Why do you do this?

Or do you do this?

Not sure if I've seen this happened to me before...

But a group of guys were talking and this whole subject was crazy.

Why do women do this?




Here's the article:

Study reveals fear and emotional control centers of brain switch off during female orgasm


Published on: 06/20/05
ENHAGEN, Denmark — New research indicates parts of the brain that govern fear and anxiety are switched off when a woman is having an orgasm but remain active if she is faking.

In the first study to map brain function during orgasm, scientists from the Netherlands also found that as a woman climaxes, an area of the brain governing emotional control is largely deactivated.

"The fact that there is no deactivation in faked orgasms means a basic part of a real orgasm is letting go. Women can imitate orgasm quite well, as we know, but there is nothing really happening in the brain," said neuroscientist Gert Holstege, presenting his findings Monday to the annual meeting of the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology.

In the study, Holstege and his colleagues at Groningen University recruited 11 men, 13 women and their partners.

The volunteers were injected with a dye that shows changes in brain function on a scan. For men, the scanner tracked activity at rest, during erection, during manual stimulation by their partner and during ejaculation brought on by the partner's hand.

For women, the scanner measured brain activity at rest, while they faked an orgasm, while their partners stimulated their clitoris and while they experienced orgasm.

Holstege said he had trouble getting reliable results from the study on men because the scanner needs activities lasting at least two minutes and the men's climaxes didn't last that long. However, the scans did show activation of reward centers in the brain for men, but not for women.

Holstege said his results on women were more clear.

When women faked orgasm, the cortex, the part of the brain governing conscious action, lit up. It was not activated during a genuine orgasm.

Even the body movements made during a real orgasm were unconscious, Holstege said.

The most striking results were seen in the parts of the brain that shut down, or deactivated. Deactivation was visible in the amygdala, a part of the brain thought to be involved in the neurobiology of fear and anxiety.

"During orgasm, there was strong, enormous deactivation in the brain. During fake orgasm, there was no deactivation of the brain at all. None," Holstege said.

Shutting down the brain during orgasm may ensure that obstacles such as fear and stress did not get in the way, Holstege proposed. "Deactivation of these very important parts of the brain might be the most important necessity for having an orgasm," he said.

Donald Pfaff, professor of neurobiology and behavior at Rockefeller University in New York, said the interpretations were reasonable. "It makes poetic sense," said Pfaff, who was not connected with the research.
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FlushofmyFlush said:

Yes, I asked this question!

There shouldn't be a problem with answering it!

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Well I'm married, so my wife doesn't fake orgasms. In fact, she doesn't get the opportunity to.

Fauxie said:

At least you admit it.

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Fauxie said:

Its funny you say you were not coming here anymore, yet you come here and post

Anxiety said:

Hey, we're fierce!

This must be a lover's spat.

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sometimes its just to hurtful to let the guy know he sucks in bed

nakedpianoplayer said:

True. I don't want to know, ok?

i think i'm too horny a person 2 ever fake one...
i honestly can say that i've never done that before

Fauxie said:

ok baby

please, i LOVE sex, this we all know.... and im all about the communication of the bodies but if the man aint doin it right, he just aint doin it and occationally, the stupid MF wont quit till he thinks hes 'done it'

havent you seen that scene in WAITING TO EXHALE ????


"did he think he just did something here ??"



that shits to damn funny !

nakedpianoplayer said:

I can understand why a woman would b/c I have faked more than a few w/a few lazy women. It started off pretty good they bored me and I just wanted to finish w/o hurting thier feelings
so you do the shudder thing, don't let'em see the condom and get up.
Although one of them found it in the trash and was pretty hurt that I faked it but the sex got better after that..she had a goal and pride.

1LUV said:

Are you the same motherfucker I've known for the last 22 years? I didn't think I could learn anything new about you.

Anywho, to answer the question: I used to fake with men but now I just make 'em stop if they ain't getting me off. If they wouldn't lie about their prowess in the first place, I'd be more than happy to tell 'em how to do it right.

AlienX2050 said:

HELL NO!!! For me, orgasms are a must, I cum first, always! I can't understand women who will confess to this? Acting is not part of my domestic duties!

missklhk said:

Anything to get his hot sweatty ass off me.

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

Yes I am and the first lession I learned in HS was, he who dosen't talk gets the most
Plus I've always told you I truely dislike lazy lovers....

I like hot sweaty ass.

If women arent able to demand their orgasms ...their loss.

they were discussing this on CATHOUSE
tonight...

nakedpianoplayer said:

You're cruel. Simply cruel.

Brotha gets some of you and would have to tear it out the box.

do it with that game face.

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AlienX2050 said:

Well, I must say that I have never been in a predicament where I have had to fake orgasms. Most of the men that I've been with know that they have to represent in the bedroom or the won't be around for long.
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origmnd said:

exactly!

missklhk said:

Yall must haven't been in a long term relationship yet.

MsLegs said:

i have in the past....like 10+ years ago.

alot of women don't orgasm from intercourse (i hadn't at that point) and alot of men just won't stop until you cum (its a nice gesture but ya keep ppounding away and i'm gonna get friction burn...that shit hurts!!!) sometimes its just easier (and less painful) if he thinks he did it and gets off ya. now i don't fake...its misleading...and then he'll usually get more creative and slip an orgasm in there by alternate measures when i'm not looking...

nakedpianoplayer said:

..but in the end you're the loser when he pulls his dick out of your cum soaked pussy. He came, and you...faked.
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