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what do u do when u have a crush on someone? I have a huge crush on this sexy ass latin lover , oh my goodness he is gorgeous, everytime i see him i get excited and my heart starts pounding, i didnt think that he knew i was alive but he speaks to me when ever he sees me, and he smiles a lot at me , we've had a couple of brief conversations about nothing really but still i feel blessed that he even takes the time to give me those few minutes. In a way i think he digs me too but im not sure he could just be showing general kindness toward me. I don't know but it feels like it could be more. I've said a few flirty things to him and all he does is blush (which is the sexiest thing to see him do). I play it off like im joking but i know he has to know im not. Last time we spoke i said something kinda blunt to him about how he made me feel when he's around me, it was a little sexual. He lingered around me for about 10 seconds and politely excused himself. and said good bye, me feeling quite stupid and embarassed said good bye back to him. Every since then i have been feeling really bad and embarrased. I don't know what to do or say the next time i see him. Maybe i should apologize to him or maybe i should just avoid him, i don't know but I'd rather go back to being just casual with him then to have him avoid me like the plaugue. Maybe i came on too strong, maybe im not his type ( which im not sure about cuz i catch him looking at me a lot). I don't know im confused. The only thing i do know is i like him and i hope he likes me and i didnt turn him off. Give me ur opinion i welcome all comments but please there is no need for hurtful or harsh responses. This is a sensitive subject for me and no im not a stalker lol. I just have a huge lemon crush on him. im married 2 prince?. he just doesn't know it yet. lol. | |
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Just talk to him....I'm sure he's feeling the same way. | |
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I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes. | |
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Ptownhood said: I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes.
 WHY SHOULD I DO THAT, WHEN I CAN DO THIS | |
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Ptownhood said: I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes.
Did Althom teach u that one  | |
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Ocean said: Ptownhood said: I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes.
Did Althom teach u that one Maybe.....  | |
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Forget about the "sexy ass lovers" and find someone you are enough comfortable with to have more than just short conversations that send your heart pounding. That's my piece of advice. Crushes come and go. It's the serenity of the heart that matters, not the excitment.
Of course nothing prevents you from offering him sex upfront. | |
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If I have a crush on someone, I tend to keep my mouth shut. Especially in front of my wife.
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Try and handle it if you can...especially if it only goes one way  | |
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269 said: Ptownhood said: I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes.
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Tell them how u feel. Get straight to it.  | |
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TeaAndTe said: Tell them how u feel. Get straight to it.
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AsianBomb777 said: TeaAndTe said: Tell them how u feel. Get straight to it.
Taxi for AsianBomb! | |
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TeaAndTe said: Tell them how u feel. Get straight to it.
In my experience that's seriously been a BAAAAAD Idea  | |
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Natisse said: TeaAndTe said: Tell them how u feel. Get straight to it.
In my experience that's seriously been a BAAAAAD Idea It's either that or wonder what might've been. There really is nothing to lose and everything to gain. Isn't the chance of something incredible worth the potential rejection? If I told you that you were going to meet your soulmate but you'd have to be rejected 20 times first would you accept those terms? ... [Edited 6/2/05 3:50am] | |
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TeaAndTe said: Natisse said: In my experience that's seriously been a BAAAAAD Idea It's either that or wonder what might've been. There really is nothing to lose and everything to gain. Isn't the chance of something incredible worth the potential rejection? If I told you that you were going to meet your soulmate but you'd have to be rejected 20 times first would you accept those terms? ok honest answer? I've done that...I've taken the chance twice now and twice it was kinda thrown back at me not doing it again no way...I misinterpreted big time and I will not go there again it's too painful | |
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TeaAndTe said: Natisse said: In my experience that's seriously been a BAAAAAD Idea It's either that or wonder what might've been. There really is nothing to lose and everything to gain. Isn't the chance of something incredible worth the potential rejection? If I told you that you were going to meet your soulmate but you'd have to be rejected 20 times first would you accept those terms? ... [Edited 6/2/05 3:50am] carpe diem. | |
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Natisse said: TeaAndTe said: It's either that or wonder what might've been. There really is nothing to lose and everything to gain. Isn't the chance of something incredible worth the potential rejection? If I told you that you were going to meet your soulmate but you'd have to be rejected 20 times first would you accept those terms? ok honest answer? I've done that...I've taken the chance twice now and twice it was kinda thrown back at me not doing it again no way...I misinterpreted big time and I will not go there again it's too painful I can understand you feeling that way. 
You'll surely have to stick your neck out a little again at some point though if you're to find that special someone. Perhaps not taking such a big chance, but I think there's always an element of taking a deep breath and putting yourself out there to be hurt a bit whenever two people hook up. | |
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TeaAndTe said: Natisse said: ok honest answer? I've done that...I've taken the chance twice now and twice it was kinda thrown back at me not doing it again no way...I misinterpreted big time and I will not go there again it's too painful I can understand you feeling that way.
You'll surely have to stick your neck out a little again at some point though if you're to find that special someone. Perhaps not taking such a big chance, but I think there's always an element of taking a deep breath and putting yourself out there to be hurt a bit whenever two people hook up. I was only playing hard-to-get. | |
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TeaAndTe said: Natisse said: ok honest answer? I've done that...I've taken the chance twice now and twice it was kinda thrown back at me not doing it again no way...I misinterpreted big time and I will not go there again it's too painful I can understand you feeling that way.
You'll surely have to stick your neck out a little again at some point though if you're to find that special someone. Perhaps not taking such a big chance, but I think there's always an element of taking a deep breath and putting yourself out there to be hurt a bit whenever two people hook up. oh I will for sure...when the right guy comes along and I KNOW he feels the same way
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Slash said: If I have a crush on someone, I tend to keep my mouth shut. Especially in front of my wife.
I knew you always had it hard for Alive!!!  | |
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PurpleThunder said: Slash said: If I have a crush on someone, I tend to keep my mouth shut. Especially in front of my wife.
I knew you always had it hard for Alive!!! 
btw How you doing sweetie? | |
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AsianBomb777 said: TeaAndTe said: I can understand you feeling that way.
You'll surely have to stick your neck out a little again at some point though if you're to find that special someone. Perhaps not taking such a big chance, but I think there's always an element of taking a deep breath and putting yourself out there to be hurt a bit whenever two people hook up. I was only playing hard-to-get.Where is that taxi I called? | |
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Slash said: PurpleThunder said:
I knew you always had it hard for Alive!!!
btw How you doing sweetie? I was doing good until I realized you are lusting over Alive and my fantasies are totaly shot!!!
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TeaAndTe said: AsianBomb777 said: I was only playing hard-to-get.Where is that taxi I called? No, baby, don't. You'll ruin our momment.  | |
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AsianBomb777 said: TeaAndTe said: Where is that taxi I called? No, baby, don't. You'll ruin our momment. Oh nooooo!
Um, what's a 'momment'?  | |
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althom said: Just talk to him....I'm sure he's feeling the same way.
Yup In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Ptownhood said: I usually just hang around outside their house. Usually in the bushes.
lol that might get me locked up . im married 2 prince?. he just doesn't know it yet. lol. | |
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Nothing, which is usually the best thing for me to do. | |
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I generally blush and giggle a lot. |
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