And I don't wanna hear "oh, keep hope alive", kinda stuff...it's never gonna happen... it's just the way it is... what if u see this person and ur whole day lights up, yet u know nothing is gonne come of it? what if u think this is one of the most amazing people I've ever met, yet you know it will never happen? what are u supposed to do?

Ptownhood said:

MOVE ON, I know its a cliche, but there really are plenty of fish in the sea

i told you we could still be friends!

Anxiety said:

radici27 said:

I know, but sometimes you meet a female that just exceeds all of your expectations....she's is absolutely amazing...It's not like I think it'll ever happen...I just pine for her. I think about her all the time and every time I do, I smile and things just seem right...she'll never know, but she means so much to me. I know I need to keep it on the friend level, but it still makes me sad.

Natisse said:

Are we going to go through this all again Nat?

althom said:

heeeeey pumpkin pie


WHY HAVEN'T YOU CALLED ME IN THE LAST 5 MINUTES? YOU MISSED YOUR DEADLINE!

Natisse said:

I can't take this pressure!!!!!

althom said:

Natisse said:

lEt'S JuST saY A buRIal woULd bE INvoLVED

CHINGON said:

Why do you type in upper and lowercase letters it hurts my eyes to read it...

Ptownhood said:

I know what you mean because I've dealt with that issue. For me, I need to keep it as just friends or else many people would be hurt, and that's not fair to them. I crossed the line once years ago and have promised myself it would never happen again.

Ptownhood said:

Why do you think it'll never happen? Is she in a relationship yet?
You are a nice guy Dook! At least you can try to be her friend and then..who knows? Good luck!

This is about Bea Arthur, isn't it...

Byron said:

I was thinking Ron Jeremy

I was going through this for the past year or so. What I did, is when I saw her out with some other dude, I doused my hand in lighter fluid, set it ablaze, and introduced him to my fist of flaming fury! Now she has a restraining order against me and I don't have to see her anymore and OH GOD IM SO LONELY

Ptownhood said:

Ptownhood said:

Would it be a bad idea to tell her how you feel??? Is she already a friend?? Do you definitely know that she isn't interested in having more than friendship??

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

Dammit I just realised that Ptownhood is Dook I'm getting too slow on the uptake

HobbesLeCute said:

Watch a porn movie.

Well, you can do what I do and barely eat for 3 years, not go out, sleep a lot, or not at all, shed a tear now and then, and umm...lose your sanity.

But I guess the healthiest thing would be to move on.
[Edited 6/10/05 2:46am]

IrresistibleB1tch said:

NOOOO!

One has to blow it or one will never be able to move on!

scififilmnerd said:

man's logic!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

YES!! exactly

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Look, I can understand that someone would think it's cute that someone else is lusting for them even though someone isn't interested in the someone else. It's nice to feel admired. It puts someone in a position of power. So once in awhile someone maybe encourages the someone else in order to reinforce that position.

But it is not nice for the someone else who goes through hell, suffering desire for someone who really is not interested but is just being selfish wanting to keep admirer around because of the ego-boost it provides. So the best thing the someone else can do is to simply "stop blowing in the wind. To love you is a sin. Adios. Bye-bye, baby, bye-bye. It's your turn to cry. That's why we have to say goodbye. So say goodbye!" See, Madonna knows.

LolaM said:

It's not true. Ptownhood is an imposter, and a bad one at that.