AlienX2050 said:

OK, you said MAJOR plastic surgery.. not a nip or a tuck or a pinch of a nose job.

You said if you dated them over a year.

I would think if they couldnt tell you in all that time, and then you all say, yes its cool.. wtf? that aint right.
There are flaws in the relationship if he/she kept that information from you.

I dated a guy, yeah he had his teeth done and had laser surgery so he didnt need to wear glasses anymore but he told me, and I was cool with it.
Now keeping information like Alien has mentioned, I couldnt and wouldnt wanna deal with it..

So it would be bye bye to him..

1sexymf said:

This wouldn't be an issue. It's happens.

However, it woudl be an issue if this person gained a hundred pounds. I woudl surely be concerned about her health.

I would be concerned about the reasons she's gained weight. There are a lot of things that's understandable. Pregnancy...stress...

Simply losing yourself because because...would strike up some concerns.

If oyu stay with someone in a relationship long enough, they will gain weight or something will change.
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1sexymf said:

I look at it this way....I am 39, and in pretty good shape because I take the time to take care of my body. I would not even want a woman that does not take care of themselves. But....if she were to birth our child and then gain weight...I would be patient because she made the ultimate sacrifice for the sake of our love and family....but after about six months..it is back to working out. I will always workout and exercise..and I wish for my partner to do the same.

AlienX2050 said:

Now when her face and body begins to fall apart after age forty...THEN you have something to worry about.....HA HA HAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!...

DexMSR said:

Havinng a baby would have to be an exception, but a lot of womenn do let themselves go after they have a child, using that as an excuse.
I would be dissapoinnted if sommeone I was with gained weight fromm being lazy and having poor eating habits.
I can't say i've ever gone out with anyone who's overweight. As far as fitness goes, that will always be a part of my life. It's what I do for a living.
And I will play devil's advocate here and say that i agree with men when they get turned off when their partners gain weight. The women get upset about, which I can totally understand, but you didn't look like that when you met him, and he was attracted to what you looked like before.

1sexymf said:

Well you have to make concessions for "time" and the slowing of the body's metabolisim, but to just let yourself go is not an option for me....I understand she nor I will look like what we did when we first met. It would be unfair to both of us to expect that, but I will not settle for any woman that just lets themselves go!

DexMSR said:

Well said, Dexy.
Can I get a whap?
[Edited 6/24/05 8:53am]

1sexymf said:

I think you are all getting off topic, this is about major plastic surgery, not gaining weight durning pergnancy..

1sexymf said:

Yes!...Whap!!!

And another for being a fellow Libra!...whap whap.....YOUR BIRTHDAY IS FOUR DAYS BEHIND MINE!

WHAP WHAP!

REDFEATHERS said:

I jacked a thread!!!!!

YESSSSS!!!!!

DexMSR said:

WHAP!!!!

DexMSR said:

I knew I liked you for a reason!

REDFEATHERS said:

Okay, let's see if we can get back on topic.



I don't think I've dated anyone who had fake anything....well...breasts.

I didn't care. They wer eobviously implants.

Now, if shits starts falling off...that's anotehr thing.

i wouldn't care unless he lied to me about it.

although - i'd try to persuade anyone i loved not to have plastic surgery unless they needed reconstruction for some reason.
[Edited 6/24/05 10:10am]

PurpleThunder said:

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