Well, do you?
Do you trust them?

I'm not talking about people who just choose not to HAVE kids. I'm talking about people who hate kids. And there are some of those people among us.

How can you hate what you once were?

I don't like people who hate

I hate them

i can understand why some people don't like kids, but i don't like it when people won't acknowledge that some kids are intolerable because their parents raise them to behave like little heathens. i used to loathe kids myself, but then i came to understand why brats are brats, and now i loathe bad parenting and i feel sorry for kids who are badly parented...though they still annoy the bejeezus outta me.

I dont understand how anyone could hate kids.

I can understand some get annoyed at *brats* but werent we all sometimes naughty when we were little?

We were all kids once.. this is their time.. now..

i have NO idea, and no i dont trust them for shit !!!

any person who can look at a child and say that they dont like them has HUGE issues within themselves that would cause me to say something is completely fucked up with them

I don't like people who hate kids. Maybe people are missinformed about kids. I do agree with Anx about how the parents should, sometimes, be blamed for the behavior of a child.


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I have 3 of the lil things.....and they are okay for lots of things like yardwork, fetchin dad a Coke w/lime...

I love kids....especially gravy and biscuits...

pardonme4livin said:

Oh and before I get flamed....I am teasing.....I love kids and can't imagine my life without mine.... lil rascals that they are!

Well, kids annoy the hell out of me. That's why I'm glad I'm not a parent. I enjoy having my freedom to whatever I feel like doing at the moment. Plus, I can't stand all the screaming/noise that kids do. My nerves are bad and I don't have the patience for bad assed kids. Thank GOD for birth control!!!!

beret1022 said:

that should be a Hallmark card.... maybe for Father's Day...

beret1022 said:

hey, at least you recognize that and choose not to bring babies into your world at this point


but from reading your post, it doesnt sound like you HATE kids, sounds more like maybe you wouldnt be the one to envite over for a 5 year olds birthday party seriously, i love my babies to death, but even THEY get a bit loud at times... thats when i have to tell them to chill the hell out

Kids are fascinating. It's their parent's that get on my nerves.

Tom said:

LOL
you can say that again

I wouldnt judge them on the fact they have a problem with kids. I just would make plans with them when my kids are around.


Im glad I had kids early. I have very little patients now. My kids understand this and they are able to deal with it because they are alittle older. I dont think I could handle a "baby".....Too much to handle and like I said not enough patients....I cant handle being in places like chuck -e-chesse or at disneyland for too long. I seem to have this radar of some type where I always end up with someone elses kid hanging on my leg.....it never fails.....and It pisses me off...

KIDS ROCK! I think that the adults of today have just lost their fuckin' marbles. Some that is. Some of the adults are soo fucking serious about everything. They think they have to be mature ALL the fucking time. That's a crock of bullshit. Children are just that, children, and need to be treated that way. but also, they need someone they can talk to instead of someone always telling them "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME YOU SNOTTY NOSSED INGRATE!" Sometimes I wanna snap on these assholes and be like "You DO know that you weren't the perfect lil' angel when you were their age right, you do know you caused your mother's gray hairs RIGHT?! There's no fucking point in snapping at them like that because your fucking life isn't GLAMOROUS. They need someone to TALK to, and not get shot back at." Some of them really piss me off with their evil ass ways.

Me, I absolutely LOVE kids, but I am not having any, I'll adopt. Some of the conversations you can have with them can be very intresting and meaningful. I just love the look in their eyes when they actually HEAR what you're telling them instead of your words going in one ear and out the other. Their eyes just light up like magic. Also, some of the most informative conversations you can have could be with a child. UNFORTUNATELY, this still holds true. I don't understand how some of these older people treat children like shit when their younger (rape, starvation, "You're a fucking waste of my egg!" , "I wish you were never born!" , abuse, neglection, etc..) and then wonder why they became serial rapists/murders. Or bank robbers, or VERY troubled adults seeking help in all the wrong places cuz' they feel that they can only count on those people. Children need to be treated like they are the joy of your lives. They need to be talked to and informed on all the stuff they shouldn't do, because they are DOOMED to experiment.


Some of these parents also REFUSE to discipline their children, and then wonder why the child ends up kicking THEIR ass if they didn't do what they were told. It's soo fucking sad. Children are like sponges, whatever they see you do, they are gonna try it sometime in their lifetime. now, I haven't tried HALF the shit my mom and dad did, and probably won't.


But as I said, I totally love being around kids. I want to teach so that i am that much closer to them and help them along in this cold world we all have to live in sooner or later. It's a cold place out in the real world, and you hating children is only gonna make it colder because the children are gonna lose their fucking marbles also. So sad and so true. I don't wanna be alive when that happens. at those who love kids



(This post wasn't dirrected at anyone who has posted/will post. I was simply making a point, so please don't take this outta context. )

Tish4 said:

Well, good for you.

Again, kids irritate me.

beret1022 said:

Fleshofmyflesh said:

I don't hate anyone as whatever the reason(s) they have for disliking anything is their right to do so, I can't get caught up in the negative energy (which is all relative) of someone else as I cannot control their outlook on the world.

Whap!

and the thing that gets me is these parents that don't believe in disciplining their children. They let these bad ass kids get away with everything in the book. For instance, I have a friend who's 3 year old hits her!! and she thinks its cute! What kind of shit is that? I also, have a coworker who's 12 year old NEVER does her homework!! and she constantly 'acts up' in class. My co-worker says "well I didn't like school either" that's her justification for her childs behavior. No type of punishment. That's why these kids are so effed up. Because parents are not being parenting. I got my assed wooped as a child, when I did bad...and it helped...these kids need to get wooped not babied!!

some people aren't kid people. some people don't like cats. some people don't like republicans. i don't like meg ryan. diff'rent strokes.

i'll tell you how to get your kid on my bad side - trundle it around and force me to fawn over it like it's your little brag trophy. i know lots of people like to "ooh" and "aah" over the kiddies, but i'm not one of those people. i hated having that shit done to me when i was a kid, and i'm not gonna put kids through it as an adult. bleccch.