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PrintableMach said: JoeyMFinCoco said: No, please no evidence! 
I like a good fuckin', not that makin' love crap people do after being married for 15 years.   oh PLEASE !!!  You've been married even longer, haven't you?  | |
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JoeyMFinCoco said: Mach said: oh PLEASE !!! You've been married even longer, haven't you? I know you're not asking me, but for the record, it will be 17 years in August. | |
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superspaceboy said: Well, I wouldn't say that I'm in a monogamous relationship...though I would say we are only with each other.
I dunno, what does it say if you don't have sex that often? Yet are intimate in almost every other way...all the time. I've been at a cross roads with this. I have found my life partner, yet it is the most un-sexual of all the relationships I have had. I know there are many factors in this. I can say that sex is not in the top 3 of what our relationship is about. It never was...not in the beginning...not now. I think the only thing nagging me at the moment is does this mean that our relationship is bad? My brother thinks so. That something is wrong with our relationship somehow. I don't believe that at all. Cuz it's not how it is. I know the reasons for it...but not sure how to go about correcting them. I am pretty much his first and only sexual partner...so he has a huge learning curve...which doesn't make sex that much fun. It also make him the "non-agressor" meaning I have to initiate all sex. That got tired about 3 years ago. I have said things about that...to no avail, but it's not that big of a deal as sex never was. This is something I have been wondering about. But I don't know anyone who's been in a long relationship who I can ask. I know that this happens to many many couples. And my partner is great in so many ways. I cannot imagine my life without him. THis has also opened my eyes as to how sex can rule a relationship...and that many relationships that I've had were sex is one of the top priorities...end up sucking. I also see how it rules/ruins other peoples lives too. So that's where I am at with it.  relationships do not need to be highly sexual to be WONDERFUL ...
sounds like you two have a wonderful relationship and that you have things in perspective  | |
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Fleshofmyflesh said: JoeyMFinCoco said: You've been married even longer, haven't you? I know you're not asking me, but for the record, it will be 17 years in August. Damn, 17 years ago I was still watching Transformers, He-Man, Jayce and the Wheeled Warriors and Mask. | |
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Mach said: relationships do not need to be highly sexual to be WONDERFUL ...
sounds like you two have a wonderful relationship and that you have things in perspective THANKS! I was hoping you'd respond as you seem to be in a really good relationship (that's also been long). I look up to and respect that.
agian thank you for voicing what I did really know inside. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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I would say on average probably 4 times a week. Although we do something sexual almost every night - it just might not be "intercourse"
And it depends on the mood, but there are always things that can be done to keep sex exciting. You just need to keep an open mind.  | |
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superspaceboy said: Mach said: relationships do not need to be highly sexual to be WONDERFUL ...
sounds like you two have a wonderful relationship and that you have things in perspective THANKS! I was hoping you'd respond as you seem to be in a really good relationship (that's also been long). I look up to and respect that.
agian thank you for voicing what I did really know inside. If the both of you are happy then I would say you have a wonderful relationship. Sex isn't everything. God did I just say that?  | |
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Fleshofmyflesh said: JoeyMFinCoco said: Don't you just hate it when people brag about the "amazing" sex they're supposedly having? I think it's a lie anyway.  Wow.... You are tempting me to post pictures as evidence. You jealous bastard..... How about you post another porno pic, since that seems to be the only kind of sex you are comfortable talking about... Girl, have I told you lately how much I love you?  | |
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CarrieLee said: superspaceboy said: THANKS! I was hoping you'd respond as you seem to be in a really good relationship (that's also been long). I look up to and respect that.
agian thank you for voicing what I did really know inside. If the both of you are happy then I would say you have a wonderful relationship. Sex isn't everything. God did I just say that? I'd say it is...for all my bitching, it really is. He takes care of me in ways others did not or could not. He also puts up with me too...and that's saying a lot.
And no, Sex isn't everything. We each know that we are not the other's "ideal". But we fit into a happy medium. I'd say our sex lives could be better, though it is not the make or break part of our relationship...it's not even an issue. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Fleshofmyflesh said: how often do you make love?
When was Haley's Comet here last? | |
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superspaceboy said: CarrieLee said: If the both of you are happy then I would say you have a wonderful relationship. Sex isn't everything. God did I just say that? I'd say it is...for all my bitching, it really is. He takes care of me in ways others did not or could not. He also puts up with me too...and that's saying a lot.
And no, Sex isn't everything. We each know that we are not the other's "ideal". But we fit into a happy medium. I'd say our sex lives could be better, though it is not the make or break part of our relationship...it's not even an issue. Then you got nothing to worry about my friend! | |
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Fleshofmyflesh said: how often do you make love? And what keeps it exciting for you?
(I have a one track mind today. Must have been the weekend I had.  )Not a whole damn lot. What makes it exciting is when she participates. All good things they say never last... | |
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Teacher said: Fleshofmyflesh said: Wow.... You are tempting me to post pictures as evidence. You jealous bastard..... How about you post another porno pic, since that seems to be the only kind of sex you are comfortable talking about... Girl, have I told you lately how much I love you? Yes...but it's never enough!
Love you too, Doll. | |
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superspaceboy said: Mach said: relationships do not need to be highly sexual to be WONDERFUL ...
sounds like you two have a wonderful relationship and that you have things in perspective THANKS! I was hoping you'd respond as you seem to be in a really good relationship (that's also been long). I look up to and respect that.
agian thank you for voicing what I did really know inside.
my partner is my very best friend... i think thats a huge plus in lasting 20 yrs and also... sexual activity ebbs and flows in long relationships ... we have had our times of not being very sexually active also ... and as i told you about your relationship ... during those times of way less sex for us, its been wonderful then too | |
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I only see my bf two or three times a week because he works nights... that said.... 3 - 5 times a week. I guess what keeps it exciting right now is that we broke up for a year, and have been in the stages of rebuilding everything he last few months.In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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It's been really tough for my wife and me the past 10 years or so. She has a day job, and I've been working evenings for a long, long time in order to not have any daycare. I think if I had a day job, we'd end up doing it a lot more often. As it is, it's only on the average of maybe once a month which for me is totally not enough.  | |
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Ive been with my bf for 6yrs. Honestly, I give a great BJ and he eats a mean:pussy: . In fact, I think he is rather obsessed with my BJs, but boys are pretty simple. | |
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