Fauxie said:

Because deep down women just want someone to mother...

I believe I don't have the right to change my partner (if I had one that is)
And he has no right to try and change me.
I am who and what I am...deal with it!

And by the way...why do you want to change the person you fell in love with in the first place?

Men and women are wired differently, that's all. It's not that women want to change men, but when a woman asks for something to be done and a man says "yes, ok, I'll do it in a minute" and then three months later he's still not gotten around to it and the woman asks again, and he says she's nagging ... well, we have different perspectives on it.

... not that I'm speaking from personal experience you understand ...

Krystal666 said:

True , from what i've experienced

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

I agree

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SIRTONY said:

Cant. Its too small.
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both men and women change constantly ...

it's about embracing that fact and going with the flow ...not creating counterwaves to knock each other off the wave they are trying to ride out at that point in their lives

the only way i would want my man to change... is that change he chooses for himself

i dont get you people... you make relationship seem so hard and so wicked at times

CarrieMpls said:

see this is why i like you so much carrie

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

so true

brownsugar said:

You, Carrie..alll ya'll ain't nothing some Jive Turkeys.

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AlienX2050 said:

I c nothing much changes as women get older.
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AlienX2050 said:

I've never been called a 'jive turkey' before. Too funny.

Dewrede said:

go to your room naughty!

It's true. Most women will not just accept a man for the way he is. They do try to change him. A lot of people say it starts after they are married but the woman starts it sooner than that. Men seem more accepting of the way women are.

Krystal666 said:

mother fucker Datz where da phrase comez from ofcourse

Spats said:

he just loves it when I nag him, he wouldn't want me to change a thing

I love my man exactly 4 who he is, if he wants 2 change anything about himself that is his choice 2 do so, as is mine.
Remember partnership ?

charlottegelin said:

change? it can happen, but most men are sometimes in NEED of a little female guidance (assuming the female in question is wise). otherwise, FALSE masculinity takes the place when there is no female contact in a man's life. at least for straight guys...not sure about gay guys. maybe one of them is the more feminine? i imagine even gay guys benefit from having a close female friend.

I can say that yes I felt like I wanted to change a man once. So I changed myself out of the relationship.

Bottom line...Women try to change men
Men don't want women to change

So if you can't grow with someone, it's a pointless battle

thesexofit said:

I don't agree. Take care of yourself and it will usually work. Living hard will make that glow go That goes for men and women

Sex of it...

I don't see the problem of trying to get laid all the time. women just play that prude role. Find the right female....and SHE'LL WEAR YO ASS OUT!

thesexofit said:

Not 100% on this, but I think it has something to do with the fact that we played with Barbies as children.
I constantly changed my Ken Doll....his clothes, his occupation, his vehicle, his personality. (never could change his hair and that used to be frustrating)

What I learned is that I was constantly able to improve on him. He was a work in progress and I was the artist.

Could it just be down to the simple fact that men are more reasonable and fair than women...?





Well, why not..?

Fleshofmyflesh said:

See, that's funny cause I never had much use for my Ken doll. He ususally just sat in the toybox. He only came out if I was really desperate for something different. That and I didn't really 'play' with my barbies. I just changed their clothes and hair. I actually made my own clothes for barbie. My grandma taught me how to sew and I'd spend hours making little skirts and creating outfits and such.
I miss playing dress up.

i have never tried to change a man
its better to choose someone you get on with in the first place
if you dont

Krystal666 said:

Uhhhhh, no. That is incorrect.