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PrintableIrresistibleB1tch said: be glad that she is in your life at all, be generous with your friendship and value hers. it's rare enough for anybody to light up your life - don't blow it by seeing only one aspect of the relationship.
damn could have done with that advice a few days ago 
move on..... It gets easier, and although you think nobody else will make you feel that way other than her, it happens. While you are pining after someone you are sure is unobtainable you are not really living and giving yourself oportunitys  you might miss the best thing that could ever happen to you, or maybe you are not ready for anything and thats why you are fixated with this unobtainable person...
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Ptownhood said: And I don't wanna hear "oh, keep hope alive", kinda stuff...it's never gonna happen... it's just the way it is... what if u see this person and ur whole day lights up, yet u know nothing is gonne come of it? what if u think this is one of the most amazing people I've ever met, yet you know it will never happen? what are u supposed to do?
Just tell AB777 how you really feel. I'm sure he knows anyway and is waiting for you to go to him. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Well, maybe you'll all put me under 'manly thinking' now, but whatever. Just move on and avoid seeing her. Explain to her why. She will probably say 'oh no, but I respect your friendship and so on' and probably she really likes you... as a friend.
What was said about the ego-boost is true, although it often happens unconsciously. I've been through this shit, both sides of the road. Just let her go. If one day you are strong enough, you can get on with the friendship. But this 'friendship' will stay painful masochism until then. | |
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Ptownhood said: radici27 said: MOVE ON, I know its a cliche, but there really are plenty of fish in the sea I know, but sometimes you meet a female that just exceeds all of your expectations....she's is absolutely amazing...It's not like I think it'll ever happen...I just pine for her. I think about her all the time and every time I do, I smile and things just seem right...she'll never know, but she means so much to me. I know I need to keep it on the friend level, but it still makes me sad. Do you think you can be just a friend? Took me almost 5 years to get to that point...and even still im not sure how i feel sometimes. I'm feelin kind of n-a-s-t-y
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There's nothing you can do but just let it be. Things are the way they are and you can choose between just being a friend which can be hard or stop talking completely which of course will be hard too. Either way you're fucked. You just gotta decide which option would be easier for you to live with. | |
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It really sucks when that happens. I was friends with a girl in high school. I loved her but she didn't feel the same way. To this day i have never met a woman as good as her. Not in the looks department or the personality. In any category. I just have to live with that and a lot of other people do. There are a lot of people that have to just settle for what they can get because they don't wanna be alone and they couldn't have the person they really wanted. Life sucks.
Since then i have never met or been involved with a woman who i would consider spending years and years with. The people that do get the person that they really wanted are very, very lucky. | |
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Spats said: It really sucks when that happens. I was friends with a girl in high school. I loved her but she didn't feel the same way. To this day i have never met a woman as good as her. Not in the looks department or the personality. In any category. I just have to live with that and a lot of other people do. There are a lot of people that have to just settle for what they can get because they don't wanna be alone and they couldn't have the person they really wanted. Life sucks.
Since then i have never met or been involved with a woman who i would consider spending years and years with. The people that do get the person that they really wanted are very, very lucky. Those high school girls really fuck with your mind, huh? There was one I had a huge crush on for more than two years and she always told me about her boyfriend and crap. Even held my hand walking home and stuff...like all the time. Really that fucked with my head big time. 
Sometimes people get the person they wanted, but it still doesn't work out though. Maybe unrequited love is a bit overromanticized because nothing bad happens on a personal level which makes that person seem more or less perfect.  | |
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JoeyMFinCoco said: Spats said: It really sucks when that happens. I was friends with a girl in high school. I loved her but she didn't feel the same way. To this day i have never met a woman as good as her. Not in the looks department or the personality. In any category. I just have to live with that and a lot of other people do. There are a lot of people that have to just settle for what they can get because they don't wanna be alone and they couldn't have the person they really wanted. Life sucks.
Since then i have never met or been involved with a woman who i would consider spending years and years with. The people that do get the person that they really wanted are very, very lucky. Those high school girls really fuck with your mind, huh? There was one I had a huge crush on for more than two years and she always told me about her boyfriend and crap. Even held my hand walking home and stuff...like all the time. Really that fucked with my head big time.
Sometimes people get the person they wanted, but it still doesn't work out though. Maybe unrequited love is a bit overromanticized because nothing bad happens on a personal level which makes that person seem more or less perfect. Well stated!! | |
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Ptownhood said: And I don't wanna hear "oh, keep hope alive", kinda stuff...it's never gonna happen... it's just the way it is... what if u see this person and ur whole day lights up, yet u know nothing is gonne come of it? what if u think this is one of the most amazing people I've ever met, yet you know it will never happen? what are u supposed to do?
You include them in every masturbatory fantasy you have until you're bored of their fantasy selfishness in bed and their fantasy bad habits away from the bedroom. | |
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DOOK, for you:
Jaren ver van hier Dit wordt geen lied van "toen ik jou" , Want ik kende je allang. Het wordt ook geen "nu blijf ik maar hopen" , Want het wordt niets ben ik bang. Het is ook geen "dus blijf ik maar zingen" , Hoogstens een "wat ik niet vertel". Het is een "veel te laat", een "nooit goed zeggen kon" , Maar dat vertel ik je nog wel.. Ik zal je jaren ver van hier Misschien vertellen hoe het was Misschien zal ik dan zeggen Misschien nog veel later pas. Maar ik zal je jaren ver van hier Misschien vertellen hoe verliefd ik op je was Dit wordt geen "onderaan je raam" , Hoogstens een "waar je dan ook bent" . En dat ik hoor hoe jij een ander zegt: "Die jongen heb ik ooit gekend" . Ik zal je jaren ver van hier Misschien vertellen hoe het was Misschien zal ik dan zeggen Misschien nog veel later pas Maar ik zal je jaren ver van hier Misschien vertellen hoe verliefd ik op je was Dit is geen "ieder een andere kant op" , We mochten nooit hetzelfde pad En geen "ineens liet ik jouw hand los" , Ik heb jouw hand nooit vast gehad Maar ik zal je jaren ver van hier Misschien vertellen hoe het was | |
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Awww Dook There is a girl out there that is meant for you. Why would it never happen with this lady you speak so fondly of? You have the personality and some great looks...even in a thong...there are many girls that would be lucky to have you feel for them as you do for her. Hearts get broken...and they mend...but the "What ifs" never get answered. | |
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Enigmoid said: Ptownhood said: And I don't wanna hear "oh, keep hope alive", kinda stuff...it's never gonna happen... it's just the way it is... what if u see this person and ur whole day lights up, yet u know nothing is gonne come of it? what if u think this is one of the most amazing people I've ever met, yet you know it will never happen? what are u supposed to do?
You include them in every masturbatory fantasy you have until you're bored of their fantasy selfishness in bed and their fantasy bad habits away from the bedroom. | |
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