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PrintableFleshofmyflesh said: saintsation said: Yes and i don't plow men. i ploy boys pretty boys over 18 no older than me 28. My ex was 20 when i met him and now 23 and look 15, cutest little boy u can meet. I still plow him though for now so i am not looking at this time for a boy. So no men here . You're freaking me out a bit with the "boy" talk. What do you mean by that exactly? I know you said over 18, but why do you feel better calling them boys, not men? Its not hard to freak most of u people out on here i learned the last few months but anyway a man could mean anything 30-100 yrs old and i don't do 30,40,50 u get my point. i say boys cause i am not old i think (28) and most of the cats i messed with were 19,-24 yrs old. Idon't call them men, i call them boys, twinks, but not men cuase they get it up the shoot u no. So no don't go there with the molested shit cause i have a 13 yr old son in new orleans. [Edited 6/23/05 13:25pm] | |
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i don't see why some people think that all butch chicks are these monstrous, scary-lookin types. i consider myself butch and i definitely don't look like the stereotypical butch. 
...oh yeah, to answer the question posed in this thread: no, i'm not bi. i'm a lesbian. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: i don't see why some people think that all butch chicks are these monstrous, scary-lookin types. i consider myself butch and i definitely don't look like the stereotypical butch.
...oh yeah, to answer the question posed in this thread: no, i'm not bi. i'm a lesbian. I saw your pic in HQ ,your not butch ..well i dont see you as butch . | |
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Nikki23 said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: i don't see why some people think that all butch chicks are these monstrous, scary-lookin types. i consider myself butch and i definitely don't look like the stereotypical butch.
...oh yeah, to answer the question posed in this thread: no, i'm not bi. i'm a lesbian. I saw your pic in HQ ,your not butch ..well i dont see you as butch . well i am. not every butch woman looks exactly the same.  flannel shirt edit[Edited 6/23/05 13:25pm] | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: Nikki23 said: I saw your pic in HQ ,your not butch ..well i dont see you as butch . well i am. not every butch woman looks exactly the same. flannel shirt edit
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: Nikki23 said: I saw your pic in HQ ,your not butch ..well i dont see you as butch . well i am. not every butch woman looks exactly the same. flannel shirt edit
[Edited 6/23/05 13:25pm] So what does Butch mean to you ? | |
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Nikki23 said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: i don't see why some people think that all butch chicks are these monstrous, scary-lookin types. i consider myself butch and i definitely don't look like the stereotypical butch.
...oh yeah, to answer the question posed in this thread: no, i'm not bi. i'm a lesbian. I saw your pic in HQ ,your not butch ..well i dont see you as butch . I don't see no picture! | |
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I like both girls and boys. 
But mostly boys.  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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Fleshofmyflesh said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: well i am. not every butch woman looks exactly the same. flannel shirt edit
[Edited 6/23/05 13:25pm] So what does Butch mean to you ? "the pants in the relationship"--no, not in the sense of "my woman betta do what i say!" kinna thing, but the more dominant gal in a relationship. i'm not the type to be the underling in any sorta way. that, and i'm really not girly enough to be considered as femme, or consider myself as such. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: Fleshofmyflesh said: So what does Butch mean to you ? "the pants in the relationship"--no, not in the sense of "my woman betta do what i say!" kinna thing, but the more dominant gal in a relationship. i'm not the type to be the underling in any sorta way. that, and i'm really not girly enough to be considered as femme, or consider myself as such. Ok, I see now. Yeah, I can't really picture anyone telling you what to do. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: Fleshofmyflesh said: So what does Butch mean to you ? "the pants in the relationship"--no, not in the sense of "my woman betta do what i say!" kinna thing, but the more dominant gal in a relationship. i'm not the type to be the underling in any sorta way. that, and i'm really not girly enough to be considered as femme, or consider myself as such. WHAT?! The pants in relationship, HOW? though, i am confused, what could a lesbin do to another girl a dude does. Now on the gay part , yes cause guys have thngs to stick another with aand be the man but how. I hope this is not an offensive question? I tried to keep it rated g as much as possible. | |
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I guess I would be considered by some to be bisexual.
I am now 34 yrs old, when I was 29 yrs old I had my first sexual relationship with a women. Before that I had always slept with men, I had an ex-husband and I was in a long term relationship with a man at the time. My boyfriend & I were living together and after being together 4 yrs, I felt like it was going no where. I met this really interesting girl at work, I was fairly new to the company and she was changing positions and was in my classroom training group. She had the most awesome personality and we started hanging out together after work. It was obvious that she was gay and she was 5 yrs older then me. One night we went out with some other ppl from work drinking and then she took me for a ride along the beach. I started to realize that I had some attraction to her but I did not know what to do about it. One evening we went out to the beach and I spilled my guts. I was kind of confused since I had a boyfriend and being attracted to a women was new to me. She expressed that she was attracted to me too and I kissed her. It was great!!!! I broke up with my boyfriend , moved out with him and in with her, way too soon. Our relationship was really super intense! She was a Pisces, not sure if they are all that way or not. Anyways, I told all of my friends & my family about her. Then it all started sinking in, she started getting obsessive & controlling and I really strated to miss my ex-boyfriend. It was all a very confusing time for me! I talked to her straight up about my feelings and I told my ex-boyfriend about how I felt. I felt like I had given up on our almost 5 yr relationship without discussing any of it with him. I guess it all worked out, she moved back to New York, I went back with my boyfriend and we have been married since Sept 2001. I would say if you are curious and interested, there's no harm in checking it out and experimenting just be careful not to get too caught up in it too fast. The sex with her was so awesome & intense and sensual, I do miss that sometimes! Women are much better at oral sex on another women! | |
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shanti0608 said: I guess I would be considered by some to be bisexual.
I am now 34 yrs old, when I was 29 yrs old I had my first sexual relationship with a women. Before that I had always slept with men, I had an ex-husband and I was in a long term relationship with a man at the time. My boyfriend & I were living together and after being together 4 yrs, I felt like it was going no where. I met this really interesting girl at work, I was fairly new to the company and she was changing positions and was in my classroom training group. She had the most awesome personality and we started hanging out together after work. It was obvious that she was gay and she was 5 yrs older then me. One night we went out with some other ppl from work drinking and then she took me for a ride along the beach. I started to realize that I had some attraction to her but I did not know what to do about it. One evening we went out to the beach and I spilled my guts. I was kind of confused since I had a boyfriend and being attracted to a women was new to me. She expressed that she was attracted to me too and I kissed her. It was great!!!! I broke up with my boyfriend , moved out with him and in with her, way too soon. Our relationship was really super intense! She was a Pisces, not sure if they are all that way or not. Anyways, I told all of my friends & my family about her. Then it all started sinking in, she started getting obsessive & controlling and I really strated to miss my ex-boyfriend. It was all a very confusing time for me! I talked to her straight up about my feelings and I told my ex-boyfriend about how I felt. I felt like I had given up on our almost 5 yr relationship without discussing any of it with him. I guess it all worked out, she moved back to New York, I went back with my boyfriend and we have been married since Sept 2001. I would say if you are curious and interested, there's no harm in checking it out and experimenting just be careful not to get too caught up in it too fast. The sex with her was so awesome & intense and sensual, I do miss that sometimes! Women are much better at oral sex on another women! I said thata woman knows what a woman wants and a man knows what a man wants and i think the same sex give the best oral. no doubt. i know. | |
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shanti0608 said: I guess I would be considered by some to be bisexual.
Wow thanks for that ,i like the last bit ..that interests me the most ..i don't want a relationship just sex ..but its scary .I am now 34 yrs old, when I was 29 yrs old I had my first sexual relationship with a women. Before that I had always slept with men, I had an ex-husband and I was in a long term relationship with a man at the time. My boyfriend & I were living together and after being together 4 yrs, I felt like it was going no where. I met this really interesting girl at work, I was fairly new to the company and she was changing positions and was in my classroom training group. She had the most awesome personality and we started hanging out together after work. It was obvious that she was gay and she was 5 yrs older then me. One night we went out with some other ppl from work drinking and then she took me for a ride along the beach. I started to realize that I had some attraction to her but I did not know what to do about it. One evening we went out to the beach and I spilled my guts. I was kind of confused since I had a boyfriend and being attracted to a women was new to me. She expressed that she was attracted to me too and I kissed her. It was great!!!! I broke up with my boyfriend , moved out with him and in with her, way too soon. Our relationship was really super intense! She was a Pisces, not sure if they are all that way or not. Anyways, I told all of my friends & my family about her. Then it all started sinking in, she started getting obsessive & controlling and I really strated to miss my ex-boyfriend. It was all a very confusing time for me! I talked to her straight up about my feelings and I told my ex-boyfriend about how I felt. I felt like I had given up on our almost 5 yr relationship without discussing any of it with him. I guess it all worked out, she moved back to New York, I went back with my boyfriend and we have been married since Sept 2001. I would say if you are curious and interested, there's no harm in checking it out and experimenting just be careful not to get too caught up in it too fast. The sex with her was so awesome & intense and sensual, I do miss that sometimes! Women are much better at oral sex on another women! | |
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saintsation said: shanti0608 said: I guess I would be considered by some to be bisexual.
I am now 34 yrs old, when I was 29 yrs old I had my first sexual relationship with a women. Before that I had always slept with men, I had an ex-husband and I was in a long term relationship with a man at the time. My boyfriend & I were living together and after being together 4 yrs, I felt like it was going no where. I met this really interesting girl at work, I was fairly new to the company and she was changing positions and was in my classroom training group. She had the most awesome personality and we started hanging out together after work. It was obvious that she was gay and she was 5 yrs older then me. One night we went out with some other ppl from work drinking and then she took me for a ride along the beach. I started to realize that I had some attraction to her but I did not know what to do about it. One evening we went out to the beach and I spilled my guts. I was kind of confused since I had a boyfriend and being attracted to a women was new to me. She expressed that she was attracted to me too and I kissed her. It was great!!!! I broke up with my boyfriend , moved out with him and in with her, way too soon. Our relationship was really super intense! She was a Pisces, not sure if they are all that way or not. Anyways, I told all of my friends & my family about her. Then it all started sinking in, she started getting obsessive & controlling and I really strated to miss my ex-boyfriend. It was all a very confusing time for me! I talked to her straight up about my feelings and I told my ex-boyfriend about how I felt. I felt like I had given up on our almost 5 yr relationship without discussing any of it with him. I guess it all worked out, she moved back to New York, I went back with my boyfriend and we have been married since Sept 2001. I would say if you are curious and interested, there's no harm in checking it out and experimenting just be careful not to get too caught up in it too fast. The sex with her was so awesome & intense and sensual, I do miss that sometimes! Women are much better at oral sex on another women! I said thata woman knows what a woman wants and a man knows what a man wants and i think the same sex give the best oral. no doubt. i know. Amen to that!! | |
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Nikki23 said: shanti0608 said: I guess I would be considered by some to be bisexual.
Wow thanks for that ,i like the last bit ..that interests me the most ..i don't want a relationship just sex ..but its scary .I am now 34 yrs old, when I was 29 yrs old I had my first sexual relationship with a women. Before that I had always slept with men, I had an ex-husband and I was in a long term relationship with a man at the time. My boyfriend & I were living together and after being together 4 yrs, I felt like it was going no where. I met this really interesting girl at work, I was fairly new to the company and she was changing positions and was in my classroom training group. She had the most awesome personality and we started hanging out together after work. It was obvious that she was gay and she was 5 yrs older then me. One night we went out with some other ppl from work drinking and then she took me for a ride along the beach. I started to realize that I had some attraction to her but I did not know what to do about it. One evening we went out to the beach and I spilled my guts. I was kind of confused since I had a boyfriend and being attracted to a women was new to me. She expressed that she was attracted to me too and I kissed her. It was great!!!! well, if you find someone you are comfortable with, you'll be alright. I really surprised myself, I never thought that I would even sleep with a women. She never pressured me in the beginning, once I realized the attraction, it took over and I just went with my feelings! She always reminded me of Prince, she was tiny, petite, dark skinned, sensual, she could sing and she also had several Prince CD's so we dance and spend hours in bed listening to Prince and pleasuring one another! Wow, it just got hot in here all of a sudden! I broke up with my boyfriend , moved out with him and in with her, way too soon. Our relationship was really super intense! She was a Pisces, not sure if they are all that way or not. Anyways, I told all of my friends & my family about her. Then it all started sinking in, she started getting obsessive & controlling and I really strated to miss my ex-boyfriend. It was all a very confusing time for me! I talked to her straight up about my feelings and I told my ex-boyfriend about how I felt. I felt like I had given up on our almost 5 yr relationship without discussing any of it with him. I guess it all worked out, she moved back to New York, I went back with my boyfriend and we have been married since Sept 2001. I would say if you are curious and interested, there's no harm in checking it out and experimenting just be careful not to get too caught up in it too fast. The sex with her was so awesome & intense and sensual, I do miss that sometimes! Women are much better at oral sex on another women! | |
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Nikki23 said: shanti0608 said: I guess I would be considered by some to be bisexual.
Wow thanks for that ,i like the last bit ..that interests me the most ..i don't want a relationship just sex ..but its scary .I am now 34 yrs old, when I was 29 yrs old I had my first sexual relationship with a women. Before that I had always slept with men, I had an ex-husband and I was in a long term relationship with a man at the time. My boyfriend & I were living together and after being together 4 yrs, I felt like it was going no where. I met this really interesting girl at work, I was fairly new to the company and she was changing positions and was in my classroom training group. She had the most awesome personality and we started hanging out together after work. It was obvious that she was gay and she was 5 yrs older then me. One night we went out with some other ppl from work drinking and then she took me for a ride along the beach. I started to realize that I had some attraction to her but I did not know what to do about it. One evening we went out to the beach and I spilled my guts. I was kind of confused since I had a boyfriend and being attracted to a women was new to me. She expressed that she was attracted to me too and I kissed her. It was great!!!! I broke up with my boyfriend , moved out with him and in with her, way too soon. Our relationship was really super intense! She was a Pisces, not sure if they are all that way or not. Anyways, I told all of my friends & my family about her. Then it all started sinking in, she started getting obsessive & controlling and I really strated to miss my ex-boyfriend. It was all a very confusing time for me! I talked to her straight up about my feelings and I told my ex-boyfriend about how I felt. I felt like I had given up on our almost 5 yr relationship without discussing any of it with him. I guess it all worked out, she moved back to New York, I went back with my boyfriend and we have been married since Sept 2001. I would say if you are curious and interested, there's no harm in checking it out and experimenting just be careful not to get too caught up in it too fast. The sex with her was so awesome & intense and sensual, I do miss that sometimes! Women are much better at oral sex on another women! Me either. No relationship --- just sex with a woman!!! | |
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Is it fun? ...i mean i'm straight i love guys but i sometimes imagine what it would be like to be with a woman ,its something i would like to try .So anyone else feel that way or experimented before
Nothing wrong with exploring...we wouldnt know where we lived if it wasn't for someone exploring. As long as nobody get hurt and you are safe...there's nothing wrong with living life so that you have no regrets when it's your time to go. I have only one regret so far, that has passed me by and I will have to live with that | |
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beret1022 said: Nikki23 said: Wow thanks for that ,i like the last bit ..that interests me the most ..i don't want a relationship just sex ..but its scary .
Me either. No relationship --- just sex with a woman!!! I need somebody wit hme, i go to movies every weekend, eat out a lot, travel to vegas, new york, los angeles, and other cities, go to NFL football games with my 2 teamsoakland and new orleans , i need a lover girl or boy. My ex is weird and don't understand him right now. He was my boy the last 3yrs and i know it will be hard on him to see me doing this with someone else but if he keep this up he will. anyway carry on people. | |
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My ex girlfriend was bisexual and in me, just like in many other men, there was some sort of mechanism that stopped me from being jealous and instead got me excited when she would talk about having sex with other women or even actually do it. I know a lot of women think it's a bit filthy when men get turned on by lesbian sex, but I've never understood why. It was interesting that way for both of us; she got to have mistresses on the side if she wanted and I thought it was cool too. We could talk about attractive women etc. It was all fine and dandy and nobody was objectified or hurt.
I can tell you that the first time she slept with another woman she thought it was fascinating that she didn't have a set "role" in bed. Since they were physically similar it was somehow on more equal terms and she liked that. Of course she also enjoyed all the same things about having sex with a woman that we men enjoy too. This didn't make her any less attracted to men, it just added to her sex life. So I really don't think you should feel confused. Just enjoy what/who you feel attracted to, that's all. | |
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retina said: My ex girlfriend was bisexual and in me, just like in many other men, there was some sort of mechanism that stopped me from being jealous and instead got me excited when she would talk about having sex with other women or even actually do it. I know a lot of women think it's a bit filthy when men get turned on by lesbian sex, but I've never understood why. It was interesting that way for both of us; she got to have mistresses on the side if she wanted and I thought it was cool too. We could talk about attractive women etc. It was all fine and dandy and nobody was objectified or hurt. But to me its wrong in the way like something i could not tell my Mother lol ..but i am attracted to my friend but she is straight ,but i would never tell her i like her that way ,but i still want guys too.
I can tell you that the first time she slept with another woman she thought it was fascinating that she didn't have a set "role" in bed. Since they were physically similar it was somehow on more equal terms and she liked that. Of course she also enjoyed all the same things about having sex with a woman that we men enjoy too. This didn't make her any less attracted to men, it just added to her sex life. So I really don't think you should feel confused. Just enjoy what/who you feel attracted to, that's all. | |
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retina said: My ex girlfriend was bisexual and in me, just like in many other men, there was some sort of mechanism that stopped me from being jealous and instead got me excited when she would talk about having sex with other women or even actually do it. I know a lot of women think it's a bit filthy when men get turned on by lesbian sex, but I've never understood why. It was interesting that way for both of us; she got to have mistresses on the side if she wanted and I thought it was cool too. We could talk about attractive women etc. It was all fine and dandy and nobody was objectified or hurt.
I can tell you that the first time she slept with another woman she thought it was fascinating that she didn't have a set "role" in bed. Since they were physically similar it was somehow on more equal terms and she liked that. Of course she also enjoyed all the same things about having sex with a woman that we men enjoy too. This didn't make her any less attracted to men, it just added to her sex life. So I really don't think you should feel confused. Just enjoy what/who you feel attracted to, that's all. I would feel same way too, if my girlfriend told me i would not be jealous | |
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Nikki23 said: retina said: My ex girlfriend was bisexual and in me, just like in many other men, there was some sort of mechanism that stopped me from being jealous and instead got me excited when she would talk about having sex with other women or even actually do it. I know a lot of women think it's a bit filthy when men get turned on by lesbian sex, but I've never understood why. It was interesting that way for both of us; she got to have mistresses on the side if she wanted and I thought it was cool too. We could talk about attractive women etc. It was all fine and dandy and nobody was objectified or hurt. But to me its wrong in the way like something i could not tell my Mother lol ..but i am attracted to my friend but she is straight ,but i would never tell her i like her that way ,but i still want guys too.
I can tell you that the first time she slept with another woman she thought it was fascinating that she didn't have a set "role" in bed. Since they were physically similar it was somehow on more equal terms and she liked that. Of course she also enjoyed all the same things about having sex with a woman that we men enjoy too. This didn't make her any less attracted to men, it just added to her sex life. So I really don't think you should feel confused. Just enjoy what/who you feel attracted to, that's all. Telling my mom about her was harder then actually being with her for the first time. The intimacy was easy if you feel it, explaining to my mom that I now liked a women, that was not easy. She really liked my then boyfriend, now husband. She never did like the girl, she saw that she was a bit controlling over me.. | |
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Nikki23 said: But to me its wrong in the way like something i could not tell my Mother lol
As long as it's a purely sexual thing I wouldn't tell my mother if I were you (if you would want to get married to a woman it would have been another story). Just enjoy it. Just because your mother wouldn't understand doesn't make it wrong. ..but i am attracted to my friend but she is straight ,but i would never tell her i like her that way
If you're sure that she's straight then that's probably a good idea. You don't want to ruin your friendship. ,but i still want guys too.
Like I said, that's fine. Liking women and liking men are not mutually exclusive. | |
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retina said: Nikki23 said: But to me its wrong in the way like something i could not tell my Mother lol
As long as it's a purely sexual thing I wouldn't tell my mother if I were you (if you would want to get married to a woman it would have been another story). Just enjoy it. Just because your mother wouldn't understand doesn't make it wrong. If you're sure that she's straight then that's probably a good idea. You don't want to ruin your friendship. ,but i still want guys too.
Like I said, that's fine. Liking women and liking men are not mutually exclusive. Who died and made you Jesus?  | |
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Number23 said: retina said: Like I said, that's fine. Liking women and liking men are not mutually exclusive. Who died and made you Jesus? It was Nero. She demanded my soul in return but I forged my signature on an IOU-note and snuck out the back door. | |
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retina said: Number23 said: Who died and made you Jesus? It was Nero. She demanded my soul in return but I forged my signature on an IOU-note and snuck out the back door. You fucking trickster.Insatiable taught me everything I know about balls.
"I was born dancing! I came dancing out of my mom's vagina! Moonwalking and stuff..." - Number23 on the telphone. | |
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I need stimulous. | |
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Number23 said: I need stimulous.
You need a good f in the a. Let me call my friend JoeyMfinCoco. Insatiable taught me everything I know about balls.
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Nero said: Number23 said: I need stimulous.
You need a good f in the a. Let me call my friend JoeyMfinCoco. Does joey have that bootleg. I obviously have James' first Apollo gig, but none of the unoffical stuff. | |
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