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PrintableDrLilWillie said: brownsugar said: let me clear this up-no i dont prefer white men, i prefer black men but mainly a man that respects period and don't assume blanket opinions like this topic. You sound bitter. See, like this attitude you have righ now...is exactly what I'm talking about... Always pissy mad. no i'm not mad or bitter believe me. but the topic seems to set it off as such. you made an assumption about all black women-that we are unsatisfiable and thats not true. and if there are women who act like that and it bothers you just find someone who isn't like that-steer clear  | |
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What the hell do yall expect from a brotha?
If he's respectful...has money...good looking...dependable...etc...you tend to dog them. If he's a thug, you fall head over hills. "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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DrLilWillie said: What the hell do yall expect from a brotha?
If he's respectful...has money...good looking...dependable...etc...you tend to dog them. If he's a thug, you fall head over hills. find some one who accepts you for you | |
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brownsugar said: DrLilWillie said: You sound bitter. See, like this attitude you have righ now...is exactly what I'm talking about... Always pissy mad. no i'm not mad or bitter believe me. but the topic seems to set it off as such. you made an assumption about all black women-that we are unsatisfiable and thats not true. and if there are women who act like that and it bothers you just find someone who isn't like that-steer clear I'm glad you made this point. Not every black women is as picky and mean. But the majority of sistas can be mean as hell. "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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Generalizing a race of women is stupid! Stupid as hell! If there is a type of woman that u are looking for and you keep striking out time afetr time then it looks like you need to do some work on yourself. I know what u are going to say next, " well I don't have any problems with white/other girls..." Well, that could be due to the fact that u have been sooo busy stereotyping black women that u always find something wrong with one. I mean u can't honestly tell me that u know for a fact that all black women prefer thugs and dogs?! Don't blame all of us for your past mis-steps, mistakes, or occasional crazy chick! I swear, I am so sick of hearing this crap from men all the time. Work on yourself, treat others with the respect and love u are looking for, don't persecute every woman for the mistakes of others and u will find the one u are looking for. It also helps not to search in the booty clubs...
4 real, If I blamed every man or black man for that matter for all the horrible shit that has been done to me by other black men, I'd be bitter and alone too. Shake....shake, shake, shake. | |
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brownsugar said: DrLilWillie said: What the hell do yall expect from a brotha?
If he's respectful...has money...good looking...dependable...etc...you tend to dog them. If he's a thug, you fall head over hills. find some one who accepts you for you I'm not worried about finding someone... Shit, if I go out with a woman of another race...sista give me that attitude like something's wrong... Why? "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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DrLilWillie said: brownsugar said: no i'm not mad or bitter believe me. but the topic seems to set it off as such. you made an assumption about all black women-that we are unsatisfiable and thats not true. and if there are women who act like that and it bothers you just find someone who isn't like that-steer clear I'm glad you made this point. Not every black women is as picky and mean. But the majority of sistas can be mean as hell. the ones you met probably been through some shit | |
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i'm personally offended
but whatever i'm not pissy and i hate 2 be shoved in2 this stereotype i'm jus sayin | |
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brownsugar said: DrLilWillie said: I'm glad you made this point. Not every black women is as picky and mean. But the majority of sistas can be mean as hell. the ones you met probably been through some shit We all have... "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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SammiJ said: i'm personally offended
but whatever i'm not pissy and i hate 2 be shoved in2 this stereotype i'm jus sayin Take notes SammiJ. You're still young. Please don't follow a bitter way of personality. "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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DrLilWillie said: brownsugar said: the ones you met probably been through some shit We all have... still... | |
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I'm not Black, but some of my best friends are.
And they expect: $ 
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DrLilWillie said: SammiJ said: i'm personally offended
but whatever i'm not pissy and i hate 2 be shoved in2 this stereotype i'm jus sayin Take notes SammiJ. You're still young. Please don't follow a bitter way of personality. do u really mean that or are u jus assuming/fearing that i'll be shoved in2 the stereotype you've just mentioned? | |
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purpleizpassion said: Generalizing a race of women is stupid! Stupid as hell! If there is a type of woman that u are looking for and you keep striking out time afetr time then it looks like you need to do some work on yourself. I know what u are going to say next, " well I don't have any problems with white/other girls..." Well, that could be due to the fact that u have been sooo busy stereotyping black women that u always find something wrong with one. I mean u can't honestly tell me that u know for a fact that all black women prefer thugs and dogs?! Don't blame all of us for your past mis-steps, mistakes, or occasional crazy chick! I swear, I am so sick of hearing this crap from men all the time. Work on yourself, treat others with the respect and love u are looking for, don't persecute every woman for the mistakes of others and u will find the one u are looking for. It also helps not to search in the booty clubs...
4 real, If I blamed every man or black man for that matter for all the horrible shit that has been done to me by other black men, I'd be bitter and alone too. I'm not bitter and alone. I've just notice a pattern in having a relationshp with a sista....doesn't matter... Now if she has alot of money and is into her career and shit like that...you can forget it. She'd be the biggest asshole you'd ever see. On the other hand, black women who are simple...just plain simple are the coolest of them all. This is far in between. In Atlanta, alot of the sistas here are fake as hell. "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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ignorance really ISN'T bliss afterall
im jus sayin | |
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SammiJ said: DrLilWillie said: Take notes SammiJ. You're still young. Please don't follow a bitter way of personality. do u really mean that or are u jus assuming/fearing that i'll be shoved in2 the stereotype you've just mentioned? Not sure if you would fall into this. I haven't chatted with you that much. Overall, it depends who you surround yourself with. You don't seem like the typical sista though. "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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DrLilWillie said: SammiJ said: do u really mean that or are u jus assuming/fearing that i'll be shoved in2 the stereotype you've just mentioned? Not sure if you would fall into this. I haven't chatted with you that much. Overall, it depends who you surround yourself with. You don't seem like the typical sista though. there is no such thing as a typical sista then cuz i am a sista we're all different stop generalizing, it's hurtful. if you're saying it depends on who u surround yourself with, then u can't jus come out and say all sistah r like that dont u get it? | |
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What to sistah's expect from their men?
That's an easy one, but before I answer this, let me explain something to you. Sistah's aren't all the moody and bytchy as one would think. They're actually some of the nicest, caring, good hearted people on this planet, but when you're tired of Bullshyt, you're tired of it. Now, what they expect from their man is to be honest, warm, sincere, EMPLOYED and for the most part, God fearing. When you got most of us men(white, black, whatever) that's out there cheating, lying, fuckin' up, selling/smokin' weed, buying 24 inch rims instead of buying a house. A good woman will not settle for this and hence, expect more from her man. Life my azz muthafucka, dis is a bitness!!
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DrLilWillie said:[quote] brownsugar said: well me personally i don't want anything right now but respect and when i'm tired of you i want you to get outta my face-thats about it. and why are you zeroing in on us sistahs anyway?Because I feel like sistas don't back their brothas enough. They will back out of a situation in a minute.[/quot u either need to take a history lesson and a reality check or, change the people/women u hang around... 
Good luck. realizing that further argument is poinless edit [Edited 5/26/05 13:28pm] Shake....shake, shake, shake. | |
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SammiJ said: ignorance really ISN'T bliss afterall
im jus sayin 
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SammiJ said: DrLilWillie said: Not sure if you would fall into this. I haven't chatted with you that much. Overall, it depends who you surround yourself with. You don't seem like the typical sista though. there is no such thing as a typical sista then cuz i am a sista we're all different stop generalizing, it's hurtful. if you're saying it depends on who u surround yourself with, then u can't jus come out and say all sistah r like that dont u get it? What do you expect from the young men you date? "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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toffee said: DrLilWillie said: Are women ever satisfied?
You give good sex...love...conversation....money...all that stuff... Still not satisfied... Or is this just black women who act like this? Still think you and Dex should marry one another and move to another country   I've given it some thought to move to another country. "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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DrLilWillie said: SammiJ said: there is no such thing as a typical sista then cuz i am a sista we're all different stop generalizing, it's hurtful. if you're saying it depends on who u surround yourself with, then u can't jus come out and say all sistah r like that dont u get it? What do you expect from the young men you date? MATURITY...if u got that, then usually everything else comes with the package..USUALLY...not all the time. and because i can't seem 2 find that in younger guys i date older men. | |
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DrLilWillie said: What the hell do yall expect from a brotha?
If he's respectful...has money...good looking...dependable...etc...you tend to dog them. If he's a thug, you fall head over hills. I'd do Fitty-Cent.... he all the thug i'll eva need...and I'd _"back this thing up and LET THE BROTHA PUSH UP ON IT!!!_" _HARD!!!!_  | |
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DrLilWillie said: toffee said: Still think you and Dex should marry one another and move to another country I've given it some thought to move to another country. all u and dex gotta do then is figure out who's pitchin and who's catchin  | |
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SammiJ said: DrLilWillie said: What do you expect from the young men you date? MATURITY...if u got that, then usually everything else comes with the package..USUALLY...not all the time. and because i can't seem 2 find that in younger guys i date older men. What color? Do you talk proper? "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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DrLilWillie said: SammiJ said: MATURITY...if u got that, then usually everything else comes with the package..USUALLY...not all the time. and because i can't seem 2 find that in younger guys i date older men. What color? Do you talk proper? any colour and yeah i do talk proper what the hell does that have 2 do with anything? trying 2 size me up 2 see which stereotype i fit? c'mon now  | |
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toffee said: DrLilWillie said: I've given it some thought to move to another country. all u and dex gotta do then is figure out who's pitchin and who's catchin 
Gina...nevermind. You know what? You crack me the hell up. "Maybe what you're saying is a little bit grandiosity on my part. Or maybe it's an image of what you would like to me to be. If it works for you then it works for me." | |
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DrLilWillie said: toffee said: all u and dex gotta do then is figure out who's pitchin and who's catchin
Gina...nevermind. You know what? You crack me the hell up. That's cuz u lubz u some me baby | |
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SammiJ said: DrLilWillie said: What do you expect from the young men you date? MATURITY...if u got that, then usually everything else comes with the package..USUALLY...not all the time. and because i can't seem 2 find that in younger guys i date older men. Just ignore him...ok...R his points of view gonna affect U...just let him have his stereotypes... | |
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