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same sex relationship domestic violence Where can abused men go to get away from there abusive spouse? My friend needs help pretty bad but I'm not sure if he wants it. He takes alot of shit from his lover.  Haters travel in packs and they are offended or threatened by klhk, haters express intense hostility toward the subject of hate. Haters are annoyed and roll thier eyes when klhk is paid a compliment. ask yourself, are u a hater? | |
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Your "friend". 
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that's so sad  "Americans consume the most fast food than any nation on Earth and the stupid motherfuckers wonder why they are so fat? " - Oprah Winfrey | |
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call the anti-violence project (AVP) hotline. it's 24/7, by the way. the only number i know of is a new york number, but they will have resources for AVP offices around the country and can give better advice on how to help your friend than any of us can on here. have your friend call this number, or you call it yourself if you don't think he will:
The AVP hotline: (212) 714-1141 and someone will help. | |
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Anxiety said: call the anti-violence project (AVP) hotline. it's 24/7, by the way. the only number i know of is a new york number, but they will have resources for AVP offices around the country and can give better advice on how to help your friend than any of us can on here. have your friend call this number, or you call it yourself if you don't think he will:
The AVP hotline: (212) 714-1141 and someone will help. oh wow, thanks! I'll give him the number and try to convince him to call..... Haters travel in packs and they are offended or threatened by klhk, haters express intense hostility toward the subject of hate. Haters are annoyed and roll thier eyes when klhk is paid a compliment. ask yourself, are u a hater? | |
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contact the police, or a shelter 
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luv4u said: contact the police, or a shelter
Normally good advice, but the police can't do much unless the person wants to press charges and shelters are difficult to find for men, sad but true. Anxy's # will steer you in the right direction! I had the unfotunate experience of living across the hall from a couple where the one would beat the other senseless every so often and the shouting matches and verbal abuse were an almost daily occurence. It was awful. I called the police whenever I heard it get out of hand, as did my other neighbor on that end of the hall. It was sad, though, as the meanie would almost always leave before the police got there and the other just stuck up for him. It was a bad situation all around. I finally just moved. |
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luv4u said: contact the police, or a shelter
unfortunately, i don't know that a women's shelter would have a lot to say to an male spouse who has been battered. they might at least have some other numbers to call or some resources for safe spaces the guy could go to. but a women's shelter wouldn't take in a male, regardless of his situation, for obvious reasons. | |
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Anxiety said: luv4u said: contact the police, or a shelter
unfortunately, i don't know that a women's shelter would have a lot to say to an male spouse who has been battered. they might at least have some other numbers to call or some resources for safe spaces the guy could go to. but a women's shelter wouldn't take in a male, regardless of his situation, for obvious reasons. they have shelters for battered men here in Hamilton. | |
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SammiJ said: Anxiety said: unfortunately, i don't know that a women's shelter would have a lot to say to an male spouse who has been battered. they might at least have some other numbers to call or some resources for safe spaces the guy could go to. but a women's shelter wouldn't take in a male, regardless of his situation, for obvious reasons. they have shelters for battered men here in Hamilton. that's really awesome to hear.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: luv4u said: contact the police, or a shelter
Normally good advice, but the police can't do much unless the person wants to press charges and shelters are difficult to find for men, sad but true. Anxy's # will steer you in the right direction! I had the unfotunate experience of living across the hall from a couple where the one would beat the other senseless every so often and the shouting matches and verbal abuse were an almost daily occurence. It was awful. I called the police whenever I heard it get out of hand, as did my other neighbor on that end of the hall. It was sad, though, as the meanie would almost always leave before the police got there and the other just stuck up for him. It was a bad situation all around. I finally just moved. That sounds very similar to his particular situation. I dunno, maybe he likes to get yelled at and beat up. Haters travel in packs and they are offended or threatened by klhk, haters express intense hostility toward the subject of hate. Haters are annoyed and roll thier eyes when klhk is paid a compliment. ask yourself, are u a hater? | |
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SammiJ said: Anxiety said: unfortunately, i don't know that a women's shelter would have a lot to say to an male spouse who has been battered. they might at least have some other numbers to call or some resources for safe spaces the guy could go to. but a women's shelter wouldn't take in a male, regardless of his situation, for obvious reasons. they have shelters for battered men here in Hamilton. That's cause you live in Canada..... Haters travel in packs and they are offended or threatened by klhk, haters express intense hostility toward the subject of hate. Haters are annoyed and roll thier eyes when klhk is paid a compliment. ask yourself, are u a hater? | |
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I offered the number to my friend, he looked at me like I was crazy and refused to call. I said "ok". I guess maybe he likes to get beat up..... 
I won't be interfereing anymore. Haters travel in packs and they are offended or threatened by klhk, haters express intense hostility toward the subject of hate. Haters are annoyed and roll thier eyes when klhk is paid a compliment. ask yourself, are u a hater? | |
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SammiJ said: Anxiety said: unfortunately, i don't know that a women's shelter would have a lot to say to an male spouse who has been battered. they might at least have some other numbers to call or some resources for safe spaces the guy could go to. but a women's shelter wouldn't take in a male, regardless of his situation, for obvious reasons. they have shelters for battered men here in Hamilton. we have one in Asheville also | |
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