the diagnoses that are made in most cases are used only to stimulate more drug production.


St. Johns Wart doesn't work on everyone, I wonder if it works at all. But whatever, it's still taking someting to aid a problem. Some folks just need something stronger...
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Reply #100 posted 06/25/05 7:32pm

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KaleidoscopeEyes said:

lilgish said:

Anti-depressants don’t really fix depression, they just make a few companies rich and your ass dependant, or eventually sick.


I think your stance is a bit shortsighted.

My mom is a diabetic. Her daily insulin shots don't "fix" her diabetes, either, but if she didn't take them, she'd be dead.

My dad has high blood pressure. He takes medication to control it. The medication doesn't "fix" his high blood pressure but it prevents him from having a stroke and dying.

My aunt is hypothyroid. She takes daily thyroid medication that doesn't "fix" her thyroid, but the medication prevents all sorts of nasty symptoms from ruining the quality of her life.

And again I'll dredge up the example of my bipolar nephew - his meds don't "fix" his bipolar disease, but if he didn't take them he'd be one miserable little boy and most definitely not able to function as a 'normal' person.

Oftentimes depression is attributable to more than just feeling bad cuz your boyfriend left you or you hate your job or you're going bankrupt...sometimes depression stems from a biological, physiological imbalance in the human body, that requires a medication to normalize the brain chemistry.


You know anyone that's depressed? I only commented about anti depresents.

Anyway...

High Blood Pressure, Diabeties....Why are these such major issues in our country? The same people who "heal" you are the same ones who got you sick in the first place. Major Pharmaceuticals and a large part of the food industry are in business to keep us sick. This is not being short sighted, this is the reality of modern America. Alot of these meds are treating problems that shouldn't, or really don't exist.

KaleidoscopeEyes said:

sometimes depression stems from a biological, physiological imbalance in the human body, that requires a medication to normalize the brain chemistry.



I’m by no means a scientologist, but it’s possible to affect your biochemistry through simple thought alone. This is something that many have known for countless years, even though it’s probably being manipulated negatively in scientology; it’s real whether Tom says it or I do.
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Reply #101 posted 06/25/05 7:34pm

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CalhounSq said:

lilgish said:



Natural herbs are much better and healthier, not dependent and cheaper.

Bach Flower Remedies

St. Johns Wart

KAVA KAVA


A lot of these supposed disorders and ailments are only specific to this culture, the diagnoses that are made in most cases are used only to stimulate more drug production.


St. Johns Wart doesn't work on everyone, I wonder if it works at all. But whatever, it's still taking someting to aid a problem. Some folks just need something stronger...



True, it doesn't always work, some products are better than others. But people should try natural methods before running to the "doctor".
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Reply #102 posted 06/25/05 7:44pm

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You know anyone that's depressed? I only commented about anti depresents.


Yes, in fact, I do. And like every other disease and accompanying drug treatment out there, they've all had unique experiences of varying degrees of success. But for a few of them, the antidepressants gave them their life back and allowed them to enjoy life and function again.

Anyway...

High Blood Pressure, Diabeties....Why are these such major issues in our country? The same people who "heal" you are the same ones who got you sick in the first place. Major Pharmaceuticals and a large part of the food industry are in business to keep us sick. This is not being short sighted, this is the reality of modern America. Alot of these meds are treating problems that shouldn't, or really don't exist.


To a degree, I *do* agree with you and see the point you're making. In fact, I've dealt with it FIRSTHAND so I'd be the last person to say that what you're saying is flat out without merit. But guess what - sometimes people get sick because the human body isn't perfect, and you can't act as if ALLL illness is directly caused by the medical or pharmaceutical industry or by some kind of conspiracy.[/quote]


I’m by no means a scientologist, but it’s possible to affect your biochemistry through simple thought alone. This is something that many have known for countless years, even though it’s probably being manipulated negatively in scientology; it’s real whether Tom says it or I do.



Even "health nuts" and those people who take great care to live a healthy lifestyle become ill. Are you saying those people should just use their thoughts to "heal" themselves? Have you ever had a serious illness yourself? I have. I denied some of the drug treatments due to my feeling that the treatments wasn't right for me or I didn't want to chance the possible side effects. But I can tell you right now that using "simple thought" would NOT have cured me or brought relief to me and so I had to take some medication..medications that I am still on because if I didn't take it, I would have even more problems.

I believe in positive thinking, biofeedback and even positive imagery to a point, but it's my personal opinion that many people who say a person can cure a serious illness through only "simple thought" or the mind, have they themselves NEVER dealt with a life-altering, painful, incurable illness (either terminal or not).

Like I said, to a point I do agree with a lot of what you said. But I think you are not being completely realistic in regards to the times that medication is necessary - both for physical AND for mental illnesses.
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Reply #103 posted 06/25/05 7:47pm

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lilgish said:

CalhounSq said:



St. Johns Wart doesn't work on everyone, I wonder if it works at all. But whatever, it's still taking someting to aid a problem. Some folks just need something stronger...



True, it doesn't always work, some products are better than others. But people should try natural methods before running to the "doctor".


True smile And if natural remedies don't work some mf's need to be on some high dose, over the counter shit...
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Reply #104 posted 06/25/05 7:58pm

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CalhounSq said:

lilgish said:




True, it doesn't always work, some products are better than others. But people should try natural methods before running to the "doctor".


True smile And if natural remedies don't work some mf's need to be on some high dose, over the counter shit...

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Reply #105 posted 06/25/05 8:04pm

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lilgish said:

CalhounSq said:



True smile And if natural remedies don't work some mf's need to be on some high dose, over the counter shit...

falloff


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Reply #106 posted 06/25/05 8:53pm

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KaleidoscopeEyes said:

But guess what - sometimes people get sick because the human body isn't perfect, and you can't act as if ALLL illness is directly caused by the medical or pharmaceutical industry or by some kind of conspiracy.


We cannot tell, can we? And that’s what scares me? Why do women in Japan have a lower rate of Breast Cancer? Why are Americans so obese? The line between being sick and being made sick have been blurred to the point where prevention at best is a guessing game. Is it natural or part of the Conspiracy?



Are you saying those people should just use their thoughts to "heal" themselves?


I’m saying that it’s possible especially when it relates to the topic Tom and Matt argued over. Some of the most of willful minds, who could affect their biochemistry through thought have died from natural causes. It's not full proof.

Have you ever had a serious illness yourself?


Have I had an illness where I had to make that decision? No. Good Call. What would I do? Probably go through the same deliberations as you. With regards to anti-depressants (especially when it relates to kids pissed ) it has to be the most over diagnosed ailment out there. I’ve already given a few examples of dealing with depression for those who are going through it.
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Reply #107 posted 06/26/05 6:26am

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KaleidoscopeEyes said:

SynthiaRose said:

Now wait, I didn't endorse Tom's 'irrational behavior' I think his public declarations of love are over the top for someone as mature as I thought he was.

Yes I'm a fan of Cruise's art, but I'm not defending him because of that or demonizing those who don't believe as he does.

I like Brooke Shields. Cruise and I happen to share similar views on medication. I don't think speaking out passionately about your views is 'irrational' when those views are well thought out.

I'm not against psychiatry or psychology as he is. And I'm sure we'd disagree wildly over many things.


Do you really, HONESTLY consider Tom Cruise's views on psychiatry and medication to be really "well thought out", though?

When he is asked to elaborate on his points or beliefs, or asked direct questions regarding certain subjects pertaining to psychiatry, medication, etc (even question directly about Scientology!), or is any way challenged about "his" beliefs, instead of offering up a thoughtful, intelligent rebuttal or explanation/clarification, Cruise instead just stammers, stutters, stares vacantly off into space, gets defensive and angry and uses diversionary tactics on the interview to veer off the subject, or begins (again!) reciting - by route - some pre-scripted sounding diatribe that he's obviously parroting from elsewhere (i.e. the Cof$) and of which he doesn't appear to really understand the meaning.

Did you see his interview with Matt Lauer the other morning? It was a perfect illustration of what I'm describing here. Everytime he is interviewed and goes off on his tangents, he shows himself to be even more of an idiot and uninformed robot for the Scientologists.

If he truly, honestly, fervently, sincerely believed everything he goes around spouting, I'd agree with you that he's merely speaking out on issues that he feels passionately about. And to be honest, I do agree with his point that these days people try to medicate away problems that would be better dealt with head on, and that kids are prescribed meds too often. But after seeing firsthand what my nephew has gone through dealing with his bipolar, I am NOT in agreement that ALL psychiatric medications are "wrong" or "unnecessary". Sometimes they're the reason a person can live the happy, normal life that they deserve. To think ALLLL psychiatric medications are wrong or evil is beyond ignorant...imo, it's just as ridiculous as that New Agey shit about how all bodily disease is merely a mental "dis"-ease with your own body or self, and that every illness is something that can be "thought away" if you just "accept" this or that about yourself or your body. disbelief Yeah, you develop cancer of the pancreas or leukemia or something just because you won't accept that you'll never be famous or rich or write the great American novel, or because you hated your high school gym teacher; but if you "accept" and "embrace" your feelings, then your "dis"-ease will be healed.

Having an illness where your brain chemistry can only be stabilized with medications is no different than having asthma and needing to use medication to control the inflammation so you can breathe (and live), or any other physical illness that requires medication to normalize and/or control the situation.

How can anyone claim my nephew's bipolar condition stems from some emotional issue he's "not facing"? He's been dealing with this since he was a SMALL CHILD. It is a physical illness that requires medication to help him have a normal life. He gets counseling, as well, but without the meds he'd be back in the hospital.

Anyhow, to me the belief that all illness of the body is a direct result of a person not "accepting" something about themselves is very similar to the crap Tom is spouting except I believe many of those New Agey types actually DO BELIEVE what they're saying so at least they're being honest. Tom is just a famous mouthpiece for his religion and doesn't even understand fully what he's talking about (regurgitating), which is why he gets so defensive and weird when he's questioned further about what he's saying, and so in the end he merely comes across as a phony and an idiot.

Tom says he "doesn't believe in psychiatric medications" because the Church of Scientology claims they can cure all illness, bodily and otherwise, by using vitamins and the mind -- they even say they can "cure" homosexuality. rolleyes

Okay I know I'm rambling now so I'll stop. But I had to respond to your comment about speaking passionately about your views when they're "well thought out". Cruise's AREN'T, and pretty much any of his recent interviews proves that.



Personally I think he is being irresponsible. He isn't a doctor and anyone who is feeling depressed should see their their doctor to get a diagnosis as the depression could be caused by numerous things, not just external factors like job/relationship worries etc. You have a choice not to take anti-depressants if you dont want to, the doctor cant force you take any medication. If you feel that you would like to try alternative medicine such as herbal remedies or acupuncture etc then do so. It may work for you , it may not. Anti-depressants are only meant to alleviate symptoms and are a temporary measure and can be very effective. I think they should be taken as a last resort when other avenues have been explored, but I certainly dont think demonising them helps anyone and medication IS required for some mental illnesses and there are no non chemical alternatives, e.g Schizophrenia.

He doesn't have any answers, he should stick to making movies.


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Reply #108 posted 06/26/05 12:36pm

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lilgish said:

KaleidoscopeEyes said:

But guess what - sometimes people get sick because the human body isn't perfect, and you can't act as if ALLL illness is directly caused by the medical or pharmaceutical industry or by some kind of conspiracy.


We cannot tell, can we? And that’s what scares me? Why do women in Japan have a lower rate of Breast Cancer? Why are Americans so obese? The line between being sick and being made sick have been blurred to the point where prevention at best is a guessing game. Is it natural or part of the Conspiracy?





I’m saying that it’s possible especially when it relates to the topic Tom and Matt argued over. Some of the most of willful minds, who could affect their biochemistry through thought have died from natural causes. It's not full proof.

Have you ever had a serious illness yourself?


Have I had an illness where I had to make that decision? No. Good Call. What would I do? Probably go through the same deliberations as you. With regards to anti-depressants (especially when it relates to kids pissed ) it has to be the most over diagnosed ailment out there. I’ve already given a few examples of dealing with depression for those who are going through it.


Just wanted to tell you I appreciate this discussion with you. You do make some valid points.
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Reply #109 posted 06/26/05 3:14pm

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JoeyMFinCoco said:

TBeatty716 said:

Where I live there was a young man about 18 or 19 who had serious mental disorders. His parents became Scientologists and took him off all his medication. A short time later he cut his mother up into pieces in an attempt to remove her "evil eye".

Fuck off Tom Cruise and Scientologists worldwide.


What's your point?


My point is that the medication that he was taking kept him stable for his entire life. As soon as his parents bought into the tenets of scientology and forced him to stop taking them, he snapped. Simple cause and effect right?
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Reply #110 posted 06/26/05 3:50pm

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As far as Tom Cruise is concerned, I doubt many take him seriously as far as his "views" are concerned. He is not the first or the last celebrity to voice controversial opinions in a confrontational manner on television. But if he want to jump up and down on a couch, be rude to Matt, and pretend that he is an "expert" on someone else's problems, Fine. I doubt Brooke is gonna follow Tom's advice or really even cares about his opinion. Plus Matt will live to interview Tom another day. And the bottom line is that the MOST of the general public is more interested in talking about his behavior than the substance of his message, except for maybe his lack of credibility. So there is no REAL harm done except maybe to Tom's reputation, which is quite ironic.

However, the deal with the medication is that for some people it IS helpful. In fact, it saves their lives. I don't know Brooke's situation, but I would imagine that she was desperate for help, so she sought it from a professional. It worked for her, so why should Tom Cruise or anyone else criticize that success? That said, medication might not work or even be harmful for other people. In fact, if Brooke Shields has a similar problem in the future, meds might not work for her again. To me, it's just not something to make general statements about coz everyone has had different experiences, some positive, some not. Offering an opinion based upon personal experience doesn't make those "facts" true for everyone.
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Reply #111 posted 06/26/05 3:57pm

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Dear Tom Cruise


Please go away, You are pompous and arrogant, and starting to piss me off.

Even though Senik love Likes your hair, I still cant stand you.

P.S. when you leave please take that fiancee of your with you, I really dont enjoy her either




Sincerely,


Eve


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Reply #112 posted 06/26/05 5:23pm

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I don't think there was anything wrong with what Tom Cruise said. He just has a difference of opinion and is passionate about it. I don't think he was personally attacking Brooke, he was attacking her choice to take drugs and she still never really fixed what cause her to be depressed in the first place
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Reply #113 posted 06/26/05 8:02pm

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I don't think there was anything wrong with what Tom Cruise said. He just has a difference of opinion and is passionate about it. I don't think he was personally attacking Brooke, he was attacking her choice to take drugs and she still never really fixed what cause her to be depressed in the first place


What caused Brooke to be depressed in the first place was postpartum depression, which is a (usually) a transitory condition that can last from just a few weeks to a several months, and - besides the deep depression - can make a woman suffer severe panic attacks and even feel suicidal.

How else would a woman "fix" that medical condition when it becomes as debilitating and life effecting as Brooke's case was, other than by taking medication to help stabilize the mood changes due to a physiological cause? Postpartum depression is a clinical, biological result of shifting hormones and if a woman is already predisposed to depression, the hormonal upheaval of pregnancy (and after delivery) can really wreak havoc on them and their body.

I couldn't fault Brooke or any woman suffering postpartum depression for taking medication to treat a legitimate medical condition that is ruining the quality of their life, and I think that by them doing so (taking meds I mean), they are taking control and fixing things.
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Reply #114 posted 06/26/05 8:04pm

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Cruise may be the modern day Lawrence Olivier, but he sure has issues. wacky
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Reply #115 posted 06/26/05 8:08pm

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TBeatty716 said:

JoeyMFinCoco said:



What's your point?


My point is that the medication that he was taking kept him stable for his entire life. As soon as his parents bought into the tenets of scientology and forced him to stop taking them, he snapped. Simple cause and effect right?


That's a rather simplistic representation of the facts.
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Reply #116 posted 06/26/05 8:45pm

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Tom Cruise is obviously an idiot.

Psychiatric medication has saved thoussands and thousands of lives. It has improved the lives of millions of others.

They may be over pescribed, particularly to children, but that is beside the point.
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Reply #117 posted 06/26/05 8:58pm

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AsianBoi777 said:

Cruise may be the modern day Lawrence Olivier


no way.
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Reply #118 posted 06/26/05 10:45pm

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KaleidoscopeEyes said:

Janfriend said:

I don't think there was anything wrong with what Tom Cruise said. He just has a difference of opinion and is passionate about it. I don't think he was personally attacking Brooke, he was attacking her choice to take drugs and she still never really fixed what cause her to be depressed in the first place


What caused Brooke to be depressed in the first place was postpartum depression, which is a (usually) a transitory condition that can last from just a few weeks to a several months, and - besides the deep depression - can make a woman suffer severe panic attacks and even feel suicidal.

How else would a woman "fix" that medical condition when it becomes as debilitating and life effecting as Brooke's case was, other than by taking medication to help stabilize the mood changes due to a physiological cause? Postpartum depression is a clinical, biological result of shifting hormones and if a woman is already predisposed to depression, the hormonal upheaval of pregnancy (and after delivery) can really wreak havoc on them and their body.

I couldn't fault Brooke or any woman suffering postpartum depression for taking medication to treat a legitimate medical condition that is ruining the quality of their life, and I think that by them doing so (taking meds I mean), they are taking control and fixing things.


If it is something that lasts from a few weeks to several months, as you have said, then it will eventually go away on its own, no? Simply therapy can't help with this?
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Reply #119 posted 06/26/05 11:01pm

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SynthiaRose said:

CinisterCee said:

In what forum did he make the Brooke Shields comment?


He made it on Access Hollywood and rehashed it on the Today show. He says he loves Brooke but that she was irresponsible to write a book extolling the virtues of how drugs helped her beat postpartum depression.

To be honest, when I saw Brooke on Oprah, I was saddened that she dealt with her depression through drugs. She told Oprah after her baby was born she didn't want to touch her or even go near her. Her poor husband was devastated because he would be out and see other mothers so happy with their newborns and his wife, Brooke, didn't even want to feed the baby.


That's intense. That's a very serious, real situation that happens to a lot of women. But there are subconscious thoughts behind such behavior that must be analyzed and understood. I believe like Aristotle that the unexamined life is not worth living. Yet people are fearful of examining the scariest, most unstable parts of themselves. I guess we've raised a society of dependents. People need Montel, psychics, God, or drugs. They just want a salve to get over pain fast.

But if you remember seeing Brooke on Oprah, she didn't look strong or "healed" to me. She looked like a broken spirit. That made me sad, because I'm a big fan of Brooke's from when she was a child star all the way to Suddenly Susan.

Drugs can take away the pain, but they can't excise what ails you. It's still there and you will be broken until you deal with it. That's what people do not understand. To see her so weak and broken but acting like drugs had strengthened her was a bit repulsive ... I mean the delusion of it all.

Oh-- the most hurtful thing Tom said was something like "look at Brooke's career and where it's gone. Where is she in life? Is she happy. Is she healed?"

He probably wants to save her through Scientology.

Like someone said above, I'm sure other religious exponents would recruit her in this fashion by saying she's broken and needs ....



There was a woman here who killed her three kids after she had her new baby, she drowned them and she's in jail now...everyone involved...mostly the kids would have loved for her to take those pills..so they could be alive now.....

It can't be that bad if it could save lives.....
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