thesexofit said:

Majority of gay males do the same shit.

I've seen a few that are close but they are much older....much older.

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AlienX2050 said:

I see. Perhaps you hang out with a bunch of "established" cheaters.

*shrug*

Not all men will cheat and not all women will cheat. Everyone is a liar.

AlienX2050 said:

i know how i define cheating i am wondering how others on this thread do.. many claim they have not but yet flirt online...

AzureStarr said:

Okay...I will say this...

If the guy you're datin gor is married to isn't experienced, watch out. You're gonna have an issue.

The same goes for women.

However, if you have someone who has gone through some shit...I'll say marriage...kids...and can come out with some sense. You may have a winner.

Other then that, you're gonna be caught up in some shit.

You can tell when a man is cheating easily. You can tell when a woman is cheating.

Most men I know will act all strong and shit but what really runs the show.....women.

Women really run the show. If you've been giving your man the coochie every night, take it from him...see what he does. He goes crazy.

Men will do just about anything for sex....wine you, dine you...the whole nine.

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why...

purplekisses said:

I'm not speaking for women but the men here do flirt so much.

They come off like they are this family man...and this is attractive to women.

They flirt...and they flirt.



It's cheating.

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AlienX2050 said:

How old are you?

AzureStarr said:

35.

AlienX2050 said:

So you cheat and lie?

AzureStarr said:

I have done it.

Various reasons, I tell myself why. A Man often say that his woman is drivin him crazy...doing stuff, saying stuff to make him depressed.

This is true on one hand but on the other...there's a role society wants us to play.

A role that's even harder to play then most people bargain for. There are other things driving us....human instinct..the will be animalistic.

Marriage...relationships are built to control this behavior.

If it weren't for marriage...men would be ass out.

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AlienX2050 said:

Perhaps we need a definition of cheating, then. And don't tell me what I did or didn't do because you don't know me or any of the circumstances that surrounded this particular situation. What are you trying to do, purposely piss people off?

Mach said:

some bulbs

in boxes

are brighter

than others.

Shine on sista

cuz that bulb

is dim.

Freespirit said:

why can't you just take cat pictures...

why...

I've never cheated and never will.

Even only being one man, in that one swift stroke the premise for your thread is destroyed.

AlienX2050 said:

Well, the thing is men and women alike are drawn to others. The majority of the time, women "cheat" mentally, while men will be drawn more to the physical aspect of cheating.

I agree that it's in our nature, but I couldn't go as far to say that it's only men that are drawn to it. Women cheat. Men cheat. Do all women and men give in? Fuck no.

If we're defining cheating as the physical act, then, I cannot agree with your statement. If we're including mentally cheating... even thinking about cheating... well, no one in life will pass with an "A" in that respect. Not all men, or women, lack self control when it comes to the physical attraction of another. And, many men and women will break off a relationship before cheating on their partner.

Fauxie said:

so U don't think the flirting U do here is cheating????

AzureStarr said:

Hooray for common sense.

TMPletz said:

Cheating is when you bamboozle someone...deceive into thinking something whe it's not true.

You swindle in trust because of opportunity.

I'm not trying to piss people off.

People get pissed off because that's what they're doing....being dishonest..even fucking up their online game.

You've come close to chating...what does that mean?

purplekisses said:

No, hence the different words and definitions. They're not synonyms.

There's a huge difference for a woman between being with a man who has sex with another woman and having a man who will never do that but may flirt sometimes online with someone he'll never meet. Note also that my flirting always stays this side of the line, the side that is about harmless fun. There's certainly some seriously creepy flirting on this site, but none could accuse me of that. I guess it depends on the recipient's interpretation, but since I know what my intentions are that interpretation is irrelevant to the subject of whether I'm cheating or not. I'm not cheating, although some may perceive me to be. To be perceived to be cheating by someone online is nothing.

Doing anything Friday night?

AzureStarr said:

Many men and women will break off a relationship before cheating?

That's a lie.

They wil break it off if they get caught. Other then that, they're not breaking shit off.

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Fauxie said:

I adore you!

And... the avatars are back... I can see them all!

Fauxie said:

This is why people get along so well here, because you accept this shit.

If most of your spouses knew what you were doing and saying...shit wouldn't be so nice.

If you would entertain the thought here...

You'll do it if no one saw you.

..Stop lying.

AlienX2050 said:

How can you lay such a blanket statement on this?

Not. All. Men. Cheat.

I was married for twelve years and my husband never cheated on me. Granted, we had our problems, but he never cheated on me. I was the shit that ended up cheating on him... via the org, towards the tail end of our marriage.

So... not all men cheat.

AlienX2050 said:

If that's your definition, then I can say I haven't cheated. I never deceived anyone. The other person was a good friend of mine who ended up kissing me at one point and wanted to take things further than just a good friendship, and eventually we had a fight and ended the friendship. I told my wife all about it, so I hid nothing from anyone who deserved to know, and I sure as hell didn't lie about it. Sure, I was tempted to take things further than what it was, but it never happened...hence why I say I almost cheated, because it would have been so easy to do.

As far as stuff online and in my everyday life, I may harmlessly flirt here and there but nothing serious is meant by it. If people don't know what my intentions are then perhaps they don't know me well enough. My friends, howeevr, mean the world to me and know where things begin and where they end.

Don't take your twisted views and generalize.

AlienX2050 said:

No, I wouldn't. My wife knows about what I do and say on prince.org. I consider many people here to be friends of a sort. Sure, only on the internet, but still friends. I even talk to her about them sometimes.

Take this example. NakedPianoPlayer had never posted a pic of herself until recently. When she did, I was happy to finally put a face to the name. On top of that, she's a beautiful woman and I started a thread for her. That her pics were beautiful was not really the point though. A or emoticon didn't mean I wished to cheat on my wife with npp, only that I appreciate her and wanted to show my affection. It's about fun and showing someone you appreciate them. This would not have been misinterpreted by her. I have no wish to cheat on my wife with anyone here, but I do want to show people that I appreciate how much I care.

Next.

AzureStarr said:

I can't argue with you on that. That subject seems a tab bit sensitive.

Although, I wouldn't call yourself shit though. There's a reason you were on the org.

Don't make it out to be all your fault.

I don't know your situation and I'm not prepared to look further into it.

If I did, I might find something you didn't want to see.
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CC, sweetheart

youre having a rough day arent ya ????? its ok baby, we still ya

AzureStarr said:

Doing anything Saturday night?

Fauxie said: