if i met someone and i was really into them, learning that they used to be another gender would certainly be big news, but i'd like to think i'd still really be into them. and i'm sure there's some kind of protocol or etiquette on the side of the transgendered person to take responsibility for sharing this news with the person they're seeing.

Anxiety said:

i understand it. Whats not to understand? Accepting it I do too, but only to a degree. As for my question if u found ur partner was once another sex, u 100% would not mind about that? Thats why I do not 100% accept people like this. Its just creepy

thesexofit said:

see my post above.

and just because someone is transgender, doesn't mean you have to date 'em. so what's the problem?

Anxiety said:

If a man becomes a women, they stil have testosterone right just like guys? Can they alter that?

Its great that u can accept it. But I guess Iam too narrowminded.

sexinthesummer said:

Yeh women are superior...a man aint smart enough to use their uterus to keep a mate or suck money out of someone

Anxiety said:

I would have no problem being mates with a transgender. My upbringing tells me I should though sadly. U should hear the chavs on my estate. They make me sick at times but I gotta save face otherwise I'll get a kick in.

thesexofit said:

well, there is hormone therapy. i don't know the particulars of how that works, but i think it's pretty common practice.

thesexofit said:

i have no idea what any of that means.

Anxiety said:

Oh, estate is equivilent of a block in US. Where the poor live basically. Chavs being a slang media word for teens who are basically wannabe thugs and idolize 50 cent. Save face means I gotta keep these people sweet unfortunately

I hate to say this, but recently I know they kicked a gay guy so badly he went to hospital. He was a good frined of mine years ago.

These "chavs" are ok if u catch them on their own. But in a group, they are thugs looking for fights. But some their views are quite sick. They get it from their parents proberly. Lukily my parents dont care about anything about sex, race, class etc.....same with me.

Why do some ppl have 2 B copycats here??

A friend of mine told me he has always felt he's born to a wrong body. Now he is on his way to turn to a woman but it's going to be a longish process but he wants it. He says it's quite hard for his wife but they have been in therapy together and she's beginning to understand better. His mother is a bit non-understanding and thinks he's just having a mood or something.

I think he's brave in what he is doing. Not many people have the strength.

Kayleigh said:

Yes, it will take lots of strength & courage but I am sure it will be worth it in the end.
As long as he is finally happy after he gets his body changed.

shanti0608 said:

Trust me, if the man had to go through the following in addition to surgery: PMS, bloating, heavy flowing menstural periods, headaches, childbirth, hot flashes, menupause. He would want to keep his balls. There is more to being
a women than fucking men and wearing pumps.

Hotlegs said:

Sooo true, I am sure if they had to go through all of the extra's that women have to go through, they would NOT want to be a women.

shanti0608 said:

Hotlegs said:

I realize that my earlier comment was a bit harsh. But I do hope this response - and others - are facetiously intended.


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Because of tits which are the greatest things in the world!

JDINTERACTIVE said:

A lot of males I know seem to think we ladies sit around and play with our breasts all day! It's so bizarre because I rarely touch them.

Natsume said:

Lies.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Natsume said:

I'm with u sister..
Men act like they are play toys

shanti0608 said:

Unfortunately, this is how men think.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

well, ever since sex and the city ended, i just don't have anything to do at night other than begin sex change therapy

Hotlegs said:

Well at least men will fuck anything. Some women have the highest standards when it comes to dating. All them sad cosmo mags they read

But they will never experience being a real woman

i have a net-friend who i miss dearly...from the ole wendyanlisa imusic group....

he was a she and is now a he and looks handsome as a he....

and ive met other women who have become men..

its not just a man to woman thing...

why? because they feel comfortable being who they really feel they were intended to be...

unlucky7 said:

Hotlegs said:

Hotlegs said:

those things dont make a woman...one of my bestfriends had a hysterectomi (sic?) at 30...

does that mean she is no longer a woman?

what makes a woman? whatever the damn hell *she* wants.....

a woman who hates men= A WOMAN

a woman who sleeps with woman= A WOMAN

a woman who refuses to have children= A WOMAN

a woman who used to be a man= A WOMAN

each of them have the right to exist and be happy in bliss...

sosgemini said:

, I don't see how you can be that insensitive and dissmiss a womens experiences. Like for example, you stated you freind had to go through hysterirectomy. Again, these are expereinces that men will never have to endure that's my point. At first, I thought you were female. But then, I checked your profile and that explains why your in doubt.
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