sag10 said:

Hey! It made her smile!

Cheer up, Saggy!

retina said:

I just saw it. Let me have a read... I've been working, you know. Not paying as much attention as I should. I'm there now.

KatSkrizzle said:

I liked that link

Im gonna send it to my friend whos bf dumped her then ran off to mexico.
[Edited 6/10/05 14:41pm]

I could go into the obvious things to say, like time heals all, something better must be waiting for you, etc. But right now I say screw that advice and just settle for a because when it comes down to it, you are still loved by someone, and you're not alone.

skcoSsaihtnyC said:

Co-Sign!!!!

Nice Shirt fillers too!!!

Some Women just have to face the fact that the guy does not love them anymore. People fall out of love every day.It does not make him immature or an idiot. It just happens and it will happen again before you die. It happens to everyone.

Spats said:

You are probably right but I'm upset right now. Yesterday I was devastated. He was the best boyfriend on the Earth and couldn't believe I lost him. I'm still pretty sad today but I'm starting to feel angry so today he's an idiot. I know one day I'll get over him and realize you were telling the truth.

Thanks again for all the posts and the orgnotes. They did make me feel a little bit better.

ludika said:

Were you able to sleep?

ludika said:

heartache is a bummer, I know all about it..... Keep your head up! Hey but summer is just starting and you look HAWT! You'll get by! Go out, be around people and have fun, it's the only way..... that or book a ticket to Amsterdam and I'll help you, we'll have fun.....f'shizzle!

MarieLouise said:

Well I did get a few hours of sleep but I woke up a few times before morning. I think I'll take a nap after lunch.

ludika said:

Well, this sounds like a great start for the first night. When I went through this I couldn't sleep for three nights and finally collapsed on the mainstreet in my hometown. Drama Drama Drama !

To be able to sleep is important to feel a bit stronger, no sleep can make you all weak and dizzy. Good luck !

MarieLouise said:

me too, it seems an age ago and people can give you all the advice in the world

but i suspect to you your world is ending and it doesn't mean a thing

but it does get better

6 months ago i would go 3-4 days without sleep, not eat anything and was on fortified drinks to get me through, I cried alot, I cried in public places much to my friends

but now I'm thinking it's been the making of me in ways

I'm now doing things i wouldn't be doing had i still been there...

I have more chance to reach my full potential now and I'm reaching for things i had thought were well beyond me previously.

just try and bear in mind it won't last forever...





your post touched home for me

I wouldnt break up with you, you look like Jewel

p0pstar said:

You're just mad because I got the tractor.

2the9s said:

I'm just mad that cutting the breaks on your car didn't kill you outright

p0pstar said:

You want me back. I can see it in that homicidal glint in your eye. That's sweet. But I'm afraid it will never happen...

2the9s said:

really

ludika said:

2the9s said:

The best thing you can do is to get out there and hang out with friends and keep yourself busy and social, don't complete those depressing thoughts in your head, and at least ask your friends to help get you out and about and meeting new people for new friends and... who knows?

abierman said:

U slime ball.

I don't have any friends. All of my (former) friends are in relationships and have no time for my whining. I mean sure they took their time yesterday and they might do it again... Once in awhile. My bF was there for me 24/7 now that's a lot of free time to fill.

ludika said:

The first few days, weeks really suck. I know, it'll eventually get easier with time.

Why don't you fill up some of your time by squeezing my ass?

Anji said:

eat me!

GIRL ARE YOU SERIOUS!? What the fuck is WRONG with these guys today. You are gorgeous, and you seem like a really nice and well-mannered person in real life. Someone who ANYONE could have a nice time with and just chill and not be bothered with any bullshit. BUT HE BROKE UP WITH YOU! That's just the DUMBEST shit.....he's a fucking lunatic. Not meaning to sound lesbian or anything but if I was a man I DEFFINETELY would NOt have broken up with you.....shit, that shit is soo hard to even THINK of doing and I'm a female. And he gave you stupid ass reasons for breakin' up with you? AHH HELL NAH.....that shit ain't cool. Nope, no it's not. Girl, forget his ass, he seems like he ain't worth a penny. That BOI is dumber than dirt. Go out and be glad you ain't got to deal with his ass anymore. Have FUN and DATE, cuz' the LAWD knows HE ain't the last person to raise an eyebrow at you ok? Much love, peace

Awwwww Tish4

Who knew a little ego stroking could help that much.
And he's really not such a jerk but keep saying it anyway it does make me feel better.

ludika said:

LOL, well, he kinda seems like he is such a jerk from what I've read. but anyway, hope all goes well.






such is spelled with an "h" not "k" edit



[Edited 6/11/05 13:34pm]

awww hun

everything will pan out eventually..i went through the exact same thing with my ex, and it was truly devastating, and being as young as i was and totally naive, i had some crazy thoughts when he left me...i mean seriously...

let's put it this way, im sure he hasn't stopped loving you (i dont think it's possible 2 do that) but maybe he's fallen out of love with you...and i'm in no way saying that it would be your fault, times like these, no one's really to blame... everything will work out, spend some time with friends, go out, shop like crazy..and if u feel u need 2 cry, girl by all means DO IT...just don't spend 2 much time alone, the wounds fester easier that way...

i've bee thru what you're goin thru...and you'll prolly go thru the whole "i hate love i hate men i hate couples i hate everything" phase...i kno i did (jesus it was terrible) and you know what? you're entitled 2 it..but when u find love again...it will be more than worth it, and u might even love more than u thought you ever could...
when love ends, it does hurt, but it makes it so much more worth it...

you'll be fine; this too shall pass
orgnote me if u wanna talk more hun

ludika,


it's EASY for someone who is "on the outside looking in" to say this,
but this REALLY IS happening for a reason

even if this hurts
even if this makes no sense to you

this fool- I mean, guy- did what he did for a reason.
he somehow saw the "benefit"
(& I use this word LOOSELY)
in not being with you, so he did that.

in theory, you could have been the "perfect girlfriend"..
& he STILL could have found a reason to leave you..


as you cannot control what he thinks or what he does,
the best thing you can do for yourself
is
to continue to be the nice & beautiful person you are
&
be around those who can appreciate that.


with TIME.. you will be better
you will be in a better place


TRUST that.

Tish4 said:

So if she was ugly it would make more sense to you?