JoeyMFinCoco said:

This tragedy has more to do with people being sucked in by the media circus. It involves real life issues that people face and deal with every day. When I was with my ex boyfriend, he was abusive to me. Emotionally, mentally and physically. I was 118 dealing with a 220 pound body builder. Hardly a match.

He was dementedly jealous and always accused me of cheating, which was not true. Sometimes he would be so flipped out because I denied it and he really believed it that he would slap me and punch me. Eventually I got to the point where I figured....if I'm going to get my ass kicked for something I haven't done, I might as well do it and that is when I started cheating on my partner. Not because I was a cum hungry whore, but because I turned to this person for comfort and for solace and for affection.

Juice, while you were brought up with whatever morals you were brought up with, you don't know their relationship and why she got with other men. Bringing her bed habits into this is really twisted and sick. I don't hear anybody saying jack shit about OJs daliances or about the fact that he beat this woman. If you are beating someone you don't fucking respect them and how dare anybody expect her to have respect for someone who clearly does not respect her. I got my ass beat way before I ever stepped out on my relationship and would hate to have people judging me like I was some whore when really I was looking for comfort and a little love.

And please before anybody starts lecturing me on how I should have handled that relationsship, I did finally leave and it would really help to hear the story from an abused person's perspective instead of automatically telling people what they should or shouldn't have done.

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/114206

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JoeyMFinCoco said:

This tragedy has more to do with people being sucked in by the media circus. It involves real life issues that people face and deal with every day. When I was with my ex boyfriend, he was abusive to me. Emotionally, mentally and physically. I was 118 dealing with a 220 pound body builder. Hardly a match.

He was dementedly jealous and always accused me of cheating, which was not true. Sometimes he would be so flipped out because I denied it and he really believed it that he would slap me and punch me. Eventually I got to the point where I figured....if I'm going to get my ass kicked for something I haven't done, I might as well do it and that is when I started cheating on my partner. Not because I was a cum hungry whore, but because I turned to this person for comfort and for solace and for affection.

Juice, while you were brought up with whatever morals you were brought up with, you don't know their relationship and why she got with other men. Bringing her bed habits into this is really twisted and sick. I don't hear anybody saying jack shit about OJs daliances or about the fact that he beat this woman. If you are beating someone you don't fucking respect them and how dare anybody expect her to have respect for someone who clearly does not respect her. I got my ass beat way before I ever stepped out on my relationship and would hate to have people judging me like I was some whore when really I was looking for comfort and a little love.

And please before anybody starts lecturing me on how I should have handled that relationsship, I did finally leave and it would really help to hear the story from an abused person's perspective instead of automatically telling people what they should or shouldn't have done.

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/114206

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[Edited 5/13/05 10:08am]

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

"So you gotta think about OJ's situation...$25,000 a month, another man drivin' around his car, fuckin' his wife in a house he's still paying a mortgage on. Now I'm not saying he should have killed her....but I understand."

JoeyMFinCoco said:

Blatant misogyny. Yechh.

VoicesCarry said:

Now that's a very serious accusation.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

feelin you more than you know

nakedpianoplayer said:

Honey, you know I aint playin with this triflin angle

It isnt meant to be funny it is the damn truth.

Did you know most murders are acted out due to having a lover tiff...I.E. Finding your spouse cheating.
Love and Rage combined is not a pretty sight.

Supa, Miguel, NPP... Thess excerpts ...for you...for being strong...because you understand and tell....

COMES THE DAWN

After a while you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.

stanza
stanza
stanza


And you learn that you really can endure,
that you really are strong, and you really have worth.

And you learn and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn.

i watched E's - 'top 100 most shocking moments' ... well, ok, i watched bits and pieces of it today, it was on for like 3 hours i think.....

anyway, MJ was on there like 5 different times...

but most sad to me was that the death of princess dianna was the second story, and the top on that list of 100 ????


OJ SIMPSON


well sure, it was very shocking, and it was a story that touched so many different folks on different levels - young, old, black, white, man, woman, rich, poor, whatever..... and we all remember where we were when the 'chase' was happening, and where we were when the arrest was made.... but FUCK ! why is his name put up there like that ??? i mean, its kinda like saying, 'see, you can kill and get away with it.'

i guess i just have such little respect for him as a human i wish it would all just end. dont bring up his name for stupid shit like this show, dont make it look all glamorous, and please dear god dont let him end up as a number one on ANY list... unless it is of course.... PEOPLE WHO GOT AWAY WITH MURDER AND WE KNOW YOU DID.

thanks, just needed to vent

Why did this case mean anything to anyone? This happens every day and no one gets upset over it? It's like the Scott Peterson thing. Who gives a fuck?

Supa, Miguel, NPP... Thess excerpts ...for you...for being strong...because you understand and tell....

COMES THE DAWN

After a while you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.

stanza
stanza
stanza


And you learn that you really can endure,
that you really are strong, and you really have worth.

And you learn and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn.

doctamario said:

and thats whats wrong with the world today....


too many dont 'give a fuck' - others let this shit happen because someone 'deserves it' - still more believe its other people's problems... guess what ?? you live in this world too, WHY dont you care ????


comments like this make me ill.

PiscesGlenn said:

God bless you PG. I've read about some of things that you've gone through. You are truly inspirational. What a strong woman.

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doctamario said:

and thats whats wrong with the world today....


too many dont 'give a fuck' - others let this shit happen because someone 'deserves it' - still more believe its other people's problems... guess what ?? you live in this world too, WHY dont you care ????


comments like this make me ill.

nakedpianoplayer said:

Of the billions of problems in the world to be sad about, I choose not to get emotional about a washed up celeb supposedly killing his wife.

nakedpianoplayer said:

..and how does your caring make this world a better place? Saying you care or having tears roll down your cheeks doesn't do anything. Too many people say they "care", yet they don't do shit.

Nicole and O.J. were completely divorced when this happened

I personally thick O.J. is innocent, but he knows who did it. Nicole was involved with shady people and did drugs. Let's not forget that sometimes the life we lead can lead to our demise

Janfriend said:

I've always thought that OJ didn't actually commit the crime, but hired someone to do it. Still guilty as friggin' sin. Hell, even if he knows who did it, but ain't talking out of fear, he is an accomplice.