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THIRD TIME LUCKY... OK this is the third time this week I've gone to delete my account/s and chickened out...the third time's lucky I'm doing this thread not to be dramatic (although I know it is and I'm sorry) but simply to let those who want to stay in contact that my email address is natissegrimshaw@yahoo.com.au I'm leaving basically because there are things I need to work out within myself but also because I just am sad that you have to lose friendships I had someone say to me that "it's not org time right now" basically saying not to contact them (I think - still not 100% sure thats what was being hinted) anyway that pretty much sums up what makes me sad about it all...people you think are friends just kinda tossing you aside just because for whatever reason your "friendship" is limited to the org. Well that's not what friendship is about to me - those who I hold dear to my heart know very well who they are and this will make no difference whatsoever but those who see me as an "org" friend only that's your loss I guess anyway rant over - my email address is there for all to see...take care everyone | |
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Natisse said: OK this is the third time this week I've gone to delete my account/s and chickened out...the third time's lucky I'm doing this thread not to be dramatic (although I know it is and I'm sorry) but simply to let those who want to stay in contact that my email address is natissegrimshaw@yahoo.com.au I'm leaving basically because there are things I need to work out within myself but also because I just am sad that you have to lose friendships I had someone say to me that "it's not org time right now" basically saying not to contact them (I think - still not 100% sure thats what was being hinted) anyway that pretty much sums up what makes me sad about it all...people you think are friends just kinda tossing you aside just because for whatever reason your "friendship" is limited to the org. Well that's not what friendship is about to me - those who I hold dear to my heart know very well who they are and this will make no difference whatsoever but those who see me as an "org" friend only that's your loss I guess anyway rant over - my email address is there for all to see...take care everyone First and not last. I orgnoted you. M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Natisse, we've never spoken, but for me you are a genuinely good person and although leaving this wee pretend reality where everyone hides behind personas is obviously the mentally healthy thing to do, the resentment the absolute loss will leave may well grow and leave you even more bitter - and I loathe seeing good people beaten down and abused so much that they feel they have no choice but to join the bastards.
For what it's worth, I say ride it out and see if things get better. The site wouldn't be the same without you. | |
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Nooooo.... "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
johnart says: "I'm THE shit" | |
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Nat, you are a very sweet hearted person. I hope that you find that you can come back to play at the .org at some point, because it is very nice seeing your posts and sharing my love of KISS/Gene Simmons with you.
I'm not good at keeping in touch period, so that is not a reflection on you. (And I know I'm not involved in why you are leaving) But I want you to know that you are wonderful and I wish you the best where ever life take you. 's X infinity I'm firmly planted in denial | |
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OK, it took me some thinking before I say this....
Nat, I am pretty much sure that you are an honest and genuine person but why do you post this? To me it seems that you need a thread like this so you can see whether people care for you or not. It's a self-fullfilling prophecy for you, you know you are not leaving! You just want the sweet and meaningless comments of the people of whom must you only know online..... The story you posted is maybe an indicator that you should go out more and be among people. Here you are, an australian girl on her trip of a lifetime to Europe, and what do you do? Sit behind your computer and talk to your 'friends' on the org..... Really, I am pretty much sure that 99% of the people here couldn't care less whether you stay or not.....If someone tells you 'it's not org-time' (I admit, it's a stupid way of speak), it probably means that this person has something else to do. You can not expect that everybody is there for you whenever you come crushing in on e-mail, IM or whatever.....And maybe so should you..... | |
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Natisse, dont go!! | |
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Come back soon sweetie...I hope the break helps .....speak to u soon hun | |
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ok sweetie, heres the deal... although not everyone in life can be honest, sincere, loving and committed... its not for us to change who we are based on their reactions
dont go to their level - if in fact the person was being mean - stay at YOUR level sweetie, cuz, there are people all over the world that FIGHT to have as much kindness as you have in your lil finger stay strong, stay happy, and STAY HERE love ya.... NPP One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift an artist with no fans is really just a man with a hobby.... | |
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Although your account isn't here and you aren't here You haven't actually "gone" anywhere lol...
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Natisse ... do what you have to do girl. I'll be sad to see you go, but maybe in a few days, weeks or months you will want to return - we'll be here. Take care and see you soon (I hope)
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Moderator | dammit Nat , your wit, your comments and especially your devotion to Gene Simmons will be missed. You know you can always cum back here, take care and don't be a stranger. Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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