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HELP PLEASE My baby sis Nat had a beautiful baby boy Aden. When she got pregnant and told the father, he ran home 2 his mommy. I took my sis in and have taken care of her since. When Aden was born, his fath4r had a girlfriend who had 4 babies of her own. WTF was he thinking ???
3 weeks after Aden was born, 10 days premamuture and only 4 pounds, his father decided 2 dump his girlfriend 4 my Nat and God knows she tried 2 forgive and forget 4 Adens sake.... That jerk decided he doesn't want 2 be a full time parent (he is an unemployed bum by choice) Now they have seperated since I have been in the US and he has filed 4 custody WTF !!!! I am hurting 4 what 2 do, mostly because I can't have any children of my own, and I love my nephew and baby sister 2 death. I think I should leave the US and go home and get a lawyer 2 fight 4 us, is this the right thing 2 do ???? Be Joyful | |
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Oh boy!
I don't want to tell you to leave the US....but if this is really important to you, and you want to fight it, I think you would do anything to get them back.....right? | |
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althom said: Oh boy!
I don't want to tell you to leave the US....but if this is really important to you, and you want to fight it, I think you would do anything to get them back.....right? Family is more important than love right???? My lovelife has 2 take second place here. My nephew Aden is the only child I will ever have a part in raising Be Joyful | |
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RhondaJoyDiva said: althom said: Oh boy!
I don't want to tell you to leave the US....but if this is really important to you, and you want to fight it, I think you would do anything to get them back.....right? Family is more important than love right???? My lovelife has 2 take second place here. My nephew Aden is the only child I will ever have a part in raising For me, yes. | |
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RhondaJoyDiva said: althom said: Oh boy!
I don't want to tell you to leave the US....but if this is really important to you, and you want to fight it, I think you would do anything to get them back.....right? Family is more important than love right???? My lovelife has 2 take second place here. My nephew Aden is the only child I will ever have a part in raising You're partner will understand. He seems like a nice guy. I hope it works out for you. Is there any way you can contact a lawyer from there? | |
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althom said: RhondaJoyDiva said: Family is more important than love right???? My lovelife has 2 take second place here. My nephew Aden is the only child I will ever have a part in raising You're partner will understand. He seems like a nice guy. I hope it works out for you. Is there any way you can contact a lawyer from there? My sis Natalie is getting in touch with my travel agent in the morning 2 bring me home. I have a lawyer of my own. I love my nephew more than my boyfriend. My Aden is forever afterall... Be Joyful | |
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RhondaJoyDiva said: althom said: You're partner will understand. He seems like a nice guy. I hope it works out for you. Is there any way you can contact a lawyer from there? My sis Natalie is getting in touch with my travel agent in the morning 2 bring me home. I have a lawyer of my own. I love my nephew more than my boyfriend. My Aden is forever afterall... I feel terrible for you. I really hope this gets fixed soon for you.  | |
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If Musicology74 loves me, he will follow right ?
Why does this have 2 come 2 an ultimatum ? I am going 2 Australia as soon as this is over 4 a break Be Joyful | |
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RhondaJoyDiva said: If Musicology74 loves me, he will follow right ?
Why does this have 2 come 2 an ultimatum ? I am going 2 Australia as soon as this is over 4 a break Girl I feel 4 your pain. Not being able 2 have kids of your own must be really painful. I don't blame u 4 wanting 2 fight 2 keep your family 2gether. Hopefully your boyfriend will follow u and be a source of comfort 2 U | |
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I wish u the best Rhonda .....hope it gets resolved quickly | |
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Ocean said: I wish u the best Rhonda
.....hope it gets resolved quickly i don't really know what to say  | |
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you cant ask others what the right thing to do is hun ... you really should look deep into your heart
she will tell you what the right thing to do for YOU is ... best wishes hun  | |
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Mach said: you cant ask others what the right thing to do is hun ... you really should look deep into your heart
she will tell you what the right thing to do for YOU is ... best wishes hun I second dat No hablo espanol,no! 
Pero hablo ingles..ssii muy muy bien...
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Missy Quote of da Month: "yeah, sure, that's cool...wait WHAT?! "  | |
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RhondaJoyDiva said: althom said: You're partner will understand. He seems like a nice guy. I hope it works out for you. Is there any way you can contact a lawyer from there? My sis Natalie is getting in touch with my travel agent in the morning 2 bring me home. I have a lawyer of my own. I love my nephew more than my boyfriend. My Aden is forever afterall... well if you love your Nephew more than your boyfiend..well then there's your answer Check it out ...Shiny Toy Guns R gonna blowup VERY soon and bring melody back to music..you heard it here 1st! http://www.myspacecomment...theone.mp3 | |
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RhondaJoyDiva said: My baby sis Nat had a beautiful baby boy Aden. When she got pregnant and told the father, he ran home 2 his mommy. I took my sis in and have taken care of her since. When Aden was born, his fath4r had a girlfriend who had 4 babies of her own. WTF was he thinking ???
3 weeks after Aden was born, 10 days premamuture and only 4 pounds, his father decided 2 dump his girlfriend 4 my Nat and God knows she tried 2 forgive and forget 4 Adens sake.... That jerk decided he doesn't want 2 be a full time parent (he is an unemployed bum by choice) Now they have seperated since I have been in the US and he has filed 4 custody WTF !!!! I am hurting 4 what 2 do, mostly because I can't have any children of my own, and I love my nephew and baby sister 2 death. I think I should leave the US and go home and get a lawyer 2 fight 4 us, is this the right thing 2 do ???? Rhonda...I live in the US and I tell ya what....I'll go and whip his ass for you and your sis and especially for Aden....we'll call it "a random act of kindness" on my part and this will all be resolved for you. | |
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do what you know in your heart has to be done. | |
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I am flying home 2 NZ next Wednesday and M74 is applying 4 his passport tomorrow, so he can follow when he gets it. Thanks everyone 4 your sepport Be Joyful | |
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dont worry his broke ass wont get custody
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RhondaJoyDiva said: I am flying home 2 NZ next Wednesday and M74 is applying 4 his passport tomorrow, so he can follow when he gets it. Thanks everyone 4 your sepport
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RhondaJoyDiva said:[quote]If Musicology74 loves me, he will follow right ?
Why does this have 2 come 2 an ultimatum ? ULTIMATUM.....ULTIMATUM OF WHAT !!! SOME PEOPLE--THOSE WHO THINK IT'S EVER THEIR PLACE TO CHANGE SOMEONE--WILL FIND NEW "FAULTS" WHEN OLD ONES GET "FIXED".
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pawpaw said: dont worry his broke ass wont get custody
  She couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay | |
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Hope everything works out ok, Rhonda. | |
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UPDATE: I am leaving the US next Wednesday. M74 is getting his passport sorted so he can join me in NZ hopefully by September. We went and got tattoos done 2gether, I finally have the synbol on my chest, in solid purple MOST JOYFUL
Thanks 4 all the support guys Be Joyful | |
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