If u don't believe in God or fate, please understand that some people do, & do not mock 2 much.

My girlfriend & i just broke-up, though we decided 2 stay close friends cuz we really appreciate talking with each other.

It's been a loooong month between the moment she decided 2 break-up & the day (2day) when she decided 2 REALLY break-up.

I won't wait 4 her cuz she told me not 2, but she's not the kinda person 2 say "never again" (i asked her 2, she said she couldn't), so i can't help but wishing we'll b 2gether again one day. I have good reasons 2 think that she could b someone i could b happy with my whole life, cuz compared with ANY of my previous relationships, something was really working between us.

Life made that whatever happened that got us here happened, but though, God sent me very strong "signs" (believers will know what i mean) that i should not give up on her. So i'm not 2 sure what 2 think.

I don't wanna waste my time & end broken in a few months when/if she meets someone else, so i'll live my life as i have 2, & if i have 2 meet someone else, well, i trust God 2 put someone on my way or not dependeing on what He wants 4/from me.

Whatever happen, i'll try 2 become a real friend 2 my ex, & i won't pressure her in any way 2 come back with me. But if i don't meet someone else (& maybe even if i do), i know i'll try 2 seduce her again sooner or later. Except if i came 2 realize i prefer her as a friend, but i really doubt it.

If God had not sent me these clear messages, i would give it all up, but right now i can just hope.

So please, believers, just say a little prayer 4 me 2 b able 2 be with her again 1 day. I don't know, maybe it can help.

Thank u very much, & 4give me if this seems a "weird" post 2 u
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don't aplogise for your post,it isn't wierd at all, it's beautiful.
i can't pray for you, but i do wish you the best,as for waiting for a sign,i believe you have to make stuff happen,waiting will get you nowhere.
x

Interesting. I believe you make your own luck. So just go for it. If you want her enough, you'll get her.

Thank u both 4 ur encouragements... I DO agree with u, but sometimes a little faith can help. But i won't b waiting doing nothing. I'll just try 2 b the best & cutest friend i can b 4 her 'til it's time 2 make a move.

Though, it doesn't mean i won't need some help from above...

Sometimes i REALLY wanted 2 get an ex back, but whatever my efforts, i just wasn't able 2 do so...

guess it wasn't my path...

thanx 2 those of u who prayed...

i'm on a harsh road, but i'm growing up every day...

so bad one sometimes has 2 suffer so much 2 b able 2 progress in one's life

shaomi said:

I'm sorry.

I'll pray.
You beg.

shaomi,


I'm sorry to hear that your relationship has not worked out like you thought it would..
it's a difficult moment to go through, no doubt.


rather than pray for you to be with this woman again,
I would pray that God would put you with the right woman- the best woman for you.
this woman MIGHT be your ex, it might be someone else.
as difficult as this transition will continue to be - for some time - the best thing you can do for yourself is keep yourself OPEN to being in a relationship with someone else.

what if you miss the chance to be with someone else - who could be REALLY good for you - because you're still thinking about your former girlfriend???


yes, this is a tough transition.
what will probably help you to get through this
will be for you to invest your energy into doing positive things for others & for yourself
(notice the order I had there - others 1st, then yourself..)

YES - instead of feeling sorry for yourself over this loss
(which many people do, & it's understandable to a certain point)
do the BEST YOU CAN to GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
the more good you for others, the more you will eventually get back.
really, it's not even about "giving in order to get something back";
it's really about GIVING TO OTHERS, FOR THE SAKE OF GIVING.


I'm sure you'll come out of this alright, you'll come out a better person.
that starts with you wanting to come out of it a better person..


let us know how this develops..

Man, I aint heard this 4 ages.


"you got to pray just to make it today". I do say that to other people though.

you'll be in my prayers, but... numm... what's your name cause i would feel kinda weird praying for a username.

to quote umm... garth brooks

Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers
Remember when you're talkin' to the man upstairs
That just because he doesn't answer doesn't mean he don't care
Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers

what will be... will be