I know its all about preference in end result but i think society plays a big role in what we view as sexy or attractive, but i think in this day and age diversity in size has become more appreciated and accepted by men and women a like. There are beautiful thick or bbw women out there who are getting reconized such as queen latifah, Monique, chaka khann and the list goes on. Are men recognizing the beauty in all shapes and sizes or is Beyonce, Halle Barry , Angelina J and mariyah still the only types accepted as "FINE" ?

If men didn't recognize that then all "thick" girls would be single. The problem I have with these classifications is that they're all subjective. Some call Mariah thick and others call her thin.

To me a great face is way more important than a "perfect" body.

JoeyMFinCoco said:

Liar!!

PANDURITO said:

you would have dont better posting an ass

BabyGirl said:

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Damn!

JoeyMFinCoco said:

This is very refreshing. I didn't think men even looked at a womans' face anymore. Seriously, I see some down right ugly chicks with great (and I mean great) bodies who are with the most gorgeous men I've ever seen. I sometimes wonder if the man has ever looked at her from the tits up. I'm not saying that an average looking woman shouldn't have a great looking guy, but I see so many homely women with hunks and it makes me wonder. I then notice her great body and her fake tits and I know why.

PANDURITO said:

ewww her nipples look deformed..

REDFEATHERS said:

She has them pieced with rings that have some beads or whatever.
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JoeyMFinCoco said:

Again, you were looking at her pretty face

Doesn't thick mean dumb ?

I like them both fat (but not huge) or skinny
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I enjoy a woman who looks natural, from thin to thick.
I'm not into "breast on sticks" unless it is her natural shape, even so I need some type of curve to her azz and hips. I can't get into the a woman who is flat in the back. (you know the kind you can use as a level if she puts her back to a wall). And no barrels either the must have a waist, If the line is straight from her armpits to her thighs it dosen't work...well for me anyway.

IMHO: I think there are a lot of guys out there that do appreciate a woman with a little meat on her bones. But.... He must be a strong individual because society does play a large part in who he choses.

If he can admit to friends and family that he prefers a larger (more than average) sized woman then yes. But if he is more into impressing the Jones' then he'll go for the smaller women everytime. Even though they might not be as mentally appealing.

Some men want a trophy. No brains. Just a little something on their arm to impress their friends.

I like them with some meat on their bones like this:

Sowhat said:

I dont see any meat??? Just boobs

ThreadCula said:

Look at her hips!

While she's not fat, she is definately not skinny. There is plenty to hold on to!

I'm a chick, so I'll talk about men instead. I cannot tolerate a fat man. No meat on the bones for me, thanks.

As for me, I'm an average looking skinny chick. And I get some down-right lovely men. At least in my opinion... I don't think any of them fit what the average chick wants... that is, I'm attracted to very thin men with no muscles who are average height. I like men who are my size.

Magazines are to blame.

Dont see many fat women in lad mags do we?


I dont fall in love because of looks, but because of their style, smile, sense of humour etc.....

I lust over most women. I ain't picky.

NO FAT WOMEN REQUIRED ,... thats my motto, i gave up shagging fat women when i split with the wife ,.. all em years ago !!!

danielboon said:

To be honest I never "had" a fat woman in my bed. what we talking here? 20 stone?

I think Jewel has the right consistency.

I like I woman who's comfortable the way she is. If she's happy - I'm happy.

PANDURITO said:

Great shirt!!!!

thesexofit said:

5ft and 15 stone = massive !!!!

Heavenly said:

Im comfy with myself
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ThreadCula said:

And I'm happy to be your org boyfriend

Does it really matter???? Beauty comes from within.

beret1022 said:

In Utopia maybe, but the rest of us live in the real world

My mom and I argue about this all the time. My generation seems to like thick girls, especially blacks and latinos, but her generation likes skinny bitches. She's a victim of society

Janfriend said:

But as long as one ideal is held above the other, aren't all who adhere "victims of society"?

CarrieMpls said:

Oh, most definitely. Read my profile about victims of society. I was referring to the "standard" of everything in society