Damnit.

So one girl is leaving in september, and tells me it would break her heart if we went out etc.....so a no go there then.


Back to hearing corny chicago records again then. "look away" will do.



"the next time I fall in love it wont be with u"
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Where are you going ?

Dewrede said:

No where. This girl is going to uni and says if we go out proper it'll just end in tears as she leaves in september. A summer romance is not on the cards for me at the mo'. Its a damn shame.

I'm sorry for you
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Dewrede said:

yeah its a shame. People move on. I aint gonna be at uni for at least a couple of years yet.

We still talk, and we know we could advance it. I want to, but she says it'll break her heart when we'll have to leave eachother.

But why couldn't you continue seeing each other ?
I've had a long distance relationship for 2 years
(although here nothing is really a long distance)
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Dewrede said:

It would be tough. She would be at uni. She is gorgeous and usually way out if my league physically, she would get laid before she finds her dormroom.

I would trust her, but as she is at uni, I dont want her to miss out if u know what I mean. Shes in her prime, let her muck around.

On me, I wouldn't pose as much of a problem, but it would be very sexually frustrating. In a few years, whi knows? We'll stay in touch, but it would be too hard.

good luck with it

thesexofit said:

That's very valiant and mature. But if you like her, don't waste any time. There's been billions of years before you and they're will ll be billions of years after you. Every day you are here is precious and fragile like a glass flower. Go get her.

Number23 said:

Thanx for ur input but she just wont have it. I didn't pressure her and beg her to go out with me. Unfortunately our friendship grew into love. And its sad as I fall in love very rarely. She is so different from me etc.....I could see tears in her eyes when she said she couldn't even be my girlfriend. She even offered to give up uni, which was waaaaay out of the question. The bond is that strong. But I aint gonna hold her back.

It sounds horrible saying this, but the quicker september comes the better.