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PrintableNovabreaker said: Forget about the "sexy ass lovers" and find someone you are enough comfortable with to have more than just short conversations that send your heart pounding. That's my piece of advice. Crushes come and go. It's the serenity of the heart that matters, not the excitment.
Of course nothing prevents you from offering him sex upfront. true but i dont know if i want a relationship with him, i kinda like it when some one makes me feel that good by just having a crush on him , the excitement and fantasy is great, im not trying to have his kids , i just would like to spend time with him maybe a few dates or a good friendship im married 2 prince?. he just doesn't know it yet. lol. | |
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 it's forbidden ... taboo
married peeps arnt allowed 
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If I have a crush, I go after it
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sexymella2002 said: Novabreaker said: Forget about the "sexy ass lovers" and find someone you are enough comfortable with to have more than just short conversations that send your heart pounding. That's my piece of advice. Crushes come and go. It's the serenity of the heart that matters, not the excitment.
Of course nothing prevents you from offering him sex upfront. true but i dont know if i want a relationship with him, i kinda like it when some one makes me feel that good by just having a crush on him , the excitement and fantasy is great, im not trying to have his kids , i just would like to spend time with him maybe a few dates or a good friendship He proberly just got embarressed (my spelling is worse then those kids on barney) a lil' when u said what u said (in ur original post). Men front. Front bigtime. Iam torn between 2 people (at work), Anway, u hear ya, the chase is great fun. Just ask him?.If rejected, as others have said, so what? Even if he turns u down, he ain't gonna hate u for it (who does?). | |
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It only gets me in trouble when I tell them. so I keep it to myself until the next one comes, and so on and so on. | |
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Heavenly said: It only gets me in trouble when I tell them. so I keep it to myself until the next one comes, and so on and so on.
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AsianBomb777 said: Heavenly said: It only gets me in trouble when I tell them. so I keep it to myself until the next one comes, and so on and so on.
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well i saw him and he was very nice to me, he began talking to me but a group of women he knew came around and they began talking, i just faded to the back. I had told him b4 they came around i had a gift for him and by the end of the day he had to meet me somewhere to get it , he said that sounds fair and he looked a little puzzled, then i said its just a a friendly gift, he told me wow , thank u and gave me the gracious bow thing that men do., he seemed more comfortable with it when i said that. Any way the women hung around so long, i admit , i got a lil jealous and i felt ignored and kinda invisible although i kept seeing him look at me periodically, as if to make sure i didnt leave. more people came around and he is really a nice person so he was being a good host , so, i decided to leave, i left , i looked back at him and i could see him looking back at me. I almost felt like going back and at least saying good bye but i was like 4 get it. Today i kept trying to reflect on our conversations and what he did and what he said so i can try to see if there is anything mutual about what i feel. I want to believe there is; but like i said he is a nice person and well liked by a lot of people , maybe he was just being nice to me , so far i don't know, but the suspense is killing me.
[Edited 6/4/05 19:14pm] [Edited 6/6/05 17:05pm] im married 2 prince?. he just doesn't know it yet. lol. | |
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TeaAndTe said: Natisse said: In my experience that's seriously been a BAAAAAD Idea  It's either that or wonder what might've been. There really is nothing to lose and everything to gain. Isn't the chance of something incredible worth the potential rejection? If I told you that you were going to meet your soulmate but you'd have to be rejected 20 times first would you accept those terms? ... [Edited 6/2/05 3:50am] oh i like this regection hurts like hell but the what if's and not knowing are even worse. I only give in when i have no more avenues to explore.
for tisse  we all get crushes on people who don't reciprocate its a bitch  But don't let that stop you going out there and trying again, who knows whats around the corner.  | |
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Ptownhood said: I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes.
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sexymella2002 said: Ptownhood said: I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes.
lol that might get me locked up . Sounds like a trip to stalkersville reform school. | |
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o.k.--- heard through the grapevine that he doesnt even think of me in that way so, i guess theres my answer ya'll. I don't have to wonder any more, so i guess im a lil dissapointed but i feel better knowing. Thanx 4 the support and advice brothers and sistas im married 2 prince?. he just doesn't know it yet. lol. | |
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sexymella2002 said: I have a huge crush on this sexy ass latin lover , oh my goodness he is gorgeous, everytime i see him i get excited and my heart starts pounding, i didnt think that he knew i was alive but he speaks to me when ever he sees me, and he smiles a lot at me , we've had a couple of brief conversations about nothing really but still i feel blessed that he even takes the time to give me those few minutes. In a way i think he digs me too but im not sure he could just be showing general kindness toward me. I don't know but it feels like it could be more. I've said a few flirty things to him and all he does is blush (which is the sexiest thing to see him do). I play it off like im joking but i know he has to know im not. Last time we spoke i said something kinda blunt to him about how he made me feel when he's around me, it was a little sexual. He lingered around me for about 10 seconds and politely excused himself. and said good bye, me feeling quite stupid and embarassed said good bye back to him. Every since then i have been feeling really bad and embarrased. I don't know what to do or say the next time i see him. Maybe i should apologize to him or maybe i should just avoid him, i don't know but I'd rather go back to being just casual with him then to have him avoid me like the plaugue. Maybe i came on too strong, maybe im not his type ( which im not sure about cuz i catch him looking at me a lot). I don't know im confused. The only thing i do know is i like him and i hope he likes me and i didnt turn him off. Give me ur opinion i welcome all comments but please there is no need for hurtful or harsh responses. This is a sensitive subject for me and no im not a stalker lol. I just have a huge lemon crush on him.
Hey....you like the guy and now he knows it, but just may be a little shy like you are being...why don't you break the ice and ask him to join you for lunch sometime? No need in sitting back with these highschool butterflies.....cute! 
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