FanciullaGentil said:

Damn Right.

MsLegs said:

Co-Sign!!

sag10 said:

There's nothing wrong with being stereotypical. People need to think less in methods and routines and just do whatever feels right at that time.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

Perhaps! But most women get their orgasms from oral sex, rather than penetration... It's a clitoral thing.

Anyway, enough of my Doctor Ruth talk!

Women should never fake it. If your man isn't doing it right, then push him off of you and tell him he isn't doing it right. Hopefully that will inspire him to try harder next time and make him a better lover. That way everyone benefits. Faking helps no one.

sag10 said:

that's always good for me sag10!

I don't understand why some women can't cum from oral. Sex is a beautiful and enjoyable thing, but a woman's clitoris can be somewhat of a nuisance when it doesn't do what u want it to do. I dunno, women's vaginas are strange, it's like a slap in the face from God when you realize that the vagina is viewed as a source of pain, while the penis provides so much orgasmic pleasure to men. Yes, sex can be painful, painfully good, and childbirth is painful (or used to be, I had an epidural and only felt the aftereffects of the medication ) and of course menopause, PMS, and monthly peroids and cramping can be painful emotionally and physically. anyways, my point is, once you play with yourself enough and realize what you or your partner needs to do to get yourself off it's all worth it! seriously tho, some women my age and older don't know how to make themselves cum using the shower head, or hand held shower massager, some don't know how to use thier fingers, some women confess to not be able to cum at all! I would never admitt to that!

missklhk said:

You've made some valid points. Fortunately for myself, I am multiple orgasmic so if the man I'm with knows what he's doing then I am good to go.

If women would have the guts to tell the man what they want in bed then nobody would have to fake anything.

Spats said:

I question the kind of women you've been dealing with. A lot of us on the org are quite open to our partners about what satisfies us. You must have alot of 1 night stands.

Hotlegs said:

women should act more in control. even if it mean sitting on a strangers face for 45 mins.

Reincarnate said:

Let me know when you want to try someone new

missklhk said:

Of course, I don't have those issues being that I am the Dickologist and a Scorpio. When I get through with him, he will have no other choice but to rest up for Round II. And were talking about 2 hours per round so he better eat his Wheaties.
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Spats said:

Could you take it if you didn't have what it takes to deliver the goods? Most men cannot. Fragile....

FanciullaGentil said:

If a man falls apart after you tell him he can't do it for you, so be it. Better his fragile ego be shattered than him going around giving bad sex to other women and not knowing it.

MsLegs said:

MsLegs said:

I fall asleep after 2 hours, then I take a shower when I wake up and smoke more crack.

FOR GUYS the BEST job in the world is...making a woamn come.

We ALWAYS get paid...even if she dont.

thesexofit said:

Very technical.
Do you have a medical degree ?

sag10 said:

Preach on, preach on.....

Fleshofmyflesh said:

Oral and then penetration is so limited. Boring. You people have no imagination. For example I could choke you while fucking you and make you have the most amazing orgasm you've ever had without actively stimulating your clit. That clitoral fixation is just as bad as solely focussing on the head of your man's dick.

I've never faked an orgasm. I've never been shy to tell any of the fellows I've had sex with that what they were doing was not enjoyable, and I even point out ways in which they can improve it. There's no sense in going through the motions and not being satisfied.

I seriously thought about it once, when I let this awful Jewish guy get me naked. I mostly did it cos, well, it'd been a couple of months since my split with N. The guy himself was awful... Let alone the things he tried to do... argh. I let him lick me, and he couldn't even do that right. So, eventually, I just thought of other things and after awhile, it happened any way. Then, I told him I was really tired, rolled over, and went to sleep.

But that ha dnothing to do with the question, did it.

Nero said:

Yep, you can always think of something more interesting. Nothing wrong with that.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

And then I could die, and the coroner could come, and the big scary man could take you away.....

JoeyMFinCoco said:

JoeyMFinCoco said:

It had to be done. To be precise, I thought of my ex-boyfriend, who I'd just visited that very morning. Which almost made me feel worse.

Ugh, and the guy had cornrows. He was a Jew. Anyway, I used to run my fingers through N.'s hair, and he loved it... He likes his hair pulled and the like. Anyway, I went to do that, except... you really can't run your fingers through cornrows. My thinking after that was to put my hands on his shoulders or something (you have to do SOMETHING with your hands), but he had hairy shoulders.

So I gave up, and kept my hands far away from him. Ugh.

UGH!

Fleshofmyflesh said:

You have weird fantasies...

Nero said:

Sorry, just never heard of a dude who liked having his hair pulled.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

N. loved it. In fact, I'd do it sometimes when we were hugging or something, and he'd go "I'm your bitch."

True story.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

So does this mean you are also into auto-asphyxiation ?

Fleshofmyflesh said:

Done it, but not really my thing and too dangerous.