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PrintableThreadCula said: DexMSR said: Divorce rate from NoMarriage.com
Divorce rate information. 4 out of 5 men regret marrying. Divorce rate is around 60%. Majority of remaining married men are stuck in sexless marriages with nagging and bitching wives, but they choose not to divorce because they are afraid of being wiped out financially during divorce. Furthermore, majority of relatively happy marriages are among very religious people, people choosing to live a simple lifestyle, people living in the rural South/Midwest, and recent Hispanic immigrants. If you are a normal American guy living in a large metropolitan area marrying a normal college-educated American woman who is looking for the American dream (a nice house, kids, good life), then you have over 95% chance of either getting divorced or trapped in a miserable marriage. DON'T DO IT!!! 
And will someone tell me why it is that the Oh come on...that is so one sided Let's not forget the sexless women who do the laundry,cook & clean for fat lazy men who do nothing but watch tv,burp and scratch their asses. And when she does have sex its one fake Oscar award winning orgasm after another. Marriage is not a horrible thing. What makes it horrible is when people get married and they dont know why they are getting married. Or they buy into that Hollywood fantasy and forget marriage is hard work & compromise. And I don't feel any sympathy for those cats who regret marrying. You have to be completely honest with yourself and ask, "Why am I getting married? Can I do this 24/7 for the rest of my life?". If you can't make the comittment, don't do it. | |
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uPtoWnNY said: ThreadCula said: Oh come on...that is so one sided Let's not forget the sexless women who do the laundry,cook & clean for fat lazy men who do nothing but watch tv,burp and scratch their asses. And when she does have sex its one fake Oscar award winning orgasm after another. Marriage is not a horrible thing. What makes it horrible is when people get married and they dont know why they are getting married. Or they buy into that Hollywood fantasy and forget marriage is hard work & compromise. And I don't feel any sympathy for those cats who regret marrying. You have to be completely honest with yourself and ask, "Why am I getting married? Can I do this 24/7 for the rest of my life?". If you can't make the comittment, don't do it.  The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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Byron said: DexMSR said: Church invents Marriage.
Government invents the "contractual" agreement and it's "laws". Lawyers are the only persons that can act as laisons in court right? So.....how can you not see how this is a cycle at work? But, you're saying it's done so that the government can make money...yet you don't really show where or how the government makes enough money from this cycle to make it worth their while to even bother. Like I said, control would be a MUCH better reason for conspiracy than some phantom "money making machine" at work behind the scenes. If anything, what would make sense is saying that institutions found a way to make money from the "conspiracy of control" called marriage that was already in place...not the other way around as you're saying. [Edited 5/3/05 12:07pm] 
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billyjackbitch said: Byron said: But, you're saying it's done so that the government can make money...yet you don't really show where or how the government makes enough money from this cycle to make it worth their while to even bother. Like I said, control would be a MUCH better reason for conspiracy than some phantom "money making machine" at work behind the scenes. If anything, what would make sense is saying that institutions found a way to make money from the "conspiracy of control" called marriage that was already in place...not the other way around as you're saying. [Edited 5/3/05 12:07pm]
Byron....think about legislature that gets passed and how the church influences this, then factor in the money making industry (which we don't see it as called Lawmaking) and see how certain marriage laws have come to pass at the hands of the religious right and how in turn it affects the GNP (money making potential) of the lawyers of the world. Carry on.... Then....we have something that is called "constituency" which the lawyers represent, but certain campaign "contributions" that will sway a certain group of politicians or just one in order to keep the money making machine a well oiled one. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Divorce rate from NoMarriage.com
Divorce rate information. 4 out of 5 men regret marrying. Divorce rate is around 60%. Majority of remaining married men are stuck in sexless marriages with nagging and bitching wives, but they choose not to divorce because they are afraid of being wiped out financially during divorce. Furthermore, majority of relatively happy marriages are among very religious people, people choosing to live a simple lifestyle, people living in the rural South/Midwest, and recent Hispanic immigrants. If you are a normal American guy living in a large metropolitan area marrying a normal college-educated American woman who is looking for the American dream (a nice house, kids, good life), then you have over 95% chance of either getting divorced or trapped in a miserable marriage. DON'T DO IT!!!
And will someone tell me why it is that the 4 out of 5 women co-sign   | |
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DexMSR said: Divorce rate from NoMarriage.com
Divorce rate information. 4 out of 5 men regret marrying. Divorce rate is around 60%. Majority of remaining married men are stuck in sexless marriages with nagging and bitching wives, but they choose not to divorce because they are afraid of being wiped out financially during divorce. Furthermore, majority of relatively happy marriages are among very religious people, people choosing to live a simple lifestyle, people living in the rural South/Midwest, and recent Hispanic immigrants. If you are a normal American guy living in a large metropolitan area marrying a normal college-educated American woman who is looking for the American dream (a nice house, kids, good life), then you have over 95% chance of either getting divorced or trapped in a miserable marriage. 4 out of 5 women co-sign
DON'T DO IT!!!
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[/quote]Yes...how about...let's just stay together in bliss and happiness the best we possibly can. Fuck a "contract" of love that just applies undo pressure upon the sheep that actually do it! Don't get me wrong, I believe in a union if you are built for it, but don't cause yourself unneccessary stress brought on by outside influences by giving into yet another unnatural notion. [/quote]
So agree. I wonder who creates the unrealistic 'wants' which destroy marriage. [Edited 6/3/05 19:14pm] [Edited 6/6/05 10:50am] As equality grows, violence declines. |
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i will never get married  . its for the birds,sheep, whatever you wanna call it | |
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Electrostar said: Yes...how about...let's just stay together in bliss and happiness the best we possibly can. Fuck a "contract" of love that just applies undo pressure upon the sheep that actually do it! Don't get me wrong, I believe in a union if you are built for it, but don't cause yourself unneccessary stress brought on by outside influences by giving into yet another unnatural notion.[/quote] So agree. I wonder who creates the unrealistic 'wants' which destroy marriage. [Edited 6/3/05 19:14pm] [/quote] Amen!!  The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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