However, my wife is the NECK!


What about the rest of you married folk? Is there dominance figure of the house and should there be?

in ours there is not ... and for us there should not be

for others it may work that there is ...

it's all good

We r equal, this works for us.
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[Edited 5/23/05 16:52pm]

This again? Feels like only yesterday I was posting something about this on one of Dex's threads I imagine.

I'm the head sometimes, and sometimes my wife is. We've different skills and abilities so we both have some responsibilities and we just try to have this thing moving in the right direction. We clash sometimes and there are times I'll take control if I'm certain it's for the best for us, and likewise she's pretty strong and takes control and steers this thing when she sees fit. It wasn't always the case. All the responsibility and headship of the family was mine once upon a time, but we're a good team now, who try to fill in the places where the other isn't.

I've been the head of my own household for about 5 years now, alone. I'm not sure how it may go once I find myself in a living-together relationship with a partner. I may be a bit headstrong and want things my own way, or I may welcome the opportunity to give up some of the burden of decision-making. I suspect a bit of both.
I think different things work for different people, just find what works.

CarrieMpls said:

I see it the same. I haven't even dated in over a year. I am certain Gods got it. Amazingly it is on my mind less and less. Soon enough I imagine

CarrieMpls said:

I'm considering celebacy for a year. And this time, of my own volition.

Sex and relationships are extremely complicated and they have the power to poison so much of my time. I just want to be free of complications for a long time.

In short, I want to be innocent again.

well now i'm the head of my house...and thats the way i like it.