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 Well my ex is now my bf again so...
to make a loooonnnnggg story short..... We were togther 7 years, started when we were too young idealistic, naive etc... We fought to much too much resetment bulit up. I cheated a few times wrecked the shit that was left... left him. Spent a year exploring myself, fixing what was wrong in my own head, dated a few guys,had a good relationship. He did the same, except he dated girls 
We learned our lessons,reconnected and are now talking about marriage. It's hard sometimes lots of old hurts are still there, but I'm happy. Happier than I was in all 7 years together I think. 
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Sweeny79 said: Well my ex is now my bf again so...
to mak a loooonnnnggg story short..... We were togther 7 years, started when we were too young idealistic, naive etc... We fought to much too much resetment bulit up. I cheated a few times wrecked the shit that was left... left him. Spent a year exploring myself, fixing what was wrong in my own head, dated a few guys,had a good relationship. He did the same. We learned our lessons,reconnected and are now talking about marriage. It's hard sometimes lots of old hurts are still there, but I'm happy. Happier than I was in all 7 years together I think.
That's a good story, minus the part about you cheating... 
It's good to see something can be worked out in some cases. Happy endings are nice sometimes. Insatiable taught me everything I know about balls.
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because he threw me off the pourch and broke 3 ribs ... so it was leave or kill him | |
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Mach said: because he threw me off the pourch and broke 3 ribs ... so it was leave or kill him
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Nero said: Well... after a year spent together, full of wonderful, kick ass times, I went through a bit of turmoil and rather than stand beside me, the ex decided to tell me I had "changed too much" and that he wanted to find someone a bit more his own age and "ready to settle down."
I was, of course, furious. I didn't even see it coming. Sure, we argued from time to time... almost always over such piddly shit like who was the superior Jeopardy player.  We had a very intense and, so far as I can possibly say, loving relationship that was there one day, and gone the next. So, I told him I hoped his cock fell off and he died and all sorts and sent him on his merry way.
I knew he cared because he called a bit, but I told him he had to stop or else I'd never get over it. So, several weeks later, I felt better and gave him a call. I've been a mess for months. I cry when I hear certain songs, or pass certain places he and I have been and had wonderful times.
It's been very hard for me to fathom that he could be the way he was, and then just up and dump me. Anyhow, we're getting together for a date and a retrial on Sunday. We'll see. I love that guy. Number23 told me that every sock has a shoe. The ex, N., is my shoe. I don't care to try on another pair. Sad story 
But funny in bits
Sell your tale to a big movie studio and then wave the moola in his face and say 
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Mach said: because he threw me off the pourch and broke 3 ribs ... so it was leave or kill him
Fuckin' hell  You should have done the latter Mach 
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Nero said: Sweeny79 said: Well my ex is now my bf again so...
to mak a loooonnnnggg story short..... We were togther 7 years, started when we were too young idealistic, naive etc... We fought to much too much resetment bulit up. I cheated a few times wrecked the shit that was left... left him. Spent a year exploring myself, fixing what was wrong in my own head, dated a few guys,had a good relationship. He did the same. We learned our lessons,reconnected and are now talking about marriage. It's hard sometimes lots of old hurts are still there, but I'm happy. Happier than I was in all 7 years together I think.
That's a good story, minus the part about you cheating...
It's good to see something can be worked out in some cases. Happy endings are nice sometimes. Very nice In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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senik said: Mach said: because he threw me off the pourch and broke 3 ribs ... so it was leave or kill him
Fuckin' hell You should have done the latter Mach
I have an ex like that too. Mach----> In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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senik said: Nero said: Well... after a year spent together, full of wonderful, kick ass times, I went through a bit of turmoil and rather than stand beside me, the ex decided to tell me I had "changed too much" and that he wanted to find someone a bit more his own age and "ready to settle down."
I was, of course, furious. I didn't even see it coming. Sure, we argued from time to time... almost always over such piddly shit like who was the superior Jeopardy player. We had a very intense and, so far as I can possibly say, loving relationship that was there one day, and gone the next. So, I told him I hoped his cock fell off and he died and all sorts and sent him on his merry way.
I knew he cared because he called a bit, but I told him he had to stop or else I'd never get over it. So, several weeks later, I felt better and gave him a call. I've been a mess for months. I cry when I hear certain songs, or pass certain places he and I have been and had wonderful times.
It's been very hard for me to fathom that he could be the way he was, and then just up and dump me. Anyhow, we're getting together for a date and a retrial on Sunday. We'll see. I love that guy. Number23 told me that every sock has a shoe. The ex, N., is my shoe. I don't care to try on another pair. Sad story
But funny in bits
Sell your tale to a big movie studio and then wave the moola in his face and say
I'd share the money with him. I'm like that. I love that guy. Insatiable taught me everything I know about balls.
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senik said: Mach said: because he threw me off the pourch and broke 3 ribs ... so it was leave or kill him
Fuckin' hell You should have done the latter Mach
i wanted to ... but my ribs were broke lucky bastid | |
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i was just thinking recently that for the first time, i really don't want anything to do with any of my exes. i don't necessarily mean that in a bitter or angry or unpleasant way - i'm just very happy with who i'm with, and i finally feel 100% that the people in my past can just stay in my past, and not be a part of my present or my future. sometimes i'm reminded of someone and i miss 'em for a second, but i think of how it was then and how it is now, and the melancholy doesn't last very long at all. | |
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Sweeny79 said: senik said: Fuckin' hell You should have done the latter Mach
I have an ex like that too. Mach----> bastids !!  | |
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Mach said: because he threw me off the pourch and broke 3 ribs ... so it was leave or kill him
ahhhh, my sis-mon, My "ex" gave me a concussion. Good for you, and me to leave those shits. and sweeny! edit [Edited 5/10/05 20:17pm] | |
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Nero said: senik said: Sad story
But funny in bits
Sell your tale to a big movie studio and then wave the moola in his face and say
I'd share the money with him. I'm like that. I love that guy. Well just don't keep breaking each other's heart next time 
If it's true two-way  , then I hope it all works out for you both come this Sunday 
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Mach said: senik said: Fuckin' hell You should have done the latter Mach
i wanted to ... but my ribs were broke lucky bastid He's not so lucky now that you've left him, the fucking crumb. "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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Mach said: Sweeny79 said: I have an ex like that too. Mach----> bastids !! I have always tried to see the best in everyone, but I've come to the conclusion that some people are just  
But we are ok now and no doubt they are still the fucked up monsters they were then.  for us. Fuck them. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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bluesbaby said: ahhhh, my sis-mon, My "ex" gave me a concussion.
Did you report these excuse for men to the police!? I fucking scumbags like that. I hate to say this but there's too many blokes like that in my areas. They're known for it as well but because of "community connections" nobody does fuck all. I wish I could have a 5 minute "dance" with these cunts. They're the worse type of man. "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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senik said: bluesbaby said: ahhhh, my sis-mon, My "ex" gave me a concussion.
Did you report these excuse for men to the police!? I fucking scumbags like that. I hate to say this but there's too many blokes like that in my areas. They're known for it as well but because of "community connections" nobody does fuck all. I wish I could have a 5 minute "dance" with these cunts. They're the worse type of man. no, I was younger then, and thought it was an accident.....yada yada yada.. it wouldn't happen today, I tell ya. | |
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senik said: bluesbaby said: ahhhh, my sis-mon, My "ex" gave me a concussion.
Did you report these excuse for men to the police!? I fucking scumbags like that. I hate to say this but there's too many blokes like that in my areas. They're known for it as well but because of "community connections" nobody does fuck all. I wish I could have a 5 minute "dance" with these cunts. They're the worse type of man. if i would have chose to stay in detroit i would have ... perhaps a restraining order but it was time for me to move away from the city and all her darkness anyway it may see alittle odd to some but i am greatful he treated me so badly because of it...i set out towards a new better life | |
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Mach said: senik said: Did you report these excuse for men to the police!? I fucking scumbags like that. I hate to say this but there's too many blokes like that in my areas. They're known for it as well but because of "community connections" nobody does fuck all. I wish I could have a 5 minute "dance" with these cunts. They're the worse type of man. if i would have chose to stay in detroit i would have ... perhaps a restraining order but it was time for me to move away from the city and all her darkness anyway it may see alittle odd to some but i am greatful he treated me so badly because of it...i set out towards a new better life its so weird how afterward you realize the depth of something that happens in your life, and how much it truly changes you in ways you don't know until years later. | |
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bluesbaby said: Mach said: if i would have chose to stay in detroit i would have ... perhaps a restraining order but it was time for me to move away from the city and all her darkness anyway it may see alittle odd to some but i am greatful he treated me so badly because of it...i set out towards a new better life its so weird how afterward you realize the depth of something that happens in your life, and how much it truly changes you in ways you don't know until years later.  that's so true sista mon ...
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of the three guys i've dated.
The First one we were both addicts and i got sober he didn't THe second one was a pathological liar The third moved across the country You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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 ...Mach, Bluesbaby, Sweeney... 
My ex...well it is just too long to explain...but of this I am sure. It wadn' ME!  "We love you from the bottom of our hearts to the top of our souls...thank you!" Prince ~ Musicology Tour ~ Denver 8/2004 | |
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because he was an immature dork  hi if you're reading this  | |
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charlottegelin said: because he was an immature dork
hi if you're reading this  "We love you from the bottom of our hearts to the top of our souls...thank you!" Prince ~ Musicology Tour ~ Denver 8/2004 | |
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ehuffnsd said: of the three guys i've dated.
The First one we were both addicts and i got sober he didn't THe second one was a pathological liar The third moved across the country Damn! 
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SammiJ said: he stopped loving me.
and claimed he never really did. I want to kick his ass for you! M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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The only person I really call my ex had an obnoxious habit of sleeping with people in front of me. I was with him for almost 8 years. I kept trying to make it work. I finally got sick of it and broke up with him. He is the love of my life. I don't know why but he is. We're friends now. It took a long time to get there.
M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: The only person I really call my ex had an obnoxious habit of sleeping with people in front of me. I was with him for almost 8 years. I kept trying to make it work. I finally got sick of it and broke up with him. He is the love of my life. I don't know why but he is. We're friends now. It took a long time to get there.
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because she was a pretentious bitch!!!!! | |
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