A bit vague but you'll get what I'm trying to say here:

So you meet someone. Aprehensive at first...then you ease into it. Some more conversation. After a few days there's a 'misunderstanding' that leads too a little bit of friction...yet neither of you are willing to drop it or admit fault. And neither of you like the silent treatment. Things settle a bit. Conversation slowly starts up again. Apologies exchanged. There's something more. One starts to open up...the other is just brutally honest. Yet they connect, understand and respect eachother. Being completely naked in eachother's presence yet never going too much deeper than skin. Wanting the other to like you and love you..but not reject you..why do we play these games?
Why look at me with that "I'd do anything in the world for you" look, and why am I here at all? We have no past, yet we are connecting on so many levels. You want what I want and I want what you want. But it's still all too new and we have to ease into it. So I ignore you..and that upsets you. You want my full attention...or is it that when you said you didn't care..you actually did? do we both want control...and both afraid to let go?

and it doesn't help that you're face is so beautiful, your eyes are jewels, and yo body sho nuff is a wonderland. Only God could have created so much beauty in one person. Dear Lord... make this one for keeps!


"What do I have to do, to get the message through, how can I prove...that I really love you, love you?!" ~ Kylie

Beautiful!

LiveWithIt said:

damn.. so true. So what do i do??

Chico1 said:

Dump that bitch, and find someone who isn't bi-polar.

Chico1 said:

1st of all, IMO, HOW can u love HIM/HER with all this misunderstanding & unwillngness 2 talk... The relationship is TOO NEW. Ask the person 2 sit down & talk with U, BUT if THEY r NOT willing, or do but ARENT HONEST...MOVE ON. Some relationships WERENT MEANT 2 B. Some become so confusing NO ONE CARES any more. Moreso, though IMO, the other person got the wrong laser beam from U or u from them & NEED 2 know it. COOPERATION is necessary or 4 get it. TALKING is EVERYTHING. OPENNESS is EVERYTHING. GAMES are a waste of time. I been through this myself a few times with no success. I am a very open person. Lots of guys R NOT. Thats THEIR problem not mine. U cant mold urself 2 their specifications IF U want the LOVE 2 LAST. Acceptance of each other works. Making exceptions and accepting imperfections. U seem 2 B attracted 2 her looks alot. THAT wont last either. See if theres anything there yet or IF there EVER was? I can totally relate here BUT we DO learn from these things. It hurts, but we grow. Move 4ward. However, remember its NEVER too late 2 start over...if its meant 2 b. But 2 need 2 want 2. : )

LiveWithIt said:

grandebelle said:

i hear ya Belle. it's not as serious as i may have made it out to be. like i said..I know the post is vague, but it's a bit of flirtation, a bit of getting to know you, etc... we ALL are attracted to something beautiful. that's why i posted it last. because it's the insides that i am attracted to..the beauty is a bonus. we're not entirely toying with eachother's emotions. more of a cat and mouse at play if you will. and trust me if i posted their pic here.. wow.
anyway..the cool thing is that we are being honest and talk so far about everything. no holds barred. but it's that we're friends right now, but we want more, thing going on. the physical attraction really pales in comparison to just looking into the eyes and listening to eachother. i know it sounds confusing. i don't know , I just hate that part. yeah..i'll admit to being a little eager beaver but i'm getting the same response in return. just trying to be cautious. i know we are no where near this, but love is something i have to learn to believe in again. i'm just not ready to take a fall.

Chico1 said:

Remember when bi-polar meant bears that went both ways?

LiveWithIt said:

what do you mean both ways?

...and where have you been? :confused:

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

me? long story

Chico1 said:

Well its nice to see you!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

And you as well. Thank you.

Chico1 said:

I have been wondering the same!!

CarrieMpls said:

LiveWithIt said:

YES...OVERANALYZING is PARALYZING. AND...IDLE HANDS R THE DEVILS WORKSHOP. AND... it IS like THIS!!! Delete my advice above...

Chico1 said:

I'll do my best to try to get you to get over that person.....


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I always want what i can't have ...had to edit
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Chico1 said:

I SO know what you mean

Rejection is not an aphrodisiac for me...does it hurt, yes...do you question yourself, if even for a moment, yes...but does it make me want that person even more? No...

Honest emotion, made vunerable and layed bare...that's a HUGE aphrodisiac to my mind and heart. Taking away the pretense, the guise...letting what they feel towards me be known, giving me what lays within their heart that is genuine and sincere...not necessarily on a romantic level but simply on an appreciation level.

It's emotional energy wasted otherwise.

Byron said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

oh damn!

Annastesia22 said:

basically.

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Chico319 said:

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